That Projector Life

Human Design is a great system for getting to know your energy better and for understanding how to live a completely aligned life. Unfortunately, not everyone is sold on the system. And you may be living with one. Honestly, living with a Human Design skeptic - or even just being in a close relationship with one - can be tough. They don't seem to understand why you can't "just do it", and they seem...

We're exploring the G center in this episode! And I'm going to let you in on a little secret (this is, by far, the coolest center in Human Design.) Not only is the G center the place for love and direction, but it's also the seat of the Magnetic Monopole, which we'll talk about in more depth. If you have a defined G center, then you have a consistent personality and are usually more connected to y...

Wondering how Human Design dynamics play out in relationships? In this episode, we're taking each type and pairing them up with the Projector type to chat about how the energy of that relationship functions (as well as what to watch out for).  We'll walk through each relationship and note what to look for and how each type can support the other to create a healthy relationship in which everyone li...

When I posted about my struggles with my undefined root center on Instagram, I didn't expect to get the wave of responses that I did. I was blown away with how many people related to my post - and by how many also commented and said they wanted to learn more about the root center. I've already done an episode on Human Design pressure centers ( episode 23 , in case you're wondering), so I thought I...

This week's That Projector Life episode is all about planning as a Human Design Projector. (And if you missed last week's episode about setting goals as a projector, go back and listen to it, because this episode builds on that one.) ⁠ If you're anything like me, planning is both fun and stressful. It's fun because I get to feel like I'm in control of things. It's also fun because I get to think a...

That Projector Life is back! And it's time to talk about something that's probably on everyone's minds: setting goals / intentions / resolutions.  While you can definitely set goals at any time of the year, the start of a new year is always a great time to evaluate how you want the rest of the year to look. So we're taking some time in this show to walk through how to set goals as a projector.  We...

As Human Design projectors, managing our energy is super important (you know, because we don't always have a lot of it). But it's not just about conserving your energy. It's also about understanding how your energy interacts with the environment around you and the energetic blocks that come up (because they do). Enter Shelby Melissa, a Reiki Master and Online Energy Manager (OEM). She's joining us...

It's time to talk about Human Design incarnation crosses. We've chatted (very briefly) before about how your incarnation cross is your life's purpose. But there's so much more to it than simply looking at your cross and calling it good. In this episode, we're diving deep into crosses and talking about the geometry behind them (no math textbook needed), which quarter of civilization they fall into,...

Wondering how to create spaces that support your Projector energy? I'm chatting with artist and designer Kelli Tompkins about how we can use Fung Shui to do just that. Kelli offers some great tips for designing spaces that allow us to unplug, rest, and relax in a way that aligns with our unique energetic profile. (And she doesn't just stop at Human Design. Kelli uses astrology as well.) She also s...

We're getting closer to that time of year - when we travel across land and sea to be with the ones we love most. (And ironically, they're usually the ones that most make us want to pull our hair out.)  And on top of typical family social dynamics, you'll have another factor to consider during your social gatherings: the energetic dynamics. That's where Human Design comes in. In this episode, we're...

The solar plexus is a fascinating energy center in Human Design. It functions as both an awareness center and a motor center.  And it's high time we explored it, especially seeing as the holidays are approaching (and those bring large social gatherings with some our biggest conditioners...our families).  Whether or not you have a defined solar plexus, this episode is a must, because emotional ener...

Projectors have unique roles in their relationships, but it can be difficult to access those roles because relationships tend to be complicated. In this episode, we're walking through three big relationship dynamics - family relationships, parenting as a projector, and romantic relationships. Each dynamic brings its own challenges and strategies for navigating it successfully. And we'll talk about...

There's a lot of talk about "conditioning" and "deconditioning" in the Human Design world. And we're diving into what those terms even mean and how you can start your deconditioning journey.  We'll walk through how you're conditioned as a projector and how that impacts your life and your design. Then we'll talk about your sacral center and how to release all of that conditioning and take steps to...

It's time to talk about the elephant in the room: money and how Human Design Projectors make it...or don't.  We'll start out talking about money in general and how you relate to it, because that relationship lays the foundation for everything else that follows.  Then we'll look at how projectors can make money, and we'll walk through a process you can use to kick-start your money-making. (And yes,...

Human Design projectors hear a LOT about the invitation and how we have to wait for it. (I mean, we JUST spent an entire podcast episode talking about that.) But what happens AFTER you receive the invitation? How do you take aligned action? How do you move past the fears that surface? How do you release the past + your failures and step out in faith to act on an invitation you received?  And are y...

It's time to talk about invitations again! We all know that invitations are super important to Human Design Projectors, and that as we continue our journey towards living as projectors they'll come up more and more. However, as I've learned more about being a projector and how our energy works, I've discovered even more about invitations that desperately needs to be shared with you. So that's what...

We all know that recognition is super important for Human Design Projectors. (And if you didn't, you know now!) But what does that even mean? And how can we, as projectors, start the process of recognition? In fact, is it something we can start? Recognition is often touted as the Holy Grail for Projectors. But it's not always easy to "get" there, nor is it a process you have a lot of control over...

Being a Human Design Projector means that bitterness is just going to be part of our lives. Many of us have already experienced bitterness as a direct result of things not working out. And we've also pushed past that feeling (and our better judgment) to continue doing what wasn't working...which resulted in even more bitterness And that leads us to the Bitterness Snowball. It exists. I've had to c...

It's time to talk about creating boundaries! Because of our open sacral center, Human Design Projectors (as well as manifestors and reflectors) usually struggle to create and maintain consistent boundaries. This is especially true when it comes to the boundaries we set for ourselves in regards to how we use our sacral energy (and how MUCH energy we use). Boundaries - with ourselves and with others...

It's time to talk about how to grow your platform in a way that's aligned with your projector energy! And that's what the fourth and final episode in our Be The Lighthouse series is all about! We've been working up to this moment ever since the first episode in the series. We started with creating a solid platform foundation. Then we moved on to how to brainstorm and create great content. Next cam...

The third episode of the #BeTheLighthouse Series is all about using your content strategically. Because if you have a solid platform and you have great content but no way to get that content out into the wider world...no one will see it. It's similar to the whole "If a tree falls in a forest and no one hears it, does it make a sound?" questions that dads (why is it always dads?) are so fond of ask...

Our second installment of the #BeTheLighthouse series is all about brainstorming and creating great content. Because, as the marketing saying goes, content is king. Well...it's at least a BIG part of your platform. Building a super solid platform doesn't matter if you content is less than stellar, right? Right! So this episode of That Projector Life will walk you through two of my favorite ways to...

Welcome to the first episode in our Be the Lighthouse Series! This series is focused on supporting and guiding projectors so you can create and maintain an online (or offline) platform.  I'm combining my business experiences (and yes, failures), my Human Design knowledge, and content marketing strategy to create a resource designed specifically for projectors.  This episode lays the foundation for...

Ever felt like people aren't listening to you even AFTER they've recognized you? Like you're standing there telling them exactly what to do...and they're just ignoring you? It could be that you're not fully harnessing your Projector energy to lead them the way you're meant to. It's really tempting (trust me, I know) to lead or guide people by simply telling them what to do. For example, leading by...

We all know that sometimes being a Human Design Projector just isn't fun. And sometimes, it just plain sucks as well. (Like I'm over here waaaaiiiiiting for my invitation. Will someone PLEASE recognize me?!) But. You don't have to stay in victim mode forever (in fact, I highly recommend shifting out of victim mode as soon as possible). Because the fact of the matter is that Projectors aren't victi...