Strong Men Strong Marriages

If your wife blames you for her problematic behavior… Like infidelity, overspending, being mean or rude, not following through on her responsibilities… It can be VERY frustrating. Why can’t she just apologize? Why won’t she take ownership of her actions and change? Learn what will help her take ownership… And end your frustration… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here.   Dr. Mike P.S. If you’r...

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If you didn't catch it Tuesday... The book is FINALLY DONE and ready for you on Amazon! Strong Men Strong Marriages: The Christian Husband’s Guide to Sexual, Mental and Emotional Intimacy. For this week only, through August 20th, the eBook is just 99 cents, and if you get the book and write a review, you’ll get access to exclusive content as a big thank you from me. If you’ve enjoyed the podc...

Well, it’s been a couple years in the making, but it is available TODAY on Amazon! Strong Men Strong Marriages: The Christian Husband’s Guide to Sexual, Mental and Emotional Intimacy. This book has all the tools, tips and lessons I’ve learned from my own marriage and from coaching hundreds of high achieving Christian men. And, if you purchase it this week, you can get the eBook version for just 99...

To create a great marriage, you need to be a strong man. That includes: Spiritual strength (self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence, mission and purpose, making and keeping promises) Mental strength (ability to challenge and change your thoughts) Emotional strength (ability to feel and release emotions in healthy ways) Physical and financial strength Sexual strength (using your sexuality in ways...

There are days when you feel like you’ve had enough. You’re tired of the little to no sex… The lack of respect and appreciation… And feeling like you’re last on your wife’s priority list. You’re getting all the responsibilities of marriage… Making the money, helping with cooking, cleaning, and kids… But none of the benefits. It’s a tough place to be. But, before you call the attorney or file for d...

If you want your wife to prioritize you… Don’t ask her to prioritize you. Figure out one thing that would help you feel like a priority. Maybe that’s making a meal, asking you about your day, or spending some time together. Unless you’re in a good place, I would wait on asking for physical touch, though that can also be a good request if you are. Then, ask her for that one thing with a reason why....

Your wife spends time with her friends… but not with you. She hugs your kids… but not you. She gets excited for other people… but not you. She seems to prefer to be on her phone more than talking to you. This can be VERY frustrating. But, there are things you need to STOP doing… And START doing… If you want her to prioritize you. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.  Watch on YouTube...

It’s easy to be distracted these days. But, if we’re easily distracted from our wife… We’re missing the chance to show her she’s important to us… And losing out on the chance to build trust and mental and emotional intimacy. When she talks to you today… Put your phone down Look into her eyes And let me know how it goes by replying to this email! Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a hig...

High achieving Christian men are used to being right and being listened to. And, this works well in work and church settings. But, it doesn’t work that well at home. Learn the communication mistakes that leave your wife feeling unheard, misunderstood… And therefore NOT attracted to you… In today’s episode. And… Learn how to fix them so you can become MORE attractive to her. Watch on YouTube here....

Find And Apologize For 1 One-Up Behavior [Thursday Challenge] As a high achieving Christian man, I’m sure there’s at least ONE way that you’ve behaved in a one up, superior way towards your wife. Some of the most common are: money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and time. Find one of those and apologize to your wife for it. Watch on YouTube here.  Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achie...

The Top 5 Reasons High Achieving Christian Men Struggle In Marriage You’ve succeeded in big areas in your life. Financially, in your career, in your church and in your community. But, your marriage isn’t where you want it to be. You lack intimacy. You’re recovering from infidelity (hers or yours). You’re facing separation or divorce. Why can you succeed everywhere but in the most important relatio...

Strong Men Strong Marriages is 90 hours of focused work. You could spend YEARS trying to learn the skills to have great relationships with God, yourself, your wife and your kids. And you might never even find the skills that you need! Plus, in all your searching, you won’t be practicing the few skills you need to create great relationships. If you’re ready to put 90 hours of work into creating gre...

If you’re reading this email, you’re ALREADY spending time trying to improve your marriage. And that’s great. AND, if you want to improve your marriage in the most efficient and effective way for high achieving Christian men… You may want to consider marriage coaching, and Strong Men Strong Marriages in particular. You’re a smart, successful guy and a hard worker. We’ll just help you put that hard...

On Tuesday we talked about how to decide if marriage coaching was a good investment for you. Today, decide if you’re going to invest time and money into learning how to have a better marriage and better relationships for the rest of your life. It’s a skill, and you’ll learn it a lot faster with coaching. And, if you’re ready to invest…  Apply here and let’s see if Strong Men Strong Marriages is th...

As a high achieving man, you like to invest. What’s the point of investing? To get a good return. Certainly return of money is important. But what are you going to use that money for? At the end of the day, what matters most to you? If you can get a return of a more intimate marriage and a better example for generations to follow… And learn how to love God and others well… Does it make sense to in...

Want more fun in your marriage? Do something fun today! The easiest thing is to send your wife a funny video or meme. If you’re struggling, search “funniest memes,” find one that you would both laugh at, and send it to your wife. See? You’re having more fun already! Watch on YouTube here.   Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this email with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, pro...

Many of the men I talk to say that they want to bring the fun back to their marriage. But, they spend most of their time trying to talk about “the hard things” and solve problems in their marriage. The truth is, you don’t have to wait to bring the fun back. You can take the lead and start having more fun TODAY. Learn how in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here.   Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high a...

Tuesday we talked about how to help your wife feel safe. Acknowledge that you’ve hurt her… And make the appropriate changes. Today you’ll acknowledge 1 way you’ve hurt your wife, which will help start the healing process. (If you want help on knowing what to do after that to make your changes last, book a call to see if our program is the right fit for you). Watch on YouTube   here. Dr. Mike P.S....

How To Help Your Wife Feel Safe In Your Christian Marriage If your wife is saying she doesn’t feel safe… Either with her words… Or by distancing herself from you emotionally or physically… It’s time to increase the safety in your marriage. How do you do that? Not by telling her you are safe… But by SHOWING her. By getting into her pain and making the changes you need to make. Learn how in today’s...

Today’s challenge is to find a way to connect with your child. If you have more than one child, choose the child that it’s most difficult to connect with. And, find a way to “meet them where they are.” A great way is to join them in something that they already enjoy.   Watch on YouTube here.   Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this post with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving Ch...

Today I have a special interview with Cathy Himlin, LMFT from Himlin Consulting. Cathy specializes in helping parents, primarily fathers, navigate their relationships with their children during and after a divorce. Whether you are concerned about losing your children in a divorce and want to make the transition as smooth as possible… Or just want to learn how to connect, or re-connect with your ch...

Tuesday we talked about releasing emotions in a healthy way. Today, choose 1 emotion… And choose 1 healthy way to release it. Then, let me know what you choose. And, if you try the release, let me know how it went. Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena new link here for YouTube) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eY13pnVVwwo ( Lorena new links here for YouTube) Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this post with the resu...

Do you find yourself… Avoiding your emotions… Pretending like you’re OK when you’re not… Or wanting to avoid seeming anxious, sad or angry in front of your wife? A lot of us as men think that emotional strength is about not “letting emotions get to us.” But, emotions are like farts. They need to be RELEASED. And ideally, in healthy ways that don’t stink up the place. Learn how to release emotions...

Think of 3 reasons why your wife is RIGHT to create distance from you. How have you been a poor choice for her? Then, work on those 3 reasons. Make yourself a better choice. And, for a complete system to make yourself a great choice, join Strong Men Strong Marriages. Watch on YouTube here.   Dr. Mike P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create...