Tea with a Taurus

We did it! Today is Day 30 of the April Challenge — and it’s all about reflection. How do you feel now that you’ve spent a full month being unapologetically YOU? In this final video of the challenge, I’m sharing some personal highlights from April — including my surgery and recovery, spring break memories with my family, a birthday I’ll never forget, and the beautiful stillness I found along the w...

Today, we pause to celebrate one of the most important relationships you'll ever have — the one you have with yourself. 🌱✨ In Day 29 of our April Challenge, we’re reflecting on how far we’ve come and expressing deep gratitude for the beautiful, resilient, powerful people we’ve become. 💖 In this video, I’m sharing my own reflections, a powerful affirmation to anchor your gratitude practice, and...

🎉 Day 28 of the April Challenge is HERE — and it’s my BIRTHDAY! 🥳 But more importantly? It's your invitation to celebrate YOU. So often we wait for a reason to treat ourselves with joy, kindness, or something indulgent — but the truth is: you don’t need a reason. YOU are reason enough. Whether it’s your birthday or not, today is all about celebrating your growth, your presence, and your worth....

Feeling overwhelmed by the rush of everyday life? You’re not alone — and you’re not meant to go at full speed all the time. Today, we’re giving ourselves permission to slow down and just be. In this video, I’m inviting you to lean into stillness — whether it’s through a sunrise, a long shower, a quiet tea moment, or a walk without your phone. No expectations. Just peace. 🎯 Today’s Challenge: Savo...

We’ve all been there — stuck in a mental loop of “I should’ve known better.” But holding onto guilt doesn’t help us grow. Today, we’re hitting pause on self-blame and making space for self-compassion. Welcome to Day 26 of the April Challenge — and today’s all about reflecting on a past mistake and finally forgiving yourself. Because guess what? Perfection was never the goal. Growth is. In this vid...

Day 25 of the April Challenge is all about reconnecting with the things that make your heart happy. In this video, we’ll explore how to create your own Joy List — a collection of small (but powerful) moments, memories, and activities that spark pure joy. You’ll also get a journal prompt and a gentle reminder that joy isn’t earned — it’s essential. Let’s reclaim it together, one small moment at a t...

Today’s challenge is all about stepping into your truth and being unapologetically honest! In Day 24 of the April Challenge, I’m encouraging you to speak your mind, express your needs, and take up space without guilt. We’re diving deep into the power of honesty and how it transforms our relationships and our own self-worth. In this video, I share a personal experience of when I learned to stop apo...

✨ Spend time doing something you love, with no agenda. ✨Today's episode is a deep breath for the soul. We're letting go of expectations and doing something just because it brings us joy. Whether it’s reading, dancing, coloring, gardening, or anything that makes your inner child light up — today’s the day. 🎯 Let go of the hustle. 🫖 Reclaim your joy. 📝 Journal Prompt + Affirmation inside! 💬 Wh...

Day 22 of the April Challenge is here, and it's one of the most powerful yet. 💫 Today’s prompt: Say something kind about yourself every time you look in the mirror. This episode of Tea with a Taurus will walk you through how to gently shift your inner dialogue by practicing compassion every time you see your reflection. Whether it’s your smile, your strength, or simply the fact that you’re still...

Today’s challenge is all about dreaming boldly and taking action—even the tiniest step counts. If you’ve ever held yourself back from admitting what you really want… this is your sign to let it out. Whether it's a dream you’ve been too scared to say aloud, or one that’s been buried under responsibilities and self-doubt—today, we bring it back to life. In this video, we’ll walk through: 💭 The powe...

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is nothing at all. Today’s challenge invites you to reconnect with the present by embracing stillness—through mindful breathing, meditation, or simply taking a walk without distraction. In this video, I’ll guide you through the importance of slowing down, how rest is a radical act of self-love, and offer you a calming affirmation and journal prompt to r...

Today’s video is your gentle reminder that you are worthy of the same compassion you so easily give to others. Whether it’s been a hard day, week, or season, let this space be your soft landing. In this episode, we’re diving into: Why we struggle to show ourselves grace. How to rewrite our self-talk using love instead of criticism. And how treating yourself like your best friend can shift your ene...

Have you ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “I wish I had said how I really felt”? Today’s challenge is all about changing that. Welcome to Day 18 of the April Challenge – where we speak the truth we’ve been holding in for far too long. Whether it’s in a text, a conversation, or simply in your journal, today is your invitation to take your power back and speak from the heart. ✨ In thi...

