The Art Of Coaching

Today we flip the script and my good friend Ali Kershner interviews me, asking personal and professional questions I’ve never addressed on air before.  I’m a relatively private person but for this special Q&A I air out some dirty laundry and answer a few of the tougher questions I’ve gotten over the years.    Sit back, relax, enjoy Ali’s dulcet tones and get a glimpse behind the curtain. Just wait...

If you’ve ever had even the smallest inkling of an idea or desire for putting a figurative pen to paper and writing a book - this one’s for you.  Today’s episode is dedicated to everything I’ve learned, mistakes I’ve made and what you ABSOLUTELY need to know about the process of writing and publishing.  I will warn you- if you’re looking for someone to pump you up and encourage you to drop everyth...

In our industry, those who have a large brand, social media presence or product (regardless of value or purpose) are often met with critiques, sneers, and snide remarks like “what a sellout”... It’s difficult to put yourself out there when surrounded by a profession that has long told you the secret to success is to put your head down and work harder but no one will hear your message or benefit fr...

If we were to question all commonly accepted leadership practices and qualities, which would hold up and which would break down?  On March 20-21, 2021, we’re doing just that. Join us for the first-ever virtual Art of Coaching Communication and Leadership Strategy Summit.  We’re tired of endless Zoom meetings and powerpoint presentations so we’re opting instead for two days of INTERACTIVE discussio...

In case you missed it… our newest resource BLINDSPOT™ is now open!  If you want to clarify your message, find your niche, create meaningful work and use it to help more people - this digital toolkit will be an absolute GAME. CHANGER.  But don’t waste any time - access to BLINDSPOT™ is only open for 2 more days! Click here to sign up now.  ___________________________________________________________...

When done well storytelling can access a primal level of human psychology.  With complex characters, varied settings, unique conflicts and resolution, storytelling is “manipulation for good” teaching us lessons, growth and a better way to live. Coaching is in many ways, storytelling.  Today on the show I’m joined by someone who studies storytelling professionally. Michael Tucker (filmmaker and wri...

Let's not bury the lede - I struggle asking for help. I've often wondered if it's possible to do in a way that doesn't compromise relationships or  reputation because (to the untrained eye) asking for help can seem to convey weakness, lack of fortitude, intelligence, and even organization. But none of us get through life without help in some form... So why do we have such an aversion to it? Today...

Should we niche down or embrace range? If you read the newsletter this week, you know exactly where I stand on this topic. If you haven’t yet, click here to get the full story ! Either way, it’s time to dive deeper into this debate.   Now - before you armor up with your facts and figures about why you’re Team Specialist or Team Generalist... hear me out.  “Niching down” mustn't apply to every aspe...

"I want to put something out there to help more people but I lack the confidence, knowledge or experience to do so." Sound familiar? I've heard these words reverberate in my own head and from the people in our community for a long time. But that statement above - it's not true. In fact, it's a lie. And it's one of many our mind makes up to trick us and hold us back from providing value to those wh...

Every year we hear people utter the phrase “New Year, New You” before launching into a series of nuanced forms of goal setting. While optimism is great, looking ahead without knowing how to identify blind spots that lurk around the corner sets us up to be ambushed. But what is a blind spot? How can you identify one? Most importantly, how does both too much optimism and too much cynicism potentiall...

Welcome to the final episode of 2020. We saved the best for last.  Burnt out from online webinars, Zoom meetings, and long-winded technical presentations? We are too. That’s why we cut the fluff and created something brand new. Introducing the inaugural (and virtual)...   Art of Coaching Communication and Leadership Strategy Summit! On March 20, 2021, hear top leaders from a range of professions s...

On March 21, 2021, we are hosting the inaugural (and virtual)...   Art of Coaching Communication and Leadership Strategy Summit! Hear leaders from a range of professions share essential tactics and strategies for navigating communication challenges in our new normal. After all, the future belongs to those who learn diverse skills and combine them in creative ways.   Sign up here! Now for today’s e...

Today, we’re talking about what’s become a polarizing and almost dirty word: Politics.  But I’m not interested in debating election results or partisan policies. I want to discuss another kind of politics, one that gets less press…  micropolitics.  Micropolitics (also known as office politics) are the tactics we use every day to influence and manipulate a context to suit our needs. It might sound...

