The Brave and Balanced Fundraiser

Trading guilt for curiosity so you can fundraise with more ease, energy, and self-trust. That nagging voice that says you should be doing more ? Most fundraisers know it well. In this episode, Erin unpacks fundraising guilt—the kind that shows up at 3 a.m. with a running list of everything you didn’t do—and why using guilt as your main motivator quietly drains your energy, creativity, and joy. Ins...

How a major gifts fundraiser prevents burnout by planning emotional refills on purpose. Fundraising asks a lot of your brain, your heart, and your nervous system. In this conversation, Erin sits down with major gifts fundraiser Melody Wells to talk honestly about what it costs to pour yourself into donor relationships—and how she intentionally fills back up so she can keep doing the work she loves...

What to do when your expertise isn’t respected—and how to stop making it mean something about you. 📘 Episode Summary What happens when you bring solid fundraising expertise—and someone with less experience dismisses it? In this episode, Erin explores a common but rarely discussed dynamic: being treated like “the help” instead of a strategic professional. She shares a personal story about having h...

A somatic, compassionate practice to regulate your nervous system before making the ask. 📘 Episode Summary This bonus meditation is a guided somatic practice designed to support you before donor meetings, fundraising conversations, or any moment when anxiety begins to take over. In this practice, Erin gently guides you through grounding in your body, noticing your felt experience, and working wit...

A somatic look at stress, pressure, and the internal signals fundraisers ignore. Fundraising anxiety isn’t a mindset problem — it’s a nervous system response. In this episode, Erin breaks down why fundraisers experience tight chests, clenched stomachs, throat pressure, and racing thoughts when preparing to make an ask… and why none of this means you’re bad at your job. Drawing on somatic practice,...

Understanding the emotional cost of fundraising—and why it’s not your fault. 📘 Episode Summary Why do fundraisers leave their jobs every 16–24 months? In this episode, Erin reveals the hidden pattern driving burnout: the chronic under-resourcing of the fundraiser’s inner life. Erin shares how rising goals, shifting funders, and donor pressure interact with deeper, often unconscious beliefs about...

Why fundraisers burn out—what it costs us, and what becomes possible when we finally turn inward and get free. Episode Summary In this opening episode, Erin McQuade-Wright—former professional fundraiser of 15 years—shares why she created The Brave & Balanced Fundraiser and why focusing on the inner life of the fundraiser is not only healing… but essential for our sector’s sustainability. Fundr...

A podcast for fundraisers ready to stop burning out and start showing up whole. Summary Welcome to The Brave and Balanced Fundraiser , a podcast created for fundraisers who are committed to their mission and ready to care for their inner world. Hosted by former professional fundraiser and coach Erin McQuade-Wright , this show is your space to breathe, realign, and reconnect with the part of you th...