The Bearing

Send a text Traditionally, Nigerian culture holds elders in high esteem, valuing their wisdom and leadership in maintaining family order and passing down cultural values.   However, as society progresses and modernizes, the authority of elders is increasingly being questioned by younger generations.  This development begs the question: have elders lost their voice in the family, or is this a natur...

Send a text Living debt-free in Nigeria may appear like an elusive goal for many due to the country’s economic challenges.   Rising inflation, unemployment, fluctuating exchange rates, and the increasing cost of living have pushed many Nigerians toward borrowing.  Whether it’s securing loans for education, medical bills, or just making ends meet, debt has become a part of daily life for most.  But...

Send a text The idea of the “soft life” has ignited a wave of conversations, challenging how we traditionally define success, hard work, and personal fulfillment. In an era dominated by hustle culture, more people are turning toward a lifestyle that prioritizes comfort, mental well-being, and balance.   Soft life is often seen as a break from the grind, an intentional shift toward a more relaxed a...

Send a text Hustle culture refers to the mentality that glorifies constant work, where productivity and financial success are seen as the ultimate goals.   It’s the “no-days-off” mindset that encourages individuals to always be working on something, whether it’s a side business, a freelance gig, or a new venture. In this episode of The Bearing, we look at the hustle culture in Nigeria and work sma...

Send a text Being a firstborn child is a unique role, one that is often laced with both pride and pressure. Across different cultures, firstborns are expected to be natural leaders, responsible caretakers, and, at times, trailblazers for their younger siblings. Ultimately, being a firstborn, whether in Nigeria or elsewhere, is a role shaped by expectations, responsibilities, and cultural values. J...

Send a text In a time when globalization threatens cultural identities and indigenous languages are fading away, the Hausa language remains a powerful symbol of resilience. Spoken by millions, Hausa is more than just a language; it connects diverse communities across West Africa, carrying with it the rich history, identity, and traditions of its speakers. But what makes this language so enduring,...

Send a text “Use your common sense!” It’s a phrase that gets thrown around in everyday conversations, scoldings, and bits of advice across Nigeria, implying that there’s a shared, obvious understanding everyone should have. But here’s the question: Is common sense really that common? Tune in to today’s episode of our weekly podcast as we dig deep into what “common sense” truly means and why it mig...

Send a text In a world where connections are often fleeting, the timeless dance of dating and courting holds a unique allure. It's a period filled with excitement, anticipation, and the intoxicating thrill of discovering another person experiencing their quirks, shared dreams, and the chemistry that draws two people together. Gone are the days when a simple walk in the park or a shared soda a...

Send a text Sibling rivalry is a natural part of family life, but when left unchecked, it can have serious consequences for both individuals and the family as a whole. It manifests as competition, jealousy, and conflict between brothers and sisters, often beginning in childhood and sometimes extending into adulthood.  While some level of rivalry is natural, it can have profound effects on family d...

Send a text Being a 20-something can be both exciting and daunting.  Because you would only be 20 something once. The twenties are a time of freedom, a period where you begin to become independent, take steps in the working world, and look for the partner you’ll have for a lifetime.  It’s the time where you define how the rest of your life will be. Join us in this episode of the Bearing as we look...

Send a text Nigerian tertiary institutions are bustling hubs of academic pursuit, social interactions, and, of course, food choices. Such food choices aren't just about jollof rice and suya – it’s a survival dance with the wallets and the hustle of lecture halls and the bellies.  It’s safe to say that the  cost of living in Naija has turned feeding patterns into a Nollywood drama. Join us in...

Send a text The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), a scheme established to foster unity and development, brings together young graduates from diverse backgrounds to serve in different parts of Nigeria. While the experience is often enriching, there are many things corps members are not told before they embark on their journey.  What are the things they wish they knew before their NYSC journey, e...

Send a text Whether it’s putting off a project, delaying a personal goal, or simply avoiding a tough conversation, procrastination can be a major roadblock to achieving your dreams. But how does it specifically impact people in Nigeria, and what strategies can be used to overcome it? Join us on this week’s episode of The Bearing to find out.

Send a text In Nigeria, turning 18 is a significant milestone. It's an age when many young adults start to explore their independence, often stepping out into the world on their own. The lessons learned during this period can be critical in shaping their future.  But where do these lessons come from?  Join us on this week’s episode of The Bearing as we explore this intriguing question.

Send a text Traditionally, many cultures have valued the role of the full housewife, but the world is changing, with women chasing careers full time. Would you  rather marry a career woman or a full time housewife? Join us on The Bearing this week as we look at this important decision.

Send a text The trend of doing what it takes to have a figure 8 body shape has become rampant in the country. In this episode of the Bearing, we find out why women are doing what it takes to achieve this Hour glass or Figure 8 body shape.

Send a text In today's fast-paced world, should Nigerians prefer having a degree or a skill? Given today’s job market, which holds more value?  In this episode of The Bearing, we seek to find out which the Nigerian of today should pay more attention to.

Send a text At least 1.5 million Muslims from all over the world have gathered on the plains of Arafah in Saudi Arabia for one of the most important Hajj rites today. Among these are 65,000 Nigerians who, despite the grueling economic situation at home, flew to the Holy Land for this once-in-a-lifetime experience. This episode of The Bearing seeks to discover how they feel about being there and wh...

Send a text Marriage is a significant milestone, and preparing for it financially and emotionally is crucial for its success. But how much exactly should a man have before he can get married? Does taking this big step require financial readiness? Join us on Today's Weekly podcast to find out.

Send a text Trauma experienced when losing someone, often referred to as grief, involves intense emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical distress in response to the death of a loved one. How do people deal with the trauma of losing someone?  Why is it difficult for someone to overcome this trauma? In this episode of The Bearing, we listen to the personal story of Hassana with the hope of...

Send a text The days where one needed a friend to connect with a host of other friends are fast becoming obsolete- A little tap on the net does the magic!. In this episode of The Bearing, we uncover the truth and dynamics of online dating.

Send a text Aisha is a 24-year-old lady who is heavily pregnant. Like many expectant mothers, she dreams of delivering a healthy baby safe and sound. But, unlike many, she faces severe economic challenges that make even the most basic antenatal care and preparations for her baby's arrival seem out of reach.  Join us on The Bearing to hear her story.

Send a text What would you do if, as a student, you discover that you could make a lot of money on social media, especially if you struggle to find food to eat? What would you do if, as a parent, your child decides to drop out to make money online? Join us on The Bearing to find out what some students and parents did when faced with the same dilemma.

Send a text As they grow older, many people look back on their life and regret certain actions or inactions; missed opportunities or unfulfilled goals.  In this episode of The Bearing, we will be at the most common of these regrets and how to avoid them.  Are you young? Join us as you may learn some lessons you will never regret in future.

Send a text Marriage is a new experience for couples, especially young girls. Hence the need to teach a bride-to-be the things to expect and how to manage them, because how they are approached can make or mar the marriage. What are those things and why do parents shy away from telling their children about them? In this episode of The Bearing, we try to find out how ignorance of those things can an...