Submissive Guide

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open.  Being asked to beg for something is one of the simplest forms of erotic humiliation within a BDSM scenario. It’s also one that can be quite difficult for people to learn. Read the article on Submissive Guide: https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/how-to-beg-when-asked Submissive Guide FetLife Group: http://subgui.de/fetlife Other p...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Wearing a Dominant’s collar is often a goal of any submissive in a D/s relationship. However, defining what a collar is and how you prepare to accept it can be daunting. Let’s tackle the important points about collars and if you are prepared for what a collar may mean for you and your relationship. Read the Article: https://submissiveguid...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. I’ve gathered seven of the best books to help you get started on your exploration of BDSM and the submissive role.  Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/recommended-reading-submissives All links to the book reviews, GoodReads, and Amazon are linked in the above article.  🎧 Leave a review or share this episo...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Relationships, even ones with power exchange, are built the old-fashioned way; dating, mutual compatibility, and communication. We all have a common ground to start from, even if we don't realize it. Unlike what many forums may say about D/s relationships and how they start, knowing the terms to use for your desires and being able to...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Submissives all over seem to know what they want out of a relationship; it's always on their minds: the play, the sex, love, or the strictness of dominance. Wants are very valid to the happiness in your life, but more important are the needs. When you think of needs, the list seems to become harder, and people struggle more with defi...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. A Submissive’s primary focus should be taking care of the property. There are common ways we are not adhering to the prime directive, and there are ways we can make it more of a foundation for our lives. Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/personalgrowth/articles/take-care-of-the-property Become a member and get more from Submis...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. When people ask me what a D/s relationship is like, my first response is 'it looks like any other relationship,' but that's not entirely accurate. All relationships are unique and personal to the people in them, making a sound basis for any D/s relationship. In this article, I’ll cover a few common misconceptions of D/s dyn...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Negotiation and consent are the primary ways BDSM is distinguished from abuse - they are essential parts of kinky play. But far too many people gloss over how important it is to be really good at negotiating so that you can have great kinky fun. And you want to have kinky fun, right? Read the Article: [link] The Submissive Society gets ea...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Anyone can learn to be a good service submissive, even if you don't feel you are a people pleaser, because the key traits are all ones that can be learned and refined. When you take steps to improve yourself now, you'll be able to tackle a variety of service challenges and refine the services you wish to provide for your Dominan...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. We need to make sure we take an active role in submission to help open up the dynamic and not wait for our Dominant to come up with a command to give us. By taking on an active role in our submission, we not only have more opportunities to be submissive, but we build a dynamic that provides an open exchange of power. Read the Article: htt...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Using my experience as a service submissive, I'd like to share what non-sexual service is and help you figure out if service is something you want to explore. I'll talk about a few different styles of service you could learn. Then we'll cover how you can start adding aspects of service into your relationship. Read the Artic...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Sexual Power Exchange involves submissive partners who willingly and voluntarily relinquish control to their dominant partners, either in certain situations, for a specified period of time, or completely.  As long as you keep it fun and enjoyable, a bedroom power exchange can bring variety and playfulness to your sex life. Read the Articl...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. If you’re brand new to BDSM or even if you’ve got a few years under your belt, it’s good to sit down and figure out what submission means for you and how it works in your dynamic. Once you know what you need as a submissive, you can work with your Dominant to make your D/s relationship exactly what you desire. Read the Article: https://ww...

Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Whether you are kinky only in the bedroom or participating in D/s as a lifestyle, developing rituals for your BDSM play is an intimate and powerful way to connect. Using rituals will strengthen your roles, build dynamic scenes, and amplify your playtime to create the ideal atmosphere for BDSM activities. Read the Article: https://www.subm...