That's Fun

This week, Nikki and Damaris dig into body image—what it looks like to feel good in your skin now , and how that changes after 40. They name the cultural double standard (why “dad bod” gets a wink while “mom bod” gets rules) and talk about shifting from chasing external approval to building self-worth that isn’t tied to a number, a size, or a wrinkle. Nikki shares her “mirror moratorium” (temporar...

Nikki and Damaris are tackling the art (and occasional chaos) of starting a group—from book clubs that actually read the book (or don’t), to crafting circles, card nights, and cozy reading dates where everyone just shows up with whatever’s on their nightstand. They dive into why adults secretly crave structured togetherness, how to make gatherings less intimidating for new friends, and why someone...

When life shifts—kids get older, a job ends, routines change—how do you decide what’s next ? Nikki and Damaris get candid about “Act II” pivots at any age, from the myth that fun fades after 40 to why confidence can make you hotter than your 20s ever did. They talk navigating change: embracing an exploration phase , auditing what you actually want, and looking back to the interests that always tug...

Nikki and Damaris are back in their sweaters—and fully committed to squeezing every ounce of fun out of fall. From apple-picking adventures (complete with impromptu taste tests) to haunted house date nights that deliver equal parts terror and giggles, they make the case for why this season might secretly be the best one. Along the way, they uncover the unexpected joys of porch parties, pumpkin pat...

Nikki and Damaris dive into what it really means to “find joy” in everyday life—and why it’s so much harder than those Instagram grids make it look. Inspired by a listener question and Damaris’s own practice of posting weekly glimmers, they get honest about how noticing a pretty flower or hearing the crack of a sugar-free Red Bull can actually shift your entire week. From mourning pets to skipping...

When you’ve been stuck in bed with a fever and a maybe-too-close call with urgent care…what happens the second you start to feel better? If you’re Nikki and Damaris, apparently the answer is: everything, all at once . Nikki shares the story of her solo road trip with three kids, the bug that derailed it, and how she bounced back by immediately planning a 20-person pool party (because why not?). Da...

From itchy bras and mall dressing rooms to heart rate zones and earplugs at Orangetheory, Nikki and Damaris kick things off with the little ways they’ve been shaking up their routines. But the real conversation this week is about big change— specifically, whether it’s ever too late to switch careers or reinvent what “work” looks like. They share personal stories of starting over, making unexpected...

When the new-relationship spark fades, does your sex life have to fade with it? Nikki and Damaris say absolutely not—and get real about what it actually takes to keep intimacy alive in long-term relationships. From the myth that more sex automatically means better sex, to why scheduling it might be the least unsexy thing you can do (in a good way), they share their own stories, awkward conversatio...

Nikki and Damaris dive into the surprisingly emotional topic of asking for help —why it’s so hard, what it brings up (hello, childhood wounds and perfectionism!), and how it might be the thing that’s been standing between you and the social life you actually want. They unpack the mental gymnastics of turning down help, the guilt of accepting it, and the wild idea that maybe—just maybe—people actua...

Nikki and Damaris finally tackle the topic they meant to cover last week: kids' birthday parties—and why some have become more elaborate than most weddings. They dive into the awkward dance of trying to say "no gifts" while knowing people will bring them anyway, and why opening presents at the party might actually be making a comeback. Nikki shares her strategy for surviving twin birthday parties...

This episode was supposed to be about kid parties. Instead, Nikki and Damaris take a detour into the weird world of getting older—and how life’s little thrills can start to fade when the big choices (like partners, careers, and routines) are all settled. They swap stories about missing the reckless thrill of being 20, carving out tiny joys (like impromptu dinners with girlfriends or staying out wa...

“I’m so grumpy all the time. Help.” Honestly? Same. In this episode, Nikki and Damaris dive into the hot, cranky underworld of everyday irritability—the kind that creeps up when you’re overtired, overscheduled, overstimulated, and just generally over IT. From the low-key chaos of muffin deliveries in 100-degree heat to the strange comfort of eating frozen grapes, they explore the many unglamorous...

In this episode of That’s Fun , Nikki and Damaris get into the fascinating nuances of having opposite-sex friendships while in long-term relationships —where the line is, who gets to draw it, and what happens when it blurs. They talk about emotional intimacy outside of marriage, navigating “gut feelings” about certain friendships, and why trying to be “the cool wife” sometimes leaves you feeling a...

