Superpowered Mind with Clare Dimond

Back to that old feeling of not being able to move on. Why is it that moving on seems impossible to some and easy for others Is it because the memories make the feeling seem real still and yet my life is moving faster now that age is creeping in? It’s like an extremely windy day and if the grip of the hand wrapped around the pole loosens, being sucked away. Ouch, a passing thought right then came...

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 Be of service: bad advice Wednesday

hi lovely i was trying to write something on your survey, but I couldn't write to you like that as it doesn't feel right Clare i have to write directly to you and then it flows well Clare that afternoon as i was sitting there somehow i ended sitting where everybody was looking because you both was alongside of me, and I could feel that i was ticking my shoulders were going my eyes were g...

Waking from a dream that felt true and I’ve been awake thinking about it as though the situation is going to happened again when coming into contact with this person who attacked me randomly. Training in boxing for eight months, moved 900ks away and haven’t thought about it until now. It’s making feel anxious as around this time his partner comes up to the hinterland where my life moved too as we...

Sara Priestley on human design: Sunday Conversation 

Designing the mind: Ryan A Bush; Saturday book 

Clare if you can say one thing to the world that's gonna really help, what would it be?

As I continue to explore this understanding in your membership, I am beginning to wonder if we have values.  So many self-help programs speak of living by your values but if there is no Doer then are values just part of the illusion of separate self?  

Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely. Bad advice wednesday. 

I was thinking some people in this conversation are in their minds and not in world so much. I had the same but in reverse i was in the world but never could i be in my mind. I thought the world and mind was separate. I  can see now you can be in both and more and more my mind and the world are the same. I can be in my own mind now when I need to be and watch and observe the mind with a great deal...

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Jim and I had a conversation in the membership group about discomfort and what it is revealing. I asked his permission to share it outside the group. 

So good they can't ignore you: Cal Newport. Saturday book 

I have strugrled with explosive temper resulting in lashing out. My emotinns are triggerd by feelings of injustice done towards me. I suppose by expressing anger one feels justified standing upto the injustice. If you can help with some tools as to how can the self feel ok and not express anger even in the face of injustice and how to navigate it in a better way. I feel terrible after i have lashe...

Was wondering how to recognize a difference between having personal criteria for certain things and conditioning? Is this the same thing and conditioning got a bad reputation in these conversations, always being seen as a partybreaker? Example: My criteria for an intimate relationship is with a person who can commit to a monogamous relationship. I don't see a point to inquire anything about t...

Bad advice: Prioritise your mental health by... Prioritize your mental health by distancing yourself from people who create drama and toxicity in your life. Set boundaries and surround yourself with a peaceful circle that loves you, supports you, and wants the best for you.

Seeing and honouring the child vs finding comfort in the victim hood that our experiences seem to justify. I find this subtlety difficult. There's such a delicious sadness in my victimhood.

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On Sundays where possible I will publish conversations either with other teachers or with people on my programmes in which we look at different aspects of self and other.  Today is a conversation with Piers Thurston recorded for his podcast about the nature of free will. 

The Expectation Effect by David Robson: The Saturday book

I wonder what really causes beliefs to shift? Before this conversation I would have said experiential learning. Now that still looks true, but bizarrely without a learner or doer or knower

This I wanna ask since I read your book Ease and it really got my attention & find it powerful, but at the same time I can't get my head around it. You mentioned it again at our relationship retreat last week. It goes like : I need attention from my mother and my ignoring mother is the same thing. Can you say more to that? Is that literally the other end of the same conditioning, same con...

Is there such a thing as freedom? Listener question 

Is there such a thing as innate resilience and if so how do I access mine?