The Break Time Podcast

After a man compares the treatment African men give their African wives vs foreign (read White) wives, he raises a racially charged question. This doesn't leave a good taste, but in his analysis, he raises something important.  Different partners are sometimes treated vastly differently by the same partner, but why? Is there a logical reason or is it all subjective?  >Give your feedback he...

In a bizarre case of playing Devil's Advocate (or just looking at things differently), a closer look at Andrew Tate (or at least what he says) is made. There's a lot of theatricality in there, but there may be nuggets of wisdom.  Could it be that we've been hating him for all the wrong reasons?  >Give your feedback here< The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram....

A man's clip resurfaces where he speaks on how his colleagues are slow, and most of the women won't be affected as badly as the single ones.  So, Ahh shit... Here we go again >Give your feedback here< The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreaktime_podcast/ My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/denver_bagaka/ My Twitter: https://twitter.com/BagakatheD   B...

It's been a wild year with interesting twists and turns for many out here. Even if it didn't feel nuanced or good/bad, it was definitely not the same as 2025. It wasn't for the dating and relationships scene either.  So let's see if those changes (or the major ones) were highlighted in this episode. Some you probably know, but there's definitely something new there you did...

Following an article and online discussion, the concept that boyfriends have become an embarrassment has become a point of debate. The idea of posting your significant other highlights the negativity that some people exhibit while concealing some of the reasons why others follow you on social media.  Are the men embarrassing now, or is there more to it than that?  Could it be that some women are t...

A Reddit post on why many young men aren't dating today sparks a discussion on the current state of dating. There are a ton of distractions and alternatives, and many are so disconnected from society that the idea of dating seems more like a challenge than an opportunity.  But why?  >Give your feedback here< The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreaktime_podcas...

Fresh from a collab recording, a thought on the delusion that makes Wes feel love creates a theory on why many men may be insulating themselves from love. This is reinforced by the realisation that there's to be a change in how many Kenyan men are commenting on women online.  Many have stopped dropping compliments and are instead speaking on the possibility of very beautiful women only being...

It's all about the bonds we try to make and those that don't seem to stick with us. There's a case of paternity fraud that's hit its biggest advocate, and there's a burning question many need answered.  A paternity-testing champion recently went online to tell many how he found out that his daughter isn't his. Clout or not, there's something serious about it. The...

It's all about dating in this episode, although the women may need to listen and consider a few things. This is because there's a man trying to move in, and a woman trying to make them date a lot of guys.  A man gives details on how to move into a woman's house, which angers some but concerns others. Then a woman claims that rotational dating is culturally African (therefore correct...

It's an episode on the other gender, and in it, there's nothing but bad math and FYIs for men to get and for women to disagree with. A woman is speaking on dating beautiful women, but has no idea how misled and miscalculated she is.  Then, a man on Reddit asks for something important. He wants tips on how to understand all women, but under some conditions: They must be easy, they must be...

It's the end of the month, and there's trouble in the British waters as different people speak on things they may have limited experience in. Women in the government want a specific type of p*rn banned, but for reasons that can't directly track back to the content, or its viewers.  A 23-year-old man speaks on how the dating market is a mess for women because men have zero masculinit...

It's an episode full of misunderstandings as an experienced doctor makes a claim and a young man questions his reality. A Harvard physician makes a bold (and mostly unhinged) claim on a podcast, which elicits a wild reaction.  A young man shares his experience of trying to find potential mates in Nairobi, prompting many to offer unsolicited advice. What many may not know is that his experienc...

It's a combination of topics making up this episode, as society refuses to change with the times, yet some people are forced to. We dive into men, women, money and relationships to figure out where things went wrong.  Men aren't being seen in clubs and events, and everyone's got some reason for it... but I doubt it's for the reasons they think. Then there's empowered women...

In this episode, we try to look at two issues: not enough potential suitors and not enough to be a potential suitor.  A clip from a podcast details strategies some women are employing to get in touch with potential suitors, which may be seen as innovative or just downright creepy.  A lady mentions how she's in such a tough financial position that she can't date. There should be light at...

In this episode, we continue our discussions on relationships, politics and how the two have made Wesley Jeff a seer to many and a force for good.  Expect to learn how Wes got into politics as well as his political ambitions, the wild sides of people in relationships today, and what the immediate future of politics looks like for Kenya... Find Wesley Jeff: https://www.tiktok.com/@its_jaywes >Gi...

In this episode we discuss relationships, politics and how the two have made Wesley Jeff a seer to many and a force for good.  Expect to learn how Wes got into politics as well as his political ambitions, the wild sides of people in relationships today, and what the immediate future of politics looks like for Kenya... Find Wesley Jeff: https://www.tiktok.com/@its_jaywes >Give your feedback here...

It's all about dating today... and how some of y'all seem to be missing marks out here. There's an influencer claiming that millennial women are better than Gen Z women, and there's some opinionated truth to this.  There's also a millennial trying to date, but he says it's no longer as safe, and he misses some of the nuance that a relationship (like the one he once ha...

It's all about learning in this episode and from babies to older folk, class is in session to learn a little bit more about the penis-carrying gender we refer to as men.  There's a new alternative to sperm banks, and it's not as new as you'd think. In it are some interesting changes, but some revelations are just wild. That said, a woman's newfound understanding of men&apo...

It's time for education, and the pupils of today's class are singles (mostly women) who may not fully understand how different dating is today from whenever (or wherever) they used to love it.  Our not-so-favourite lady from the previous episode comes back to explain herself (poorly) before the remarks of a hurting lover girl expose the underbelly of arrogant desires and poorly targeted...

Beliefs are about to be broken and questioned in this episode, which comes with wild and interesting takes. Some animals are getting down to it in a way that's unexpected of wild animals, and there's questions that need to be asked regarding that.  Then a person's experience at a singles' event turned her sour as she concluded that "the bar is in hell" because of a ch...

It's all about singles in this inquisitive piece as the idea of identifying single men via senses sounds as realistic as getting into a relationship via phone call... but both claims were still made.  There's research claiming that women can smell if a man is single, but there's some skepticism to it. Then a lady claims that a relationship can be as simple as a phone call away, so s...

This was an episode for those desiring greatness (or someone with it) but also ready to take a bit of eccentricism. There's talk about the appreciation a man can get from a woman based on when he showed care for her which doesn't hold water.  A Tiktoker spoke about great men making for bad husbands and she seems loaded with real facts about her beliefs. There may be some truth, but there...

It's all about dating in this time-warped episode as we not only look at the past and present dating desires, but also what the future might hold for dating.  The founder of Bumble believes AI may shape the future of online dating, and she has an idea of how. But before we get there, there's a lot that women are saying about how the modern man needs to take from his predecessor, the trad...

There's a lot of misunderstanding as a man fails to understand men, which leads into society misunderstanding men.  A psychologist is getting the concept of the body count wrong (at least from a male's perspective) and someone has to realign things. Then a question posed reveals what many get wrong about who wants marriage more today... >Give your feedback here< The Break Time Podc...

It's all about letting boys be boys yet for some reason someone (or some people) just can't seem to stop saying that the "others" are better.  A lady speaks on how much worse gym bros are in the bedroom before someone calls out today's boys, claiming that tomorrow's men will be weaker than ever.  >Give your feedback here< The Break Time Podcast Instagram: https:...