Strawberry Letter

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in a three-way love affair with a man that is my pastor and my marriage counselor. I went to my pastor a year ago to get spiritual guidance so I could stay on the straight and narrow in my marriage. I was thinking about cheating and had one foot out the door. My pastor is married so I meet with his wife on Wednesdays for spiritual guidance and I meet with them both onc...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for 7 years and I’m almost divorced. My husband and I didn’t really know each other as well as we should’ve before we got married and we had arguments on a daily basis. I became bitter over his lack of attentiveness and he was tired of living with a crazy B. Those were his exact words the day he filed for divorce. He told me I am terrible in bed, teased me for...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30 year old engaged female and my fiancé is 34 years old. I work as a school administrator and he is a mechanic. We met when he fixed my flat tire and then offered to detail my car for free. He is a tall, thin man with pearly white teeth and a nice afro. I could tell he was a hood dude the minute I saw him and that’s what attracted me to him. He plays basketball at a...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a relationship with a woman for the past 15 years. It’s been on and off again, but she’s the one for me. She’s my everything and our kids are my world. I bet you are wondering why I haven’t married her and maybe you can help me figure it out too. For the first few years of our relationship, we kept it on the downlow because of her age. She was sixteen when I st...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met my wife on an online dating site two years ago. All of the things she wanted in a mate matched mine to a tee. She had been married before and I had been engaged but I had called off my wedding in the nick of time. I shared my horrible experience with my wife and I told her that my ex had a past that I was unaware of and her own family was the one to tell me about her....

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I really need some advice. I met this man that is 10 years older than I am and I really like him a lot. He’s still married, but he and his wife are living as roommates and he does not sleep with her anymore. I have gone to his house many nights and would leave before his wife and kids wake up. When he takes me out, we only go to the casino because I’m his lucky charm and he...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married to one of the finest men in my whole town. We’ve been together 24 years and married for 18. He was my high school sweetheart and we married young and had 2 children early. We started having sex when we were 16 so he was the only man I’d been with, until recently. He has cheated on me and I forgave him because I had checked out of our marriage and was going throu...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 50 year old devoted wife with a big problem. I have been married to a great man for 23 years and we have two kids in college. He is a great provider and we both have solid careers, but, he has always had a big dream. He wants to be a big Broadway actor. My husband wants badly to an actor, but, he has never been able to make it work.........................................

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old married woman and I’ve been with my husband for 8 years, married for 5. My husband just found out that my male best friend is my ex-boyfriend. I also have a female best friend that I used to have threesomes with. We are all close and they loved my husband and he loved them. I was on FaceTime with my best friend the other night and he mentioned a tattoo on...

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my childhood sweetheart for 8 years and we have two wonderful children. Early on, we had problems in our marriage and we were separated for a short period, but we worked things out and I thought we were back on track. My wife admitted that during our separation, she had flings with two other guys. She compared me to the guys she had the flings with an...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29-year-old man and three months ago, I started seeing a gorgeous woman in her mid-20s. She has the best body, smooth and glowy chocolate skin, the sexiest voice. She is the best that I ever had if you know what I mean. She’s very affectionate and she treats me well. But she’s missing one important thing: a brain…............ Learn more about your ad-choices at https...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married to a man that spoils me and says he loves me unconditionally. We have been married for only 3 years but we’ve been together for 7 years. I’ve never suspected him of cheating until recently. We like to have lunch and dinner on the patio at our favorite restaurant so we can people watch. He is not the type to get mad if I comment on a man that passes by..............

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 38 year old married man and I have a woman on the side that I’ve been with for about 3 months. She’s newly married but she calls me her maintenance man because of her husband’s age. He’s significantly older and she said he has a problem in the bedroom, so we hook up once or twice a week. I’m originally from Kansas and my mom and I moved to Georgia after she divorced m...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 14 years and I have to keep reminding my husband who’s the boss. When we met, he was unemployed and I hired him as a delivery driver. I managed a pizza place at the time and after we started dating, I had to let him go because he was always late for work. Presently, I’m a regional manager for a fast-food chain and he’s a waiter at a neighborhood restau...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a beautiful, strong, talented woman and everything was okay in the beginning, until we had sex for the first time. She controlled everything from start to finish and she did not let me do anything. She got on top and that was it and it seemed to go on forever. I tried to talk to her and plead with her to let me do some of the work, but she was not trying to have...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 28 year old single woman and I’m involved with a man that is 31 years older than I am. He told me he was separated from his wife when we met, but that was a lie, so I set guidelines for how we conducted our affair discreetly. He is handsome and loaded, so anything I wanted or needed, he had cash. I told him I wanted a house so we’d have more privacy and he helped me b...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 38 year old married woman and we had what you’d call a whirlwind romance. We met and fell in love within 3 months and were married after only 9 months. All of my family and friends that met him, said he was the one for me and I should marry him right away. He knows how to treat a woman and he’s the best lover I’ve ever had.................... Learn more about your ad-...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been trying to figure out the best way to address an issue because I love my wife dearly. My wife turned 60 in May and to celebrate, I took her to Hawaii and I gave her a $5K prepaid credit card to use any way she wanted to. When we were in Hawaii, there was a photo shoot at our hotel all weekend and young, skinny models were all over the place. My wife started to feel...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29 year old single woman and I’ve been dating a 29 year old man for 4 years. We had an on-and-off relationship and we broke up over a year ago and he met a chick and she fell in love with him quickly. He said it was just casual sex but when he and I decided to get back together, she wouldn’t stop bothering us. She caused problems in our relationship all the time and...

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Dear Steve and Shirley, a few days ago, my husband and I went to his sister’s baby shower and I found my husband in the kitchen kiki’ing with a woman and he put her number in his phone. I went and introduced myself and she said she’s an old friend and it was good to be back in town. My husband walked off but I wanted to get to know her better. She told me she’s single and she lives in Dallas now,...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I thought I was married to the woman of my dreams. She’s 42 and I’m 38 and it didn’t matter that she was older than me or taller than me by a few inches. She’s 6’1’ and I’m 5’10”. My mother has never liked her and she said I need to watch myself around her… she also calls her my bodyguard cause she’s so big. We dated for two years before we got married and I vowed to be her...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 44 years old and I have met the love of my life but it took me 3 years to get used to him. We met in the mall 3 years ago on a Saturday. I remember the day in full detail. He was wearing a matching short set with knee socks and he had a brim on. He asked me where the Florsheim store was and I had to google it because I had never heard of it. He was an older man so I wal...