Superpowered Mind with Clare Dimond

This may have been answered before, but how do you know where to draw the line in relationships? I have been married for over 30 years. My husband regularly -maybe once a month or every couple of months - loses his temper and then will shout and swear at me. I have told him not to do that on many occasions, and how my ‘self esteem ‘ ( I know, intellectually, no such thing, if no self)then sinks ev...

I was wondering if you could follow up on your recent Podcast about 'Who are we' to talk about what makes us unique?   Fundamentally we are all the same awareness, intelligence & energy made into form but what about personalities, preferences and skills?  People in reality can seem very different - some people are more analytical and scientific whereas others are naturally creative o...

Resistance and behavioural change

What is going on with confusion? 

I have been reflecting on the use of the terms consciousness/awareness which appear to be interchangeable in the way some teachers use them and life/animating force/intelligence. I have heard our true self as both awareness and life/animating force/intelligence and although I know they are all concepts I wonder if you could help me understand them as relative concepts a bit better or in fact if th...

Can you speak more to how dissolution of the self concept, or the belief in it, makes us more of what/who we really are? Who are we if we aren't identified with the constriction of fear? Thank you

A brief summary of this episode

I wanted to ask you about a lack of motivation for the conversation I have felt since dropping out of the STRESS course, I am doing the YOU course but feel I'm just going through the motions.  I still enjoy and always listen to the podcasts, it seems to be the courses that are affected. When I dropped out of the STRESS course I could see that it was because the lesson (16) hit a nerve.  I was...

Listener question: what can a participant expect on a course about reality? 

Listener question: what do I expect to see change in someone who is doing the courses?

Listener question:  Being at work I am acutely sensitive to other peoples moods, interpersonal undercurrents and not to mention so-called elephants in the room. It feels like my sensitivity is too open for this maybe unhealthy atmosphere. What am missing here, what's true? How can I feel safer in this environment?

For anyone waking up in the night or struggling to sleep. This podcast reminds us of the ultimate peace and relaxation of our true being. 

Listener question: can you talk more about experiencing emotions without identifying with them or becoming them?

The computer mind 

Listener objection: This is chilly, abstract and off-putting

Your courses seem to provide a safe place to explore that the identity is not what we really are. So is that we are providing a support for the brain-body system so that the identity is less insecure that the information goes in? Or is it that when wholeness speaks to the wholeness the identity is simply less of a factor? both/and?

Listener question: What should I do? I hate my job.

Hello, Just want to ask what you think of something that bothers me. Don’t really know why, but I’ll ask and if you don’t want to answer it’s ok. I don’t like subliminals. It’s not that I don’t like it, I would love it if I worked, and maybe it does, just like hypnosis,nlp,eft and so on. My thought is why do you use that, isn’t it to “risky” for you to get involved in “a technique”. What I come to...

I currently feel as though I'm putting in a lot of mental effort to be 'conscious' of my thoughts and to bring awareness to what is being believed and felt in the moment.  It's like a huge amount of self-talk back and forth with the ego.  Especially in those moments of heightened anxiety or in anticipation of future events, I am trying to coach myself or rationalise the feeling...

In relation to the podcast I have been noticing when I tell someone something, because of a hidden reason that I want to tell them.  For example, I may bring up to someone about me being busy on Saturday doing a bike ride because I secretly want them to know I am going biking. When they never asked and I could of just said I am busy on Saturday. That is not a great example however it happens all t...

I am unsure how to be in the relationship with this man whom i care deeply about but because of all thats coming to the surface around my sexuality and sense of feeling unworthy, i feel too vulnerable right now to sleep with him, but don't know how to tell him and ask for the space i need right now as its a big part of the relationship.   You said in podcast to just leave the relationship alo...

Listener question: You may recall our conversation regarding my dilemma about moving. In brief: my partner had asked me to marry him a few months ago and so a move was on the cards and my daughter was very unhappy about this.  An update on that:  last week we moved and my daughter started her new school. Sadly she hates it. She has cried and cried and cried (as have I) the entire week. We've...

Can you say more about when there is a trojan horse request where the outside superficial ask is hiding a deeper, what most of us would call an unconscious, ask? For example if I were to post repeatedly in a facebook page seemingly to be helpful and really a deeper desire is to be seen or approved of.  Why would we listen to, or ask for, the unconscious ask when emotions and thoughts are so transi...

Listener question: I had a falling out with my friends several years ago. Should I contact them to try to reconcile? 

Clare said on the last webinar something like, "Nonduality teachers say there is nothing to do but there are things we can do to settle the mind.". What things can be done to settle the mind?