Table & Well Podcast

"The reason a lot of that stuff, (trauma), happened in our family is because we didn't know how to build joy, how to quiet together, or keep our relational circuits on.... (To start healing this relationship)... So how about I go back and do what I can to build joy with my adult children without them taking on my regret... " ~ Amy Glaser  Elders are so important in building relation...

"Whenever two people come into a relationship or any situation, they are meeting history to history and nerves system to nerves system... only a small part of what seem to be happening in this external thing is about what is happening right now." ~ Amy Glaser  Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly...

"Jim Wilder says...'You can tell the health of the community by looking to see whether their daughters are hopeful to be moms.'" ~ Marlene Allen Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we gle...

"It's a steady joyful presence,  I'm glad to be with you. It's the listening ear, with attunement not judgement.." ~ Marlene Allen Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we glean their...

"(Elders)... they are not running, they are this steady force,...whenI speak to you,...I am not going anywhere.  You might run off, but I will be right here waiting for you when you come back...That's what Elders get to do. They are creating space for people to be there best self." ~ Marlene Allen Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we...

"Attachment is the 'pipe' that maturity is passed from one vessel to another" ~ Michel Henricks Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we glean their wisdom? In this new series, Wisdom Keepe...

"Maturity is like Swiss Cheese, our maturity has holes... When we only stay with people inner same age group, the community has all the same holes,... Multigenerational community is important because elders can see the holes and fill them. So as a community the block of cheese is one solid block..." ~ Michel Henricks Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. W...

"Elders by definition have a really well developed right brain skill set...they know how to model a secure attachment,...attune to others emotions even if they don't agree with what happened,...very good at seeing the gold in a person that is not readily apparent,...they are not worried about defending their image,...and they naturally act like themselves rather people are happy about th...

"Gentle Protectors are willing to share in the pain that they create...Predators want to put their pain on you so they don't feel any of it." ~ Jen Coursey Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do...

"The better we get at being comfortable in our emotions, pain, and grieve, it allows us to prioritise creativity over solutions...those solutions are often trying to avoid pain for me or loved ones." ~Jen Coursey Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in commu...

Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we glean their wisdom? In this new series, Wisdom Keepers: The Role of Elders in Building Relationally Healthy Community not only will these questions and many more be ans...

Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we glean their wisdom? In this new series, Wisdom Keepers: The Role of Elders in Building Relationally Healthy Community not only will these questions and many more be ans...

"Multigenerational community helps you to not have to go through anything alone and minimizes the level of trauma unless it's a community that is keeping secrets." Dr. Marcus Warner  Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy c...

Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we glean their wisdom? In this new series, Wisdom Keepers: The Role of Elders in Building Relationally Healthy Community not only will these questions and many more be ans...

"I am looking to make all relationships permanent..., Whatever we grow together I want to make sure that it is something we can keep and we can use as an example for other people on how they should live their lives." Dr. Jim Wilder Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role...

"The kingdom of God; we know it's here when Predators or changed into protectors. That is the key sign of transformation. " Dr. Jim Wilder Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community look like? How do we glean their wi...

"Elders are no better than anyone else at knowing what to do with new things... but, elder are good at remembering what we've forgotten that was important." Dr. Jim Wilder Elders are so important in building relationally healthy communities. Without them we are missing a key part and it's nearly impossible. What is the role of elders in community? What does healthy community lo...

Maturity stages build on each other.  They have a compounding effect.  You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. The Elder stage of Maturity is the most crucial and lease reached stage of ma...

Maturity stages build on each other.  They have a compounding effect.  You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. The Elder stage of Maturity is the most crucial and lease reached stage of ma...

Maturity stages build on each other.  They have a compounding effect.  You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. The Elder stage of Maturity is the most crucial and lease reached stage of ma...

Maturity stages build on each other.  They have a compounding effect.  You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know you are at the parent stage when you can sacrificially care for...

Maturity stages build on each other.  They have a compounding effect.  You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know you are at the parent stage when you can sacrificially care for...

Maturity stages build on each other.  They have a compounding effect.  You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know you are at the parent stage when you can sacrificially care for...

Maturity stages build on each other.  They have a compounding effect.  You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know you are at the parent stage when you can sacrificially care for...

Maturity stages build on each other.  They have a compounding effect.  You cannot fully complete any stage without having completed the one before it, so it's important to go back and check for gaps and work on getting those closed up, so you can more fully be who God created you to be in your current stage of life. You will know when a person has graduated from the child level of maturity to...