The Blindspot An Enneagram Podcast

Are you ready for rejection??? Join us for our last interview with Belinda Gore on the rejection type object relation. Hoping you join me in her class starting February 24th. Sign up here https://belindagore.com/enneagram/ Wanting to join FREE classes with me this month? Check out my new website KaraNanceMD.com to register.

She's back! Join Belinda and I as we unpack the object relationship pattern of the frustration types 1,4, and 7. I hope you will join me in Belinda's seven week course on object relations starting February 24th on zoom. You can register here https://deepcoachinginstitute.com/object-relations-and-the-enneagram-part-one/ Kara is offering free practice groups on zoom for Resonant Healing, Nonviolent...

I'm so excited to bring you the latest epidsode of The Blindspot where I got to interview my teacher, Sarah Peyton, on why resonant healing is such a beautiful way to work with the core wounds of our Enneatype. In this episode we unpack the neurobiology of the centers of intelligence and introduce listeners to the beauty of Resonant Language. Sarah is offering an 8 week series in resonant language...

We're so happy to have Belinda Gore, the well known expert on object relations and the Enneagram, back to focus on the attachment types 3, 6, and 9. Join us as Belinda and I discuss the nuances of the attachment types. Belinda has a seven week course on object relations starting this February. You can register at https://deepcoachinginstitute.com/object-relations-and-the-enneagram-part-one/ If you...

Meet Trevor Walsh, a Counsellor at Vancouver Coastal Health who also has his own private Enneagram based counselling practice. This is a long episode and I just couldn't cut any of it because I so enjoyed the places our conversation took us. Trevor manifests components of all three instinctual drives and has historically identified as SP. We also talk alot about Meyer's Briggs typology and why thi...

Meet Freya Kennedy, a transformationalist and Enneagram coach that came on today to explore her tender side. In this episode we talk about Why does the MBTI sometime change over time? Perimenopause and the relationship to the sexual instinct What's the difference between the way a Type 2 and Type 3 manage their attachment to image in a rejection vs. attachment type way The beauty of giving AND rec...

Kara interviews her colleague Darren Yee who is a Myers Briggs typologist and works for the NYU Entrepreneurial Institute where he provides coaching to those in launching startups. Darren is new to the Enneagram and was lacking some clarity over his type and stack so he offered to have his typing session recorded so you can learn some of the important difference between the point five and point ni...

This week I was lucky enough to interview Sterlin Mosley, author of the book The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: Recognizing the 27 Types of Narcissism which was only released two weeks ago. Sterlin Mosley graduated from the University of Oklahoma with Master’s Degree in Human Relations with an emphasis on counseling and personality psychology. Dr. Mosley received his PhD in Communication foc...

Kara reviews where The Blindspot has been, expresses gratitude and talks about what the winter solstice means to her and what she wants to open herself up to. Kara also announces what's coming in 2023 as she continues to expand her offerings! Email at contact@enneagramblindspots.com if you would like to join the live group on zoom that Kara will facilitate for the exploration of advanced Enneagram...

Meet Saleh Vallander, author of The Neurobiology of the Enneagram. Saleh is a 29 year old medical doctor from Stockholm, Sweeden who has intensely studied affective neuroscience and the work of one of my favorites, Jaak Panksepp. Saleh is a SX 531 with INTP cognitive preferences. Learn how the body center maps onto the rage circuit in the brain, the heart center maps onto the grief circuit, and th...

Meet Derek Kirkland, a strategic change leader at DPR Construction as well as a Professional Certified Coach through New Ventures West. Enjoy a spontaneous first time conversation between a SO 3w2 and a SP 3w2 and have fun noting the similarities and differences.  Learn more about the idea of "competition" in the Three, attachment types, and the vision of Kara's new business venture. We also clari...

Meet Carolyn, a 41 year old midwife from Canada willing to speak so bravely from her heart about her expression of stack and type. What does it mean to be integrated in body, heart, and mind? What are faux feelings? Kara explains the difference between emotions, thoughts, and feelings and how her sensing, looking, and listening practice, Nonviolent Communication and Resonant Healing skills support...

Meet Timothy Sommerlad! A 21 year old point six, ENFP film student from University of Southern Queensland, Australia. Timothy has a background in theology so we unpack where his journey has taken him so far and discuss why the dragon is the embodiment of the integration of all three instinctual drives.  Timothy has been producing Enneagram videos at @timothysommerladenneagram on YouTube and is the...