In this episode of That’s Fun , Nikki and Damaris start their unofficial two-person book club with a deep dive into All Fours by Miranda July. The book explores themes like perimenopause, creative stagnation, marriage, sexuality, and midlife restlessness—prompting the kind of honest, layered conversation Nikki and Damaris do best. From questioning the default structure of relationships to reflecti...

This week, Nikki and Damaris take on the often-overlooked truth about personal style: liking fashion and liking shopping are not the same thing. Some people love the hunt. Others love the styling. And a lot of us? We’re just trying to make getting dressed feel a little less stressful—and a little more fun . They explore why shopping can be so overwhelming (hi, childhood pressure to pick the “perfe...

Nikki and Damaris are throwing it back—to the heyday of house parties. From vintage entertaining cookbooks to scruffy hosting in real life, they explore why having people over has become so rare…and how to bring it back, without the pressure of perfection. They share real talk about what holds us back (hi, broken towel rack and kids’ clutter corner), plus simple ways to host without the stress—thi...

Nikki and Damaris ask the eternal question: Is exercise ever actually fun—or just something we’ve all agreed to tolerate? In this episode, they dig into the complicated, sometimes inconsistent relationship they have with working out. But they’ve also both had moments of genuinely enjoying movement—and they’re here to talk about what made the difference. From half-marathon training to hot yoga to n...

Nikki and Damaris answer a question from Helen in Atlanta: Are food festivals really fun—or just crowded, overpriced chaos? They break down everything they’ve learned from years of attending (and working at) festivals like South Beach Wine & Food and NYCWFF, including: How to pick the right festival for your vibe (and diet) Why comfortable shoes matter more than cute ones The different types o...

Nikki and Damaris dive into the surprisingly entertaining world of personality quizzes—yes, the ones all over your Instagram feed. From love languages to attachment styles, they unpack what’s fun, what’s useful, and what might just be low-key therapy in disguise. Along the way, they break down the Big Four: Love Languages Myers-Briggs Enneagram Attachment Styles Which ones actually help you unders...

Nikki and Damaris tackle a listener-(un)favorite topic: chores. From dishes and laundry to dusty corners and chaotic closets, they share how small mindset shifts—and a few surprisingly easy (and helpful!) strategies—can make even the most dreaded tasks feel a little lighter. Think cleaning parties with friends, ten-minute timers, and books-on-tape ;) that double as motivation and reward. As always...

Nikki and Damaris respond to a question from Sam in Pittsburgh: Can you still have fun without alcohol? They dive into the rise of the sober-curious movement, the cultural pressure to drink, and how it all shows up in real life—from work events to weddings to Wednesday night cocktails. Damaris shares how choosing not to drink has become second nature (but not always easy), while Nikki gets honest...

Nikki and Damaris tackle a question from Fred in Atlanta: Is it possible to have fun at home—or is that just code for “we’re trying to save money?” From board games and soup nights to scavenger hunts and themed movie marathons, they share the small rituals that make “staying in” feel joyful instead of just practical. Nikki introduces the concept of “radical acceptance”—and how it’s helped her recl...

Nikki and Damaris dig into the world of white tablecloths, prix fixe menus, and $59 glasses of champagne (yes, really). Listener Louise from Buffalo wants to know: is fine dining actually fun —or just something we’ve all convinced ourselves is worth it? Nikki and Damaris answer by unpacking what makes a restaurant experience memorable (and what absolutely kills the vibe)—from overly quiet rooms to...

This week, Nikki and Damaris tackle a question from Carla in Minneapolis: Are museums actually fun…or just something we’re all pretending to enjoy? From iconic art museums to bizarrely specific collections (looking at you, Museum of Jurassic Technology), they unpack what makes some museum visits magical—and others just a long walk in silence. Damaris shares how her museum pro of a husband taught h...

Nikki and Damaris dive into the world of all-inclusive vacations —from tropical resorts to cruises and everything in between. They tackle a listener's question about whether all-inclusives are worth the hype, sharing their own stories of dreamy escapes, hilarious mishaps, and the occasional not-so-glamorous experiences (looking at you, closing-weekend Club Med!). From private island cabanas to tip...