Teach Me to Father

Why don't most Men don’t share everything with their wife? —and what does that actually mean? Today Barry talks to the ladies on why men withhold emotional and mental stress from their partners. He discusses the inherent differences between men and women and offers strategies for fostering better communication and understanding in relationships. Join the FatherSeekers community!&nbs...

Explore the inefficacy of inauthentic apologies and learn five essential steps to create a culture of true repentance and emotional regulation. Barry offers how to foster healthier relationships and effective conflict resolution within your family, shifting from shame to transformation. Get the FREE Blueprint for Never Saying I'm Sorry Again Here: https://www.fatherseekers.org/resources Join ...

Barry interviews his friend Jeff, who shares his remarkable journey from building nightclubs to becoming a successful real estate mogul. The conversation delves into Jeff's experiences in martial arts, his venture into politics, and his spiritual transformation. Jeff offers valuable insights on achieving financial success, serving others, and the importance of seeking God's guidance in life. Join&...

Barry explores the legacies of Jonathan Edwards and Max Jukes, two men who's lives drastically affected their future generations in opposite ways. Discover how the decisions you make today can shape the future for generations to come. Are you ready to build a legacy worth leaving? Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS...

The most requested guest so far is... Barry's wife, Heather! Join Barry and Heather as they dive into their powerful journey from brokenness to healing. They discuss the challenges of rebuilding trust after divorce, overcoming depression with community, and what legacy for them looks like for empty nesters. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers F...

Everyone faces their own battles. But with God, a greater story awaits. Steve Burkes exemplifies that. Barry talks to his former college classmate, Pastor Steve Burkes today. Steve is a pastor and politician from Floyd County, Indiana. From overcoming a challenging childhood, being raised by a single mother in poverty to rising as a key influencer and a devoted father, Pastor Burkes' journey is a...

Who taught you how to drive a car? Barry shares heartfelt memories of learning to drive with his grandfather and reflects on the parallels between driving and fatherhood. He emphasizes three key characteristics that make the biggest difference. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@f...

In a world often dominated by misleading ideas about masculinity, we tackle the misconceptions of toxic masculinity. Barry and guest Mark Oleck delve into the attributes of biblical manhood, emphasizing servant leadership, emotional honesty, and strength under control. They address the cultural distortions and forgotten virtues that define true masculinity, encouraging men to reclaim their roles a...

The seasons of life never stop. Today Barry reflects on recent season of depression and identifies practical steps to persist through whatever season you may be in. Barry emphasizes the importance of recognizing that no season—whether good or bad—lasts forever. He offers practical advice on assessing and analyzing our experiences during different seasons, and how to utilize those lessons for perso...

The young guns are teaching the old dogs new tricks. Barry sits down with Sam Cornelissen, a young entrepreneur who has had a profound impact on Barry himself. They discuss the importance of listening to the younger generation, preparing yourself to be a good husband and father while you're single, and what it takes to build a business in your 20s. Join the FatherSeekers community!&...

"If you knew what that man did to me..." Barry addresses the emotionally challenging (yet liberating) journey of forgiving your father. Tune in to discover what forgiveness truly is, what it is not, and why it is crucial for your personal and generational healing. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry...

Do you find yourself grappling with unanswered questions and insecurities about fatherhood? Barry addresses the most pressing questions about fatherhood, offering insights and strategies to overcome the void left by an absent father. Learn how to become a good father, process pain and anger, avoid repeating past mistakes, and find positive role models and support. Join the FatherSeekers&...

In an age flooded with information, are you seeking the right knowledge for true transformation? Barry breaks down the Great Trifecta: wisdom, knowledge, and understanding, to help you filter, process, and apply life-changing information with precision and purpose. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barr...

Barry sits down with his friend Mark Oleck to explore the essence of real manhood, the impact of a father's presence, and the journey to become a godly man. Mark shares his personal story, from his challenging upbringing and transformative experience in the Marine Corps to his successful career and fulfilling family life, offering valuable insights for men seeking to improve themselves and their r...

How did Charlie Kirk's death effect you? Barry is joined by Tyler Gerfers, an on-campus missionary, to discuss the shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk and its far-reaching impact on campus life and the Christian community. It's time to step up! Support Tyler and Bethany's Ministry! https://giving.ag.org/donate/700001-295265 Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool...

If you grew up without a dad, can you escape the past and find purpose? Tyler Gerfers from Louisiana Monroe's Chi Alpha Campus Ministries tells his story. Barry digs into the Tyler's incredible journey from troubled childhood, meeting Christ on campus and serving the same campus ministry. Support Tyler and Bethany's Ministry! https://giving.ag.org/donate/700001-295265 Join the FatherSeek...

The weight of fatherlessness is heavy. In this episode, Barry switches roles and gets interviewed by Pastor Kelly Rhodes. Dive deep into Barry's personal story. They discuss his early childhood memories of his own father leaving, being called into ministry, and what kidney failure taught him. Don't miss this candid conversation filled with wisdom and resilience! Join the FatherSeekers&nb...

We thrive in community. Barry welcomes back Pastor Kelly Rhodes for an in-depth conversation on resilience in fatherhood. They discuss the pros and cons of radical self-reliance and adaptability, the importance of responding rather than reacting, and how to maintain balanced, healthy relationships. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Faceboo...

What happens when emotional scars dictate your life? In this episode, Barry and guest Pastor Kelly Rhodes dive deep into emotional scars and the transformative power of the Gospel in healing fatherhood. They discuss feelings of inadequacy, unresolved grief, and chronic emotional pain, offering practical advice on overcoming these challenges. Tune in to learn how to redefine your self-worth and ide...

What happens when a man strives to be the father he never had? Barry delves into emotional scars, resilience, and fatherhood challenges with Pastor Kelly Rhodes. They discuss identity, role confusion, seeking spiritual fathers, and the silent battles of fatherless fathers. Discover how to humbly pursue mentorship, build genuine friendships, and redefine success in fatherhood. Learn more about Past...

What happens when a fatherless boy refuses to repeat his father's mistakes? Join Barry as he explores the concept of reactive fathering, the dangers of counter identification, and practical steps for becoming a better dad by embodying God’s design for fatherhood. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry...

What if our struggles with faith and trust are rooted in our childhood experiences? Join Barry as he explores the deep impact of father wounds on our perception of God and how to rebuild that broken connection. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00&nb...

What defines true masculinity? Join Barry as he explores the profound effects of fatherlessness on manhood, viewed through the lens of biblical principles. Can the example of Jesus redefine our understanding of being a real man? Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Facebook FS Instagram FS YouTube Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org...

What constitutes a father's heart? Join Barry as he explores the profound characteristics of a father's heart from scripture. Discover how God's fatherhood was demonstrated to Adam and intended to pass through generations, offering insights into fatherhood skills, moral guidance, and eternal purpose. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS Faceb...

Why do fathers matter? Barry addresses the critical importance of fatherhood through biblical insights and personal reflections. Discover how turning fathers' hearts to their children can lead to the healing of families, communities, and even nations. Ready to be part of the change? It starts right here. Join the FatherSeekers community! https://www.skool.com/fatherseekers FS F...