Today’s challenge is pure joy—because Day 17 of the April Challenge is all about indulging in nostalgia comfort. From dancing along with Patrick Swayze in Dirty Dancing to flipping through my favorite Babysitters Club books, I’m diving headfirst into memories that still make my heart happy. ✨ Why nostalgia matters: It’s not just feel-good—it’s healing. This video is your permission to revisit wha...

In this episode of Spilling the Tea, Ashley discusses the upcoming series Étoile by the Palladino duo, known for their work on The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel and Gilmore Girls. The conversation explores the themes of passion, authenticity, and embracing imperfection, drawing lessons from the characters created by the Palladinos. Ashley emphasizes the importance of pursuing one's dreams, being true to o...

🔥 Day 15 of the “Unapologetically Me” April Challenge is here! And today, we’re doing the thing we always talk ourselves out of... → We’re stepping outside of our comfort zone. No overthinking allowed. Whether it’s speaking up, trying something new, or facing a fear—you’ve got this. This is your gentle but powerful reminder that the magic happens outside the cozy walls of comfort. 💭 In this vide...

Today, we’re breaking free from the hustle culture narrative and embracing something radical: REST. 💆‍♀️ If you’ve been feeling burned out, stretched thin, or just emotionally tired, this is your sign to stop and breathe. In this video, I’m reminding you—and myself—that rest is not a luxury or a reward. It’s a necessity. And most importantly, you don’t have to apologize for it. ✨ Today’s Affirma...

Today’s challenge is all about finding your voice—and using it. In this deeply personal episode, I’m sharing the moment I stood up for myself after years of emotional pain from my father, who was absent throughout my childhood. After a public callout during one of the hardest seasons of my life, I chose to cut ties—for my mental health, for my healing, and for my peace. 🌿 Whether your story is si...

Day 11 of the Unapologetically Me April Challenge is here! Today, we’re taking back our time and energy by learning the power of saying NO to what drains us and YES to what lifts us up! 💡 💬 In this video, you’ll learn: ✅ Why saying ‘no’ isn’t selfish—it’s self-care. ✅ How every ‘no’ creates space for a more aligned ‘yes.’ ✅ A simple but powerful challenge to help you shift your priorities. ✅...

✨ Today’s challenge is all about pausing and tuning into the now. Whether it’s sipping a cozy cup of tea, breathing in your favorite scent, or losing yourself in music—you’re invited to experience the moment, fully. 🌿 Day 12 of the Unapologetically Me April Challenge reminds us that presence is power. It's in the little things—the warm mug, the playlist you love, the breeze through an open windo...

🔥 Day 10 of the Unapologetically Me April Challenge is here, and it’s time to turn your mirror into your personal hype squad! 🔥 💡 When was the last time you looked in the mirror and spoke KINDLY to yourself—out loud? If that feels awkward or weird, you're not alone. But today, we're flipping the script on self-criticism and embracing self-love in the most powerful way possible! ✨ The Challenge...

How often do you hold yourself back from creating because it’s not perfect? Today, we’re letting go of perfectionism and embracing creativity in its purest form! 🎨📝🎶 For Day 9 of the Unapologetically Me April Challenge, your only goal is to create without judgment. Doodle, dance, write, sing—whatever makes your soul happy! This challenge is all about expression, not perfection. 🔹 Today’s Affir...

Have you ever taken a moment to truly celebrate yourself? Today, we’re doing something deeply personal yet incredibly powerful: writing a love letter to ourselves—past or future. This exercise is all about honoring your growth, celebrating your resilience, and embracing every part of your journey. 💛 In This Episode: ➡️ Why writing to yourself is a powerful act of self-love ➡️ How to craft a lette...

What you wear matters—because when you feel good, you show up differently. 💃✨ Today’s challenge is simple but transformative: Dress in a way that makes you feel powerful! Whether it’s a bold blazer, your favorite sneakers, or that one outfit that makes you stand taller, OWN IT. 💜 Join me as we tap into confidence through style and mindset. How we present ourselves influences how we feel—so let’...

When was the last time you enjoyed something just because—without guilt, without justifying it, and without feeling like you had to "earn" it? 🤔 Day 6 of the Unapologetically Me April Challenge is all about embracing simple pleasures and allowing yourself to rest and recharge—without the guilt trip. Whether it’s enjoying a slow morning, indulging in self-care, or simply doing nothing at all, toda...