Strawberry Letter

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old female and in a relationship with a 35 year old male. We've been dating about a year and we have a four month old daughter. I have been cheated on in the past relationships. But I felt like this new relationship was going in the right direction since I had my daughter. I have been very insecure about my weight but my boyfriend still says I am the woman he...

Dear Steve and Shirley, You're not going to believe this. I'm a married man and my wife and I just purchased our first home in a new community. To celebrate home ownership, my boys took me out for drinks. We ended up going to a strip club and I got very drunk which are two things I had not done since I got married. The strippers were some of the sexiest women I had ever seen and we paid for our ow...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 48 year old single mother with a 10 year old son. My boyfriend and I recently purchased a house together. He works out of town but he's home for half of the month. He has a 15 year old son and he has joint visitation with his son’s mom. Over the summer my boyfriend told me that his son will be living with us this school year because his mom is having problems discipl...

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for 25 years and we've been married for 18 years. He's a great father and provider and we have a lot of fun together, but he says I'm a constant nagger. My husband has done a few crazy things since we've been together and I let him know when he's wrong but I don't nag him. For example one of his many female friends texted him good morning...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm an older female with old school ways of doing things. After many years of marriage I'm now divorced and back on the dating scene. I never would have imagined how much things have changed when it comes to dating. I am learning about all of these online dating apps but they scare me so I've been dating the traditional way. I've met two nice men in my community but I have...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 30 year old woman and I've been dating a 35 year old man for a little over a year and I need your advice about an issue. When we started dating, we were already following each other on Instagram and Facebook and I noticed that we had one mutual friend a female that I went to college with. My boyfriend is following her on Instagram and Facebook. I asked him how he knew...

Dear Steve and Shirley, This one is short and sweet. I actually want Tommy's opinion too if that’s ok. I've been married to a wonderful man for the past 12 years and we have a great marriage. I have done any and everything to make him happy. Most importantly we have a very exciting sex life. I often let him have threesomes and I've started to really enjoy them myself but there was a big problem. O...

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I met 14 years ago. We both were young adults when we met. Through the years we’ve had many ups and downs. Our biggest problem has been his cheating. I have forgiven him but it's hard to forget what he's done. I stay with him because I love him and he has been the best father to our children from day one and about three years ago one of his flings called me a...

Dear Steve and Shirley, Two years ago I met the most amazing woman. I'm from the hood and she is from a small country town and we are very different in many ways but we also have a lot in common. We quickly became best friends and she is the only girl that I could see myself with in a long-term relationship, but here's the problem. After eight months of dating I was struggling with the fact that s...

Dear Steve and Shirley, My former best friend won't speak to me. Here's what happened. My best friend and her boyfriend have been in an on and off relationship for 12 years. I never really cared for this man because I know that he has cheated on her multiple times with multiple women. She continually takes them back in hopes that he might change. I don't get in her business but it breaks my heart...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your help. My fiance and I have been in a great relationship for four years and things were great until recently when I happened to scroll across a steamy video of us on his phone. We have our own YouTube channel with a lot of followers that love our Funny videos of the two of us doing silly things and I edit all of our videos for the channel. The other day I had thi...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old divorced mother of five. Recently I met the man that I am now in love with. The chemistry was bananas from the moment we met. He accepted my children with no problem. To top it all off he's tall dark handsome and the sex is so good. It brought a tear to my eye one night. When we met, he was unemployed and living with his grandma but he won me over with his...

Dear Steve and Shirley, Let me start off by saying that I love my wife but I just can't be intimate with her. My wife and I dated for two years and we've been married for six months. Now that we are married and living together, I get to see all of her bad habits and nasty ways. When we were dating I knew that she smoked cigarettes and drank alcohol. After we got married, I realized that she has to...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 33 year old man and my girlfriend is 31. We have been together for over five years and when I met her she was a single mom working part time as a waitress and barely making ends meet. So we started dating and I stepped in and started doing everything for her, as a man should. She will admit that I was the best thing that ever happened to her. Now five years later she'...

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I are in our 50s and all of our grown kids are finally out of the house. We had a great normal married life until recently when my husband became one hundred thousand dollars richer. He ended up being the beneficiary of a late family members life insurance policy, so he recently got a 100 thousand dollar check. At first he tried to hide it from me but his beh...

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been dating a guy for a year and he treats me really nice. We live in neighboring states but we're less than an hour apart so I wouldn't consider it a long distance relationship. We see each other a few times a week and either I'm at his house or he's at mine on the weekend. I assumed we were in an exclusive committed relationship until recently. The other day he was...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 22 year old married woman. My husband and I have been together for over five years but we've only been married six months. I am the first woman that my husband has ever had sex with and we waited until we got married to have sex. Shortly after we got married he told me that he wondered what it would be like to have sex with another woman because we are both still youn...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for five years but my husband is missing a P. He provides for the family and he professes his love for me but he does not protect me like he should. Last month a neighbor yelled at our son for going into his yard to get a ball. My husband and I went outside to see what was going on. I politely asked the neighbor not to yell at our child and he began to yel...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old married woman. I work hard and I feel very accomplished since I've worked my way out of the hood. I love my job and here's why, Dot dot dot. I have been sleeping with my boss for the past 3 years the affair was a big secret until recently when I came into work and found pictures on my desk of me and my boss doing the do, the news spread quickly throughout...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a happily married man and I need your advice. Last summer I loaned a female friend three hundred and twenty dollars for an insurance class so she could start her own business. She was engaged to be married at the time to a preacher. After I loaned her the money we barely kept in touch. She got married and I was busy with my family and traveling for work. Recently I dec...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a wife and a mother of two children. I've been married for 11 years to my wonderful husband, but I recently found out he had been cheating on me for a year. I found out when the woman started calling me she told me that she was taking good care of him when he is away from home with her. I confronted him about it and of course he denied it. I pray to the Lord to show me...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am an engaged 33 year old female. I don't have any children but my fiance has two children aged 17 and 14. When the children are with us. I'd do anything I can to make them happy. Sometimes they try to be nice to me but most of the time they are very disrespectful. When they don't get their way, they have gone so far as to call me an airhead and stupid to my face....... L...

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I are in our early 30s and he is the most amazing man I've ever been with. He is my best friend and we have the best relationship. There's just one big problem. Our sex drives don't match up. I'm not sure if my sex drive is too high or his is too low. Since we got married, the quality of our sex life has changed. It is now very inconsistent and most of the ti...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 35 year old hardworking single male. I'm tall dark and handsome and the ladies love me, but there is one lady in particular that I can't seem to get enough of. She's my best friend's girlfriend. I was attracted to her from the moment I saw her and I could tell she was feeling me too. One day she came on to me and one thing led to another, fast forward two years later...