There’s a lot of talk about best practices when it comes to coaching children. But what about adults? What does the literature say? How do we optimize coaching for a more mature population? Today, we are joined by Tiffany Peltier, a retired 22-year veteran of the U.S. Coast Guard and current coach and adult educator. In addition to tactics and strategies to optimize adult learning, we discuss: Exp...

People ask me all the time… Can the art of coaching be taught?  The short answer is: yes, everyone can improve their ability to relate to others.  Unfortunately, like most things, it’s not that simple.  In today’s quick hitter we’ll describe who can and can’t be taught the art of coaching (hint: it’s not everyone), and how to guide someone through the process of learning how to better relate, comm...

On this show we don’t shy away from sensitive topics. We aim to bring you real, honest and important conversations. Today’s episode is exactly that. Nate Hoffmeister is a father, husband, coach, and entrepreneur. But he’s also a divorced dad of two. And while this is a narrative shared by many, there are few who have been willing to publicly talk about their experience. Even if his story of divorc...

What would you say or do if you only had 3 seconds to grab someone’s attention? In other words, what’s your Hook Point? These days, attention is a form of currency.  And with the number of stimuli fighting for this attention, one needs to find a way to stand out from the crowd. Without it, it won't matter if you provide something of value - no one will hear you. Luckily, today’s guest can teach us...

If you’re reading this, it’s not too late… (well, unless it’s after November 27th, 2020). THIS IS YOUR LAST CHANCE for 50% OFF ALL DIGITAL COURSES. Use code 'GRATEFUL50' at https://artofcoaching.com/courses/ . I think we can all agree that children need to move, play and explore. But that’s just the start. They also need to develop physical literacy: the ability to perform basic movement skills an...

We know you came for Gunnar, but while you’re here… Now through November 27th, we are offering 50% OFF ALL DIGITAL COURSES. Use code 'GRATEFUL50' at  https://artofcoaching.com/courses/ . Already taken both? There’s a season of gift giving around the corner and we hear they do well under the tree… Okay, on to the show. Gunnar Peterson might work in LA but he’s in no way “Hollywood”. On the contrary...

Hey guys, just a quick reminder… Now through November 27th, we are offering 50% OFF ALL DIGITAL COURSES. Use code 'GRATEFUL50' at  https://artofcoaching.com/courses/ Speaking of being grateful… In 2009 a reckless driver lost control of his vehicle. The aftermath was a scene of twisted metal, blurred memories and a life forever altered. Kendell Bachik was paralyzed. Rather than sink into darkness a...

As a thank you for listening, we are offering 50% OFF ALL DIGITAL COURSES THROUGH NOVEMBER 27TH, 2020. Use code 'GRATEFUL50' at https://artofcoaching.com/courses/ “Servant based leadership is easy to say but hard to define.” Often overused and oversimplified, the term “servant based” has become synonymous with what you see on motivational posters, hear in inspirational soundbites and even the word...

We’ve all experienced the individual that’s a little overzealous or involved when it comes to their child’s sport. Whether you’re a coach or fellow parent, how do you deal with this person? Is it possible to have productive conversations and change their behavior? Is it even worth our time? The answer to these questions is (in most cases) a resounding yes. It just requires some extra research, tac...

Do you use social media or does it use you? Whether you’re a small business owner like myself or an individual trying to develop their brand, social media can be a powerful tool. But if you have an interest in reaching more people and doing so authentically, having a strategy is essential. Today, we are talking to The Movement Maestro (Shanté Cofield) about building a loyal following, choosing you...

As with most things in life, context matters. And whether we intend to or not, our behavior changes depending on our current environment. Yes, being ourselves is important, but it’s not realistic (nor effective) to behave the same way in every situation. Instead, mastering the ability to adapt is key to executing our roles successfully. Stephen Pak has spent his life mastering the art of adaptabil...

There’s no doubt that we are in an unprecedented age of virtual meetings, webinars, and presentations. The goal of this episode is to give the DNA of what makes a great experience and offer a wake-up call for anyone who has not been taking advantage of these experiences; whether you are leading or attending! If you find yourself constantly disappointed and not getting what you want from meetings,...