The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers: Dating, Relationship, Masculinity & Intimacy Guidance For Men

In this weeks Mini-Episode, I answer a question from a listener about our relationship to freedom and being in a relationship.   I talk openly about my struggles when freedom and how I created a relationship where I have all the freedom I desire.   If you are interested in learning about how to create the conscious and free relationship that will nourish your and the life you want to build, join m...

If you got to sit down with a man who is an expert in female pleasure, is an expert of erotic behaviour, and has studied a secret east African technique to help women squirt, what would you ask him?   The answer is ALOT!   Did you know that in Rwanda, there is a technique that young men and women learn that is said to help 90% of women squirt? You can find out all about the practice in this episod...

In this week's podcast mini-episode, I discuss the dangers of being half in and half out of a relationship. We are often in a relationship, especially initially, unsure if we want to be in it. We act half-arsed about the relationship. In this episode, I explain why this dooms a relationship from the start and hurt you.

Can you get enough protein if you are on a plant-based diet?   For many years, gym buddies, personal trainers, and gym owners told me that the answer to this question was categorically NO.   And I am sure you have heard the same thing, right?   For this week's podcast episode, I sit down with Jeffrey Boadi, a man who is on a mission to help you live a healthy, plant-based lifestyle, but not by sha...

In this weeks mini-episode, I talk about how we men (or women) can be more and feel more masculine.

A Conscious relationship, what is one?   What does it feel like to be in one?   Will you have more and better sex if you are in one?   And does it mean that you will have a happier, easy and smooth running relationship if it is more conscious?   These are the questions that I am asked about conscious relationships (and all are answered in the episode).   So I thought I would ask the person I have...

In this weeks mini-episode, I talk about something from a slightly different angle.     I have made many an episode about the ways that men can show up better and the ways that they hurt women in a relationship. But something that I see a lot from men I work with is how the women they are with hurt them and the relationship. But often, the men don't see that the actions are hurting them or feel th...

We talk plenty about Masculine & Feminine Energy when it comes to ourselves and our relationships, but what about in our businesses or the businesses that we work in?     Does Masculine & Feminine Energy have a place in business?     And how can you utilise it and harmonise it to reach higher levels of creativity?     All these questions and way more are answered in this weeks episode with Sabi Ke...

In this week's mini-episode, I get into why men are afraid of commitment and being with the wrong women, the stories they tell themselves about commitment and how I got over my fear of commitment.

What is the man experience of pregnancy?   How do men feel during childbirth?   What use is a man during the birth of his child?   When you hear these questions, you might think the answer to all of them is "not a lot", simply because you don't hear about it very much.   But I sit down with sexologist and men's sex coach Cam Fraser to talk about his experience of pregnancy, childbirth & post-birth...

In this week's Weekly Mini-Episode, I go over a little technique that I have been using with my clients to help them let go of the fearful and anxious thoughts and take the inspired and powerful action to take control of their dating lives.

How do we transform how we think and feel? Do we think our way or feel our way to something different?   This week I sat down and talked to Cordelia Gaffar. Cordelia Gaffar is the Emotions Opener Transformation Strategist guiding leaders to use their darkest and most difficult emotions to show up powerfully.   She is also a seven-time author and expert in using your emotions to transform your life...

In this week's topics, I quickly tackle an issue that was once one of my biggest dating fears, ending up in the wrong relationship.   I talk about the ways that I avoided bad and misaligned relationships.    

in this week's Weekly Mini-Episode, I get into what we men can get out of learning about women's periods and why period sex can be such a loving co-creation.   https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/

Do we men need sexual healing?   It's often assumed that men are sexually liberated, but are they?   I sit down with Amelia Griffiths, a sacred sexual healer and talk about how as men, we can heal their sexual trauma, be that alone, through coaching bodywork and lingam massage.   We get really deep into what sort of shame men carry, how it affects their relationships, sex lives, confidence and abi...

We grow up in a world that dictates to us what we should want, how we should look, what we should buy, who we should date and what we should do for a living. But so many of us follow these rules and end up miserable and confused as to why we aren't happy.   The reason for this is because we are not engaging in what our hearts and soul really want. And not because we don't want to, but because we d...

In this weeks mini-episode, I talk about the 4 types of sex that we have. Each varying in pleasure, connection, emotionally engagement and nurturing.    I talk about the types of sex that you don't want to me having in a relationship and how to experience the high levels of sex and why.

Is seduction always manipulative?   Or has seduction been given a bad name due to the PUA movement?   In this week's episode, my guest Massimo Stocchi-Fontana, sexologist, psychological therapist, sex coach, and yoga teacher, get deep into how we can seduce the people we meet (and our partners) with honesty, love, authenticity and playfulness.   Seducing doesn't have to be dishonest, cohesive or m...

This weeks mini-episode inspired my own feelings and inquiry into not being good enough.   I ask the question, What if you aren't good enough?     What will happen? Can you be happy? Can you be successful? Who decides if you are good enough? What is good enough?   https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/   Ilan's Shaking Video: https://youtu.be/TO2cMBkZDms

What is it like being a professional dominatrix?   Do different dominatrices have different ways of working?   Why do we have disconnected sex?   Who is responsible for your partners' orgasm?   All of these and sooo much more answered in this podcast episode.   I am joined by Lola Jean, a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, pro Domme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting.  ...

In this weeks mini-episode, I explain a little about Incel Culture.  In the past, I have had men come to me for coaching after being exposed to red pill and incel culture due to them wanting to transform how they relate to women.  I talk about what I see in the culture, the incorrect and oversimplified assumptions incels have made, how we can understand these men and how incel men can go about cre...

Just me again this week, but I have a great episode for you.    This episode sprung from a listener request.    In dating, we often come across people that blow hot and cold, on and off. They message you loads, you have a great date, and they go cold, only to come back warm weeks, months, or even years later. Frustrating right?   But why?    Why do men and women do this?   What is happening in the...

This is a little practice that I use to stop disagreements, arguments and conflicts from even happening.  This is something you do, not just something you say.  This practice will stop you from having huge blowout arguments.  

Touch is one of the most misunderstood modes of communication, especially when it comes to sex and intimacy.       We assume that just because it's something we have been doing all our lives that we actually know how to do it well!     Most people (especially men) don't even think about how we touch our partners, both sexually and non sexually.       We don't realise that the way we touch (or lack...

Weekly Mini-Episode: My Experience - How Lack Of A Father Figure Affected My Ability To Have Healthy Romantic Relationship. This is a topic that is really close to my heart, something that I have battled with most of my adult life, and I see in many of the men that I coach. And I see in men around me struggling to create healthy and connected relationships and often ending with them giving up, bel...