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All too often we refuse to check ourselves or better yet, hold ourselves accountable for the hiccups in our lives. When we neglect to do this it takes us a longer time to get through those challenging times. It is only when we take a closer look at the situation by starting with the woman or man in the middle, only then will begin to find peace and sometimes closure to get ourselves back on track.

For all of the times we’ve been given lemons have we ever thought about some of them possibly being opportunities for success. With everything that has transpired in this past year, how many times have we turned those lemons into lemonade.

While waiting on your breakthrough it is so important for you to realize that even though it may be taking longer than you think it should take, never give up hope. Your delay is not a denial, God is still working on every aspect of your blessing.

Even in those times of brokenness, God has never left my side. All he’s ever required is for us to have faith the size of a mustard seed, that’s all. Whether your faith is big or small, his love for you is always the same.

When you’ve made that important decision to allow growth to overtake your life and not allow yourself to settle with just being satisfy, you must never retreat to your old way of thinking. Everything about your life, as you’ve known it is of the past. You are now on your way to flourishing in every area of your life by beginning to walk in unapologetic greatness.

It is so important for us to be grateful for the stalls God has place in our lives on our journey to walking in our purpose. Realizing that a lot of the times it is God who placed those stalls in his protecting you from what’s ahead. God always goes before us to make sure the road is clear.

Don’t let fear of failure, success or complacency keep you from reaching your fullest potential. Just keep doing what you’re doing and don’t give up!! You were destined for greatness not for lack!!

Dedicating this episode to the women out there who have given their all to help change the trajectory of where our country is going. Whether they’re going back to school, running their business or even being the Vice President of The United States, you deserve your crown and your flowers.

Now that you’ve connected with the love of your life, you need to now protect your relationship at all cost. The last think you need is for your relationship to end on the opinion from someone who has nothing to do with your relationship. Make your decision based on facts not on another person’s hidden insecurities.

When you’re wanting God to bring that special person into your life, you must first be ready yourself. There’s nothing right about wanting the other person to possess many attributes however you can’t even think of one you have to bring to the relationship. Remember, you must both be prepared for greatness.

In these times it is imperative for us to be able to discern whether that person is there for a reason, a season or a lifetime. There’s nothing more damaging to your life then to have someone there that you know deep down inside, stayed longer then they should have. You must be able to recognize early on in that relationship so that you’re not trying to make that connection last any longer then it...

When you’re ready to be in a relationship the last thing you should do is constantly profess your happily single status because that’s exactly where you’ll stay. When you want to share your time and possibly life with another you have to make sure the message you’re sending out is saying just that. Being forever mindful that whatever you put out is exactly what you get back in return.

Always saying “YES” when your heart wants you to say “NO”, can not only be bad for you but for the other person as well. The last thing you want to do is to take on more than you can handle, so listen to the inner voice and decline when you can’t take on more responsibilities. You’d be to see the peace you can have by not allowing your feelings get in the way of what’s right for you.

Have you ever found yourself wanting to share your accomplishments with someone and then decide to hold back because you’re concerned for their ability to handle it? If you have found yourself in this type of situation it’s time for you to reevaluate your connection with this person. It doesn’t mean they’re a bad person as well as you however it just means the position the two of you have been pla...

All too often we forget to pause before responding to someone when a disagreement is on the table. The first thing we want to do is make sure the other person is not only hearing what we have to say but also understanding our stance on it. Reacting this way can take a conversation that should have ended with a resolution to an all out verbal war. It’s not worth it so by following these steps by pa...

It is your right to celebrate even the smallest of victories. Always remember that when you set out to achieve a goal, take some time out to reward yourself when you’ve accomplished it.

It is especially important for us to be mindful for what ask God for because his love us will see it through, even if it’s not in his will for us to have it.

It is easier to say we want something different to happen in our lives but constantly give pushback when change is needed to see it manifest. Being willing to take the necessary steps to implement change opens up the door to not only to what we’ve dreamed of but also to all that God has for our lives.

There are times in our lives where we find ourselves wondering if our forgiveness was received or if our forgiveness was done without a “but or however”. Once we forgive we have the right to move on without the need to forgive all over again because of the other person’s inability to receive it. As long as you forgave with your whole heart it is not your job to keep revisiting it, release it and m...

So many times in our lives we make decisions about something and wonder if it’s the right decision in fear of what others may think. We find ourselves pondering, changing and sometimes needing to do a redo because we should have stood firm on what we decided on in the first place. Learning to give it to God and putting it on the shelf and leaving it there is by far the best decision one can make....

There are many times in our lives where God will send along angels to help you in your time of need. It is in those times when we need to open up our hearts and minds and allow them to help carry the load.

During these trying times it is so important that we be mindful of protecting our peace. Remembering that it is absolutely ok to say no sometimes as it only means that your peace is as important if not more important than the request of others.

In life we sometimes put the needs of others so far up on our to do list that we can sometimes begin to feel a sense of emptiness. If the work is not done by making the necessary changes we can find ourselves at a point of no return. Taking the time out to make sure that you’re ok doesn’t take anything away from your being their for others.

Being able to truly to walk in your purpose, even when there is chaos all around you, enables you to experience a sense of peace beyond complete understanding. God is STILL in control.