The 30 Minute Podcast

A couple of months back Pastor Bolaji Idowu complained in a tweet that he's finding it hard to get unmarried people to stop having sex and on the flip side he's finding it difficult to get married couples who should be having sex to actually be intimate with each other. Now, I'm not married but I decided to share my two cents as to why I think both problems are on the increase in the f...

On this episode I look at HYPERGAMY which is defined as the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. After watching an interview on Youtube of a woman who's relationship failed basically because she was earning more and paying all the bills in the home, I began to wonder if it's actually ethical, reasonable or e...

In my life can't remember a single instance when a woman has apologised for something she did to me. If I think long and hard I might be able to remember one or two instancse but regardless, I don't think many women are in the habit of apologising or of taking accountability for their actions, especially when it comes to relationships and I've often wondered why. Something happened in...

Ali Abdaal's video on how to make 2024 the best year of your life provided the template for how I plan to reach my goals this year, 2024. On this episode of the 30 minute podcast I share my plans in 2024 in 9 major areas of my life in line with the 'wheel of life' model. These areas or pillars or parameters are family, friends, growth, money, mission, body, mind, faith/soul and romance...

The debate of what people bring to the table in a relationship or whether that question should be asked at all really made the rounds on social media in 2023. Some were for it, most were against it. In this video, for the benefit of people that are open to the conversation and finding answers, I talk about how you can go about answering that question and I give examples of some things one can say...

On this episode I talk about whether it's important for men to be the spiritual head in a marriage and in the home. After watching a special episode of Dear Future Wifey I had a few questions about being the spiritual head in a marriage and I decided to thrash it out a bit and research what the Bible says on the matter. This was definitely my best episode so far this season. I thoroughly enjoy...

On this episode I talk about why people don’t like being asked the question ‘What do you bring to the table?’ and why it’s actually an important question to ask not just the person you’re dating or talking to but also to ask yourself. I also share my opinion on why men ask the question so much in today’s dating space and what information they seek to gain by asking the question. Please leave me a...

To mark Men’s mental health month this month and International Men's Day I talk about how and why men are reluctant to speak up about challenges they face in life because of the notion that it makes us look weak. I also talk about the people we can talk to about the problems we face and I even share one of my personal challenges and how I would try and solve it by talking to my Dad. Mental hea...

On International Podcast Day, I shared my top 5 foreign podcasts that I listen to. On this episode I share my top 5 Nigerian podcast. If you're looking for new podcasts to get into you can check them out. Also, I'm trying to discover new podcast so please share with me names of Nigerian podcasts you think I'd like. Send me a DM on IG or Twitter on @EniolaTito Here are my top 5 Nigerian...

I give the gentlemen from the recent season of Netflix's Love is blind (Uche, Izzy, Milton, JP & Chris) some advice and I talk about the lessons learnt from the tumultuous show this season

It's the season 1 finale episode and on it, to mark International Podcast Day, I talk about my top 10 foreign podcasts that I listen to. Starting my own podcast back at the beginning of July was scary but it's something I really wanted to do in order to express myself better on different things that interest me and I think it's one of the best decisions I made this year. If you've...

On this episode of The 30 Minute Podcast I react to some ladies' reactions to Kay Réion's tweet where she asked 'What's the worst part of dating in this generation?' Dating nowadays is a mess but it's not because of just one factor. There are several factors at play and on this episode I look at a few of the reasons dating is such a battlefield these days according to the w...

In the comments of my episode about my 30 day fast (Episode 5) a friend asked me to do a video on how I meditate on God's word so on today's episode I share 5 ways that we can meditate on God's word in order to get closer to Him by spending time with Him. Please leave me a comment or a review and rate this podcast with as many stars/points as possible. Thank you and enjoy the episode.

As the year gradually draws to a close I decided to take my search for true love to the next level as I sign up for a paid Whatsapp dating service live on the podcast. I also share my views on the indecent exposure of 'women of easy virtue' at family establishments after an encounter I had recently at Mega Chicken, Lekki, Lagos. Please leave me a comment or a review and rate this podcast with as m...

On this first Q&A on the podcast I ask questions I got asked on social media and the range from topics on my relationships, views on life, favourite food, motivations and my career. Many thanks to everyone that sent in questions. Y'all rock. It was lots of fun answering them and I hope you guys enjoy listening to the episode. Please leave me a comment or a review and rate this podcast with...

For a brief moment during Ali Abdaal’s interview with Behavioural Scientist Logan Ury, they discuss her husband’s battle with cancer and the consequent amputation of one of his legs and the toll it’s taken on their marriage. She shared a particular instance where her husband wanted her to stay at home with him instead of doing for an upcoming trip she’d scheduled with friends and family but he cho...

Physical attraction is arguably the biggest factor in dating today among single people looking to settle down and this applies to the Christian community as well. A person can be spirit-filled, have all the right values and a great personality to boot but can still be rejected or relegated to the friendzone on account of not looking a certain way. Is this valid though? Because physical attraction...

After hearing that single men are having a difficult time approaching and talking to the single women in church Pastor Joseph Aborowa of Highland church, Lagos shared some tips on how to successfully woo church girls during a sermon. His tips weren't without controversy though and in this episode of The 30 minute podcast I look at how practical his recommendations are and if his methods for wi...

Recently I stopped listening to secular music in order to improve my relationship with God and it was based on a challenge by Jackie Hill Perry when she was a guest on Tim Ross' podcast - THE BASEMENT. On the topic of the 30 day challenge, Jackie highlighted the benefits of cutting out certain things from our lives that we may not know are distancing us from God and His spirit and how we would...

My friends Tosin & Adenike Esho just built and moved into their own home in the United States and they've openly shared their journey and the process recently on social media and I found my reaction to it to be quite interesting. How much should we speak publicly and openly about the things God does in our lives? Can such declarations harm us? And why do people of faith often shy away from...

Friendship seems to be taking a big hit these days. Lots of people are losing friends rampantly and aren't making new ones as easily as they used to especially before the era of social media. There's also the fact that we don't seem to be making quality friendships as much as we used to. Friendships that are characterised by openness, trust, vulnerability and sincerity. Recently, autho...

Women have it rough in the dating market but things seem to be particularly tough for women in their late 30's because it seems like their friends keep trying to set them up with much older men. In this episode of the podcast, I use my friend Abimbola's Instagram post on dating as a case study to try and figure out why some people think single men in their 50's and above are the ideal...

I never thought I'd start a podcast. "What was the point? What would I talk about?" Well, here we are. I think it only makes sense to explain in this first episode why I suddenly felt the need to jump on the bandwagon, who the podcast will be for and what will make it different from the rest.