Meet the magnificent Manya, a 72 year old SP/SO/SX 6 with INFP cognitive preferences. Manya started as a massage therapist, went to medical school and became a physician at the age of 37 and then transitioned into corporate coaching and facilitation. She will be a certified Enneagram teacher by August 2023 and has amazing insights from her journey as she shares her wisdom about the SP instinct if...

Meet the brilliant and wise 3w4 ENFP Belinda Gore for an exploration of object relations and wings. We discuss how the enneagram intersects with Meyers Briggs, astrology, meditation, and the Diamond Approach. And did you know there is a FOURTH instinctual drive? Belinda learned about the Enneagram 30 years ago from Russ Hudson and Don Riso and has been a member of the IEA since its inception. Beli...

In this episode we meet SO/SX/SP Catherine Bell, the founder of the Awakened Company and the host of Russ Hudson's Green Room group that I've been a part of since its inception in 2021. Catherine is the embodiment of a SO dominant individual as is further exemplified in her many offerings depicted below. Enjoy hearing her story and what she's about as she radiates the SO/SX/SP instinctual energies...

Meet the magnificent Maggie Oberman SO/SX/SP 2w1. Maggie was born with lipodystrophy which gives her face and body a very unique look. Listen to this inspiring and heartwarming interview about how she has really leaned into her true power as a vibrant and inspiring being. How does Maggie’s SO dominance show up in her nonprofit work? How is Maggie’s SP instinct show up in relation to her health cha...

Kara continues her conversation from last week with Chris where they explore Chris' instinctual stacking and hear the joy she is experiencing from the integration of her sexual blindspot. Kara summarizes how the instinctual drives show up both in health and unconsciousness and helps Chris unpack her relationships to these drives. We also explore the use of psychedelics to support healing trauma an...

Meet Chris and hear about her life path as a SO/SP/SX 8. We cover what a traumatized 8 can look like and what a recovery journey for this type can be. We talk about trauma and how the rejection types deal with stress.  Check out the free trauma summit going on right now for some access to great learning! https://collectivetraumasummit.com/ Please contact me at contact@enneagramblindspots.com if yo...

This week we meet Natalie and hear about her life path as a SX/SO/SP 9w8. If you would like to work with Natalie you can email her at natazolg@gmail.com .  Her new wellness coaching business is mindyourwellnesscoach.com where she uses her enneagram informed techniques to help others navigate the places in their lives they feel stuck.  Kara Nance is offering free consultations to work on typing, En...

Meet Linda! Our SO/SP/SX 1w9 and hear about her experience of type an stack Linda expands on the importance of the social instinct How does Linda connect with her sexual blindspot? What is body center’s relationship to anger? Linda talks about the defense mechanism of point one – reaction formation What are the cultural issues around anger? Why do all mother’s have to work with some Type 1 anger  ...

Meet Ben! Our SP/SO/SX 6w5 with 694 trifix Why boundaries are important to Ben and how he works with his tendency toward rigidity How does type show up in our sleep patterns and why do we both love cuddling up with 9’s How does Ben know he’s SP dominant? How can Kara have so much “buzz” and be SX blind? Kara and Ben describe their relationships to their SX blind instinct How has Ben worked with hi...

This week I share my experience of 30 years of intimate partnership with three different 9’s and invite you into the dynamic with my SO dominant 9w1, 964 trifix. 3:00 – Listen to Kara talk about what she loves about nines 7:00 – Kara shares her experience of growing up with two body centered parents 11:00 – How do we help 9’s get in touch with their anger? 12:30 – How do nines avoid the experience...

This week we’re exploring the relationship chemistry between a SP/SO/SX 3 INTJ with a 395 trifix and a SP blind 9 ENFP with a 926 trifix  Listen to how tritype can help some find their way to core type Listen to how Caryn & Sebastian found their way to their types and stack Kara explains how Meyer’s Briggs type can also influence expression of subtype Kara unpacks how SP dom can look very differen...

Kara shares something about the pain her blindspots have caused her. John and Kara how the instinctual energies show up in film and television and provide an overview of attachment types as well as a summary of attachment theory. Kara and John discuss the different ways attachment and hexad types enter relationships. Kara describes her theory on the anxious/avoidant dance of the attachment types....