The Becoming Her Podcast with Jessica Young

In this final episode of the Pain Has a Purpose series.... I’m getting raw, vulnerable, and straight to the point. You can either get burned by the fire but keep walking through it … or you can just be burned by the fire and stay stuck in it. The choice is yours. Your pain doesn’t have to be wasted. It doesn’t have to define you. It can be the very thing that pushes you to change. But here’s the h...

Series: Pain Has a Purpose In Episode 1 of the series, we talked about how “It Had to Hurt.” And now… we’re going deeper. This episode is for the moments you’ve sat in the wreckage of a closed door, a failed plan, a broken heart—and wondered, “God, why?” But what if that pain wasn’t random? What if it wasn’t punishment? What if it was on purpose ? In this continuation of the Pain Has a Purpose ser...

Series: Pain Has a Purpose Let’s be real… nobody likes pain. But what if the thing that hurt you was actually sent to help you? In this kickoff episode of my Pain Has a Purpose series, we’re talking about the kind of pain that doesn’t feel fair—but ends up being exactly what we needed. The truth is, it wasn’t an accident. That heartbreak, that closed door, that thing you begged God to change? It w...

Let’s be real—we’re all submitting to something .  (No, not the gym schedule we said we’d follow. Oops.)  Whether it’s people-pleasing, control, fear, culture, or comfort food—we tend to hand over our hearts to the wrong things. Meanwhile, God’s over here like, “Hello? I’m the Good Shepherd… remember Me?” In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to submit to God—and why it’s so ea...

Ever tried getting cozy in life just to feel like God yanked the blanket off? Same. In this episode, we're talking about how comfort isn’t always your friend—and how God will lovingly (and sometimes not-so-gently ) nudge you out of it.  Spoiler alert: it's not because He’s mean, it's because He wants you to lean on Him—not your own strength. I’m sharing 3 ways I’ve personally found...

Ready to shake up your perspective on life? In this episode on the Fit with Faith Podcast, we're diving into the thrilling rollercoaster of expectations versus reality.  Ever map out your life's perfect path, envisioning the dream job, soulmate, and lifelong friends, only to find the real world had other plans? Buckle up as we unravel the deliciously unpredictable nature of life!  Discov...

 Hey, everyone! Ready for a chat that flips society’s script on flaws and perfection? In this episode of "______ & Wonderfully Made?" , we're diving into the reality that society loves to have us nitpicking at our flaws and playing the comparison game. Spoiler alert: it's time to ditch that mindset! We'll talk about how our so-called imperfections are actually part of...

If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your li...

New Year, same old resolution drama? No, thanks!  In this episode of Fit with Faith, I'm diving headfirst into the liberating concept of choosing a 'Word of the Year' instead of those pesky New Year’s resolutions that never seem to stick. Join me as I reveal my past words—yes, I have a list—and spill the beans on how they've guided my personal growth and self-development journe...

"Hey, hey! Look who's back and better than ever for Season 2 of Fit with Faith! Whether you're my OG listener or just stumbled onto this audio goldmine, I'm Jessica—your delightful host and your big sister/best friend to help you navigate life's chaos with my coaching, my faith, and maybe a tad too much coffee. In this season opener, yep, I'm taking the low road by re...

In this deeply introspective episode, we explore the perplexing question, "How did I get here?" with inspiration from the journeys of biblical figures like Moses, Ruth, Esther, Daniel, David, the apostles, Job, and Jesus. Through their stories, we uncover the divine orchestration that places each of us exactly where God intends.  This episode is designed to reshape your perspective and i...

In the thrilling conclusion of our "Cutting Season" series, we tackle the art of boundary-building with "Build Your Fence | Why You Need Boundaries."  You see, life isn't just about having a toolbox; sometimes you need a sturdy fence to fend off those pesky intruders—not the cute garden gnomes, but the enemy who’s out to swipe your faith and identity. The enemy loves to us...

In this episode, "Open Your Toolbox: You Already Have What You Need," we dive into the often-overlooked reality that God doesn't leave us high and dry—He's actually given us all we need to handle life's curveballs.  If you somehow missed the memo, remember, you can always ask Him for a little extra help! Our heroine of the day, Moana, brilliantly illustrates how everything...

