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In this episode we get into all things manliness. I share with you some of the lessons I've learned over the weekend as I begin to experience what it means to perform manual labor. I've been very blessed to have an opportunity to work with a friend and mentor on doing some construction and contracting work. Along the way I am learning a lot about myself and what I can in fact do. I've...

Happy Birthday! In this episode, I give you a birthday blessing in honor of my 33rd birthday. I also share with you some of the lessons I’ve learned in my 33 years on this planet.  We talk about the power of impact you can have from one little act of good that you do, whether a smile, a kind word, or giving someone a much-needed resource or tool.  Finally, I leave you with some words of belief and...

This episode we speak to none other than The Pew Pew Jew himself, Yehuda Remer and he shares with us his story on how he came to be the world renowned Second Amendment advocate that he is today.  Yehuda shares with us his personal journey on how he entered the world of gun ownership, and how he discovered the lack of proper children's educational resources for gun ownership. He also shares wit...

The Holiday of Passover is upon us, and with it comes the discussion of freeing ourselves from limitations. The incredible thing about Passover is that it is a holiday that reminds us of the past, helps us appreciate the present, and look forward to the future. We are commanded to live each day as if we are leaving Egypt today. That's actually easier to do than we realize. Sure we may not be s...

In this glorious episode you get to hear from my coach and mentor and good friend Travis Crutcher. Aside from an exceptional career in the US Army as a Ranger Qualified Infantryman and Drill Sergeant, Travis has become a leading coach in the industry, helping people sick of the suck of every day life, to create a life they love using real proven skills. In this episode we talk about the importance...

Often times life gives us a sucker punch to the stomach, and then kicks in the groin when we are down on the floor. Most often this happens when we see or hear something from someone that causes us to self-criticize. All of this leads us down a deep, dark path of negativity and despair. Yet, the thing that can prevent this from happening is by taking the time to actually acknowledge the good that...

In this episode we have a special guest, Rabbi Raziel Cohen - The Tactical Rabbi. Raziel Cohen is a reputable firearms instructor and security consultant who has been extensively covered by notable news outlets such as Fox News, NRA TV, The Drudge Report, LA Times, and featured in a Vice mini-documentary. His company, NDFTraining, offers comprehensive in-person and online courses for those seeking...

The final episode in the series on dating.  Here we dive into some of your feedback and thoughts on how to navigate the dating system. We give you advice from the trenches, and not just my own personal opinions.  We talk about how to trust your gut, how to say no, and the importance of self-care. Of course we also talk about how horrible and mean shadchanim are. Just kidding. But we do t...

Last episode gave a wake up call to those struggling in the Shidduch System. This episode will provide you with some of the solutions you need to make it successful.  It's important to remember that dating for marriage is a long-term goal. Dating for any other reason is dumb. But as with any other significant life change, it has to be approached with a mindset and attitude.  This episode...

It was bound to happen. An episode calling out all of you saying you want to get married, but not willing to do the work to get there.  Fact is, you will never find the perfect person, because you're not the perfect person. Until you  are willing to change yourself, you won't be able to attract that person into your life.  This doesn't just apply to the world of dating. The same goe...

What do you do if your child comes home complaining about a bully? What do you do if someone in your workplace is bullying you? Though is may not be a popular opinion, I believe in having compassion for these individuals and trying to see where they're coming from and why they're acting the way they are acting.  And of course if need be, sock 'em in the stomach.  At the end of the day th...

Are you willing to learn new things? Can you really teach an old dog new tricks? Fact of the matter is that you can not grow and improve your life if you're not willing to learn new things. But learning is only as good as your application of what you learned.  In today's episode we discuss a story of a great Torah scholar who became a wagon driver and shoveled manure just so he could achieve...

This week we celebrate the Hassidic Holiday of Yud Shvat by speaking about the influence of Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, The Lubavitcher Rebbe.  We talk about what it means to "Be Rebbe" and how to have that level of influence and impact in our lives and the lives of others. We discuss how instead of working to gain followers, we should be striving to create leaders.  We talk about emulating...

Re-Uploaded for Better Audio Quality Parenting is challenging. No question about it. But it's harder if you're a lazy parent. In this episode we reflect on my recent trip to #Florida for a #Business & #LeadershipDevelopment Summit where I had the opportunity to hear #JohnnyAgar and his family speak about their journey. We discuss how to push past challenges we may have, how to push our childre...

Enough Complaining! It's about time we stopped kvetching about what is wrong with the world and start doing something to make a difference.  In this episode we talk about the difference between #complaining and #venting, defining each and acknowledging the benefits of one over the other. We also talk about how when we are presented with a challenge, it is up to us to face it.  And of cou...

As an educator of 15+ years I can officially say "School is a Scam". At least in the modern form.  This episode we discuss how the educational system has lost touch with reality. We analyze the origins of the modern day school system, and how it no longer fits the needs of our children. We also break the myth of education ending after graduation. We discuss the idea of ongoing education, and...

Everybody has their opinion on who you should be. Yet few people actually care to see you become who you are meant to be. I say, be who you want.  In this episode, we welcome in the #NewYear by discussing how to show up in our lives the way we want to. We talk about choosing who we want to be for our own reasons, and not because others say we should be a certain way. And of course, we discuss the...

The time is here. It is time to go. You're not waiting any more. You are ready to start puruising you dreams, and hitting those goals. In this episode we talk about some practical steps you can take to make this year better than the rest. We discuss my method for coaching clients to success and how you can set up a game plan to achieve your goals this year.  I offer some words of encouragement for...

Everybody loves New Years resolutions. Very few people actually keep them.  In this episode we look at some of the hard facts and the reality behind why New Years resolutions fail.  We examine the mindset of those who fail in their resolutions, and those who succeed.  This episode highlights the importance of establishing your goals and starting on them right away. I offer some insight that you ca...

​​This episode we are joined by special guest Yermi Kurkus of Yermi Kurkus Consulting.  Yermi is a successful business consultant who partners up with organizations and individuals to help them achieve their impossinle dreams both in #Business and in their personal lives.  In this episode we talk about what it takes to achieve your impossible dream, and Yermi shares with us his story how he was hi...

In this episode we talk about one of the greatest lies ever told...the lie of being "Self-Made". So many people pride themselves on being "Self-Made" in their success, whether in their business or life. They credit themselves and themselves only with their success, neglecting all those who have paved the way before them.  In this episode we talk about the importance of finding a coach, mentor...

In this episode I share with you my experiences of having to overcome pride and ego and humble myself to ask for help. Often times the hardest challenge for us to accomplish is the one with the greatest reward. As men, it is our responsibility to take care of the household and provide for our family. While this is a noble cause and important role, it often times becomes a heavy burden to bear, and...

In this episode we talk about the importance of our perspective and how your perspective shapes the life you live. We talk about the Jewish saying "Gam Zu LTovah - This Too is for the Good". We share the importance of looking for the positive in everything and seeing the good presented to us. We talk about having a view of Childlike wonder as we see the world even as adults.  We talk about ho...

In Today's episode we talk about the difference between running full steam ahead, and taking things slowly. We talk about how sprints and marathons applies to business and life.  I share with you my entrepreneurial journey, learning how to pace myself properly, and the importance of true rest. ​​#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #Personal Development #Growth #LifeByDes...

In this episode we talk about my time dabbling in novel writing and how story writing translates into the journey of life.  We discuss how all the events that have happened to us are there as part of our story, and have helped us to be who we are. Our history is meant for us to embrace, learn from, and take ownership of, so that we can move forward with great pride and courage.  We talk...