Strawberry Letter

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29 year old married woman who’s married to a 44 year old man. When I met him, I was 24 and I fell in love with him because I was so ready to move out of my mom’s house. I moved in with him and a few months later, he proposed to me. Then we hit rock bottom and he lost the house. For three months, we had to live with my mother and I was in hell all over again.............

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 34 years old and my husband is 48. We’ve only been married 6 years and I found out that he’s had a relationship with another woman for the past 3 years. Not only is he with this woman more than he’s with me, they have a two year old son together. When I married him, he didn’t have any children and I have 2. He adopted my children because their father passed away..........

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old female and I have a 57 year old male mentor that I work with. He has given me great advice and helped me through some obstacles in my life. This is the first man that has ever treated me with respect and did not try to sleep with me. He is like a father figure to me and I call myself his play daughter. The only problem is his wife............................

Dear Steve and Shirley, my best friend and I have been really close for 17 years but now we are constantly bickering over her twisted ideas of love and marriage. She has always taken an interest in reading books about male and female relationships, but her favorite book is Steve Harvey’s “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man” and she has twisted each chapter to fit how she chooses to live. In the pas...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a guy for six months and he’s one of the sweetest men that I have ever met. This weekend, he disclosed some information to me and I need your opinion. He and I met when I moved out of my condo. He was the supervisor of the moving company that I used and he was very professional and handsome, so when he asked me out, I accepted. We started out as friends and...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30 year old beautiful and successful woman and I’m in love with a 44 year old, well-educated hunk that swept me off of my feet. When I met him, he told me that he was seeing someone in a long-distance relationship, but I still started dating this man, despite the news. After six months of dating, I did some research and found out that he proposed to this woman and she...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in my early 30's and I have a loving boyfriend of two years but my sugar daddy insisted that I break up with him. My sugar daddy owns a barber shop that my ex goes to and that's how we met. I dropped by boyfriend off one day and this sexy older man approached me outside as I was getting an umbrella out of my trunk....................................... Learn more about...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29 year old man and I was dating an almost perfect woman until recently. We met at the wedding of one of my oldest friends and my friend had lots of great things to say about her. That was 7 months ago and we were taking time to get to know each other. She’s two years older than me and further along in her career than I am, but she’s never made a big deal out of it.....

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 47 year old wife and my husband and I have been married for four years. During the entire 4 years, all of the arguments that we have are over his ex-wife, the mother of his only son. She lives 2 hours away and at times, he will drive to see his son and this woman will not let him visit with the child, depending on her mood................... Learn more about your ad-...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a female in my mid-twenties, and I started a new job a few months ago. While I love it, I'm planning to put in my notice because I found a better paying job. My work environment is very challenging for me because the entire time I am at work, I’m fantasizing about my boss. When I’m at home, I’m always thinking about him and when I get dressed for work daily, I dress to...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old single woman and my older sister just married a man that’s for the streets. I know you’re going to say I need to mind my business, but my brother-in-law is a whore. When I graduated from college 10 years ago, I went to a party and he was one of my classmate’s boyfriends at that time. I was annoyed by him flirting and staring at me all night...................

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a very beautiful woman that is hood and bougie. She’s a bad dresser and she has a bad figure. She’s got a bad ride and she’s got a mean walk. I mean bad as in good, Steve, real good. We met at a lounge and she stood out from her group of girlfriends. She was poised and graceful and I watched her sip wine while her friends were all loudly chanting and taking shots........

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am engaged to a man that I work with. We both teach elementary school and when he transferred to my school, it was love at first site for me. At the time, I had only been divorced a few months and my ex-husband was still pursuing me and trying to work things out. He cheated on me more than a few times when we were married, so I divorced him...................................

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for almost 6 years and he’s my best friend. We are inseparable and we have not spent one night apart since we got married. Our sex life is really good and occasionally we will have a third party come and join us in the bed. We like to film home movies of us walking around naked in our home. We also record our sexcapades and we enjoy watchi...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 32 year old black man, married to a white woman that is 30 years old. We’ve been married four years and have two children. My wife has 2 older brothers, 1 lives in the same subdivision as us and the other lives out of state, and I have never met him because I’m black. When I proposed to my wife, he told my wife that he’d never accept her marrying an N word and it brok...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for 6 years to a man that I didn’t even want to be with at first, but he pursued me heavily and I gave in. After he proposed to me, I waited 3 years to marry him. I guess it was my intuition because I had second thoughts about getting married up until my wedding day. Looking back on things, the signs were there that he was a cheater, but we had sex 3-4 times a...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a happily married Godly woman and my husband is a Godly man. We’ve been married for only 3 years but we’ve known each other since high school. After high school, I toured with a gospel choir throughout the south so I’m worldly and well-rounded for my age. After high school, my husband ended up with a great job at the hospital and he was highly respected in our church a...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for almost 15 years and my husband cheated on me several times. He eventually got tired of hurting me, or so he said, and he divorced me. I was depressed at first but in the past two years, I’ve started getting my mojo back and although I’m not dating, I want desperately to have sex. I’ve been able to forgive my ex-husband and that’s how I know I’m in a better...

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 6 years and I have 2 children under age 5. I work full time and I tutor children in our home on Mondays and Wednesdays. My husband’s job has him traveling 80% of the time, so that leaves me with the children a lot. Thank heavens I have relatives close by that help me with my children. In August, my husband was out of town for a week and I was stressed...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m recently divorced and in the process of rebuilding my life, my ex-husband has been in my face and in my space too much. I had to stop talking to him altogether in the past few weeks because he’s still acting as if he’s my man. He did move me into my new place and got an additional key made just in case I had an emergency. We are both very cautious people so I didn’t thi...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I married my college sweetheart and we have had our ups and downs but cheating was never an issue in our marriage. Now I’m thinking of stepping out on my husband of 7 years. He’s a great guy and everyone loves him, when he’s not drinking. When he gets that tequila in his system, he becomes an actor, singer and porn star....................................... Learn more abou...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been knowing this female for over 20 years and into our early thirties, we went to the club on weekends and messed with a lot of high-profile men. I got older and wiser so I left the fast life and now I am in a great relationship with a nerdy man that I love dearly. I dated hustlers and craved the fast money back in the day and so did my girlfriends. One of my girlfrie...

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old single woman and I’ve got two lovers that I live with. I don’t know how it happened, but I have two fine and successful male roommates and I have been sleeping with both of them for two years. I relocated to a new area 6 months ago and my best male friend offered me his spare room while I found a place. Soon after I moved in with him, he became my “mainten...

Dear Steve and Shirley, There is so much going on in my home. I've been with my husband for 18 years and we've been married 4 years. I have three children from a previous marriage and we have a daughter together. My husband does not like my children and he talks about them constantly. My kids don't like him either and after we got married, they move out of the house......................... Learn...