One of the most frequently asked questions I get is " How do I hear God?" followed up with "I never heard God speak to me" or "He doesn't listen to me" so on and so forth. Well here's the thing, God speaks to you EVERY day and he is ALWAYS answering you... you just aren't listening. In this episode I am going to go over the half marathon I just ran and...

Ever find yourself stuck in a mental loop of "I'm not good enough"? It's time to turn the volume down on that negative self-talk and start believing the truth about who you are.  In this episode, we'll dig deep and uproot the lies that have been taking root in your mind, just like weeding a garden to make space for flowers. We'll draw inspiration from biblical prophet...

So, you thought your garden of life was blooming with roses? Let's face it, Jessica, sometimes those beautiful petals are hiding a bunch of prickly thorns. Join us as we pull on our gloves and get down to the dirty work of identifying and uprooting toxic relationships. Ever feel like your life is overrun by weeds disguised as friends? Yeah, we’ve all been there. In this episode, we're di...

Welcome to Part 3 of my "Into the Sea" mini-series!  Imagine being lost in the deep, dark sea with only your trusty, albeit clueless, exit buddy. Yep, it's about as comforting as it sounds. Join me in this episode where we dive into the hilarious yet terrifying adventure of finding our way to the riverbank. Just like Marlin and Dory in Finding Nemo , we'll face the fear, embrac...

Part 2 of "The Sea" Series  In our last episode, "Lost at Sea," we delved into the turbulent waters of life—exploring the moments when we feel adrift and overwhelmed by doubt and chaos. We touched upon the struggles of finding peace and direction amidst the storm. But I'm not done talking about that, because I want to help you get out of the sea. In this episode, "Fig...

Ever wondered how tripping over your own feet can lead to a standing ovation? In this episode, we explore the art of failing forward—because even when you fall flat on your face, you're still moving ahead! Taking a cue from Madam Leota from Haunted Mansion (because who doesn’t love a good Disney quote?). We’ll unpack why every misstep is just a lesson in disguise and how every mistake is a st...

Feel like you're drifting in an endless ocean of uncertainty and exhaustion? Welcome aboard! In this episode, we tackle the all-too-familiar experience of feeling lost, tired, and overwhelmed in today's chaotic world. We'll navigate through the murky waters of doubt, explore the stormy seas of fatigue, and discuss why you need to keep your eyes locked on the compass of faith because...

In Episode 18, "The Plague of Progress: Advancements in Emptiness," we uncover the hidden cost of our tech-driven world. While technological advancements promise convenience and connection, they often leave us feeling more isolated and spiritually empty.... We've created gadgets galore, and yet, we're emptier than ever.  How ironic.  Join me as I dive into the delightful world...

In this enlightening episode on "Fit with Faith," we delve into the profound themes of divine provision and protection.  Sometimes, it may feel like we're being held back, but what if this is all part of God's masterful plan?  Discover how intentional delays serve a greater purpose and how rejection can be a powerful redirection toward your true calling. In Psalm 17:8-15, David...

In this powerful episode, we explore the pressing issue of modern-day Christian persecution. I will address the recent controversy at the Olympic ceremony, discussing its implications for Christians and how this affects the world. We'll take an in-depth look at real-life stories of global persecution and I will offer biblical guidance on how to stand firm in your faith despite adversity.  Fro...

In this episode of "Fit with Faith," we explore the essential steps to move forward in life, overcoming obstacles, and changing for the better with the power of faith. Whether you're dealing with past hurts, disappointments, or personal challenges, discover how to press on with courage and trust in God's plan. We'll delve into personal stories, biblical wisdom, prayer and...

Join me for another inspiring episode of God’s Relationship Rehab where we’ll dive into the divine art of healing after heartbreak. I’ll explore how to master forgiveness in relationships — because we all know it’s easier said than done! I chat about the importance of setting boundaries and showing respect, because protecting your peace is non-negotiable and without boundaries you're not resp...