Tamara Schoon

Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating

Society EN ↓ 148 episodes

Are you perpetually single? Do you want longer-lasting relationships? Tired of the miscommunication and misunderstandings? Wish you were better in bed? Advice from experts as well as real talk from real people so that you can see you are not alone in your thoughts and experiences. I talk about sex in my stand-up comedy and people often tell me that I say what they are thinking but are too afraid to say or admit it to their partners; too taboo they think. We'll talk about books we've read on dating, relationships and sex so that you can gain knowledge without having to read all the books yourse...

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Tamara Schoon

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Society

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Jul 7, 2026

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Episodes

#023 Dating & Sex with LaGina Rae and Tameica 08.03.2022

In this episode I talk with LaGina R. Harris (or LaGina Rae) who has a network of podcasts and we are joined by my friend Tameica.  We talk about dating/hanging out and a great way to approach it.  We talk about self-love, taking breaks from dating, asserting yourselves, knowing what you want and then we switch over to talk about sex in the same manner.  This is another episode where you will lear...

#021 Heidi Gruss Should You Stop Tolerating the Bullshit? 01.03.2022

Heidi Gruss, a psychotherapist, transformation strategist and entrepreneur joins me and Carissa to talk about how often we tolerate bullshit in relationships and what we can do to stop that and have those uncomfortable conversations.  She also asserts you know which advice to take because you're great at giving it to others but it's much harder for you to take your own advice.  You'...

#022 Self Pleasure, Tantra and Dorothy Stover Nantucket After Dark 22.02.2022

Dorothy Stover and I talk about the inportance of self-pleasure and bringing in the spirit.  She covers the connection, embodiment, empowerment and healing properties of self-pleasure as well.  She provides a few examples or practices you can try too.  She has her own podcast which is called Nantucket After Dark where I make a guest appearance soon.  She also runs the Nantucket Love School.  We al...

#019 The "Hard" Conversation We're Not Having 08.02.2022

Vernon and I discuss the fact that not a lot of men are talking about erectile dysfunction and it's a needed conversation.  We also share what women can do to support a partner going through this issue.  It's more common than is known and can be hard for men to process, deal with and discuss and need a safe space to talk about it.  If this sounds like you, you're not alone.  Ladies,...

#018 Relationship Coach Lucy Price Shares Her Life Hacks 01.02.2022

On this episode, Lucy Price and I discuss Mindset, Emotional Intelligence and Embodiment.  She lays out both the macro and micro level of how to stop self-sabotaging as well. We discuss texting do's and dont's or at least she helps you identify what you feel you need in a relationship.  She also mentions the power we all possess.  Lucy shares all the ways you can get in touch with her if...

#017 Season Finale Thanks and Profile/Apps Suggestions/Tips 14.12.2021

Carissa and I thank all of our listeners on every continent in the world with a majority in North America.  We're close to 1000 downloads and couldn't be more thrilled you enjoy the show.  Listen for our shout outs to the cities with the most listens!  We also cover tips and suggestions we've noticed would be helpful or at least we'd love to see more of it on your profiles...in...

#016 Must-listen Interview w/Dr Soum and MysteryVibe 07.12.2021

You do not want to miss this episode with game-changing information and products that provide you both (or when alone) pleasure....seriously!! Post-baby sex, performance issues, and gaps in your sex life, Dr Soum has a potential solution.  His sexual health research, information and devices can improve your sex life and make great gifts.  I was able to see the devices while on video and did my bes...

#015 FLR with Krystine Kellogg, chastity anyone? 30.11.2021

Krystine and I talk about her Female Led Relationship and the dynamics within her lifestyle.  We educate the listeners on the lifestyle and offer some resources and talk some about her experiences with her subbie/husband.  We talk about the myths out there.  We dicuss her two podasts as well and why we both want to have real talk about all these subjects hoping to educate and destigmatize others&a...

#014 Leah Carey (featured on Savage Lovecast) Let's Talk about Sex 23.11.2021

Carissa and I talk to Leah Carey who is a sex and intimacy coach as well as a podcaster.  Her podcast is Good Girls Talk About Sex.  Leah shares ways that work and don't work when asking for something in bed.  She also highlights the acronym STARS which she suggests as a starting point to have the conversation.  She provided her link to a game she also uses to explore what works for you. Dr....

#013 Ladies: Date Like a Man! 16.11.2021

In this episode, Liza, Mike and I talk a bit about the book Date Like a Man by Myreah Moore and Jodie Gould as well as Get a Life, Then Get a Man by Jennifer Bawden.  We hear both the male and female perspectives for this type of dating and why having a long list of criteria could be thwarting your chances and the idea of enjoying new people one date at a time. Have any questions or topics you wan...

#012 Everything You Wanted to Know about Bondage, Domination, Submission and Masochism 09.11.2021

David shares about BDSM and specifically consent, negotiations and dating kinky.  He shares books and websites to learn more about the lifestyle.  Do you like it a little rough but don't know how to ask for it.  Have you considered being tied up or does it appeal to you?  Learn from David or read the books he shares or listen to the highlights of each.  This is a starter episode for getting i...

#011 Tiphany Kane: Post-Divorce Dating Tips 02.11.2021

Tiphany Kane whose podcast is Love & Life After Divorce is here along with me and Carissa.  Tiphany shares why she started her podcast, we talk about how to get from online to offline dating faster and we talk about several great books to inlcude Martha Beck's The Way of Integrity, Brene Brown's work in general, I Suck at Relationships So You Don't Have to by Bethany Frankel and...

# 010 Danielle from LoveList Foundations for a Successful Relationship 26.10.2021

Danielle, a dating coach based in Sydney, and I talk attachment styles again plus love languagues too.  Important to know for both you and your partner.  Based on the book, The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman, we cover various aspects of these languages and keeping your "love tank" full!  Plus tips on dating as a bonus.  You can follow Danielle at @_the lovelist on IG and Tik Tok.  Y...

#009 Dating Coach help: Define the Relationship 19.10.2021

Danielle, a love coach based in Sydney, talks with me and Rawan about dating and relationships.  She gave us great insight about talking about the timing and phases of relationships and actively choosing together, core values, when to be selfish, dating out of convenience and getting into a dating mindset.  Danielle has her own podcast Love Undressed and you can find her @_thelovelist on IG and Ti...

#008 Male perspective on Alpha and Beta Males for us ladies 12.10.2021

Alan, Carissa and I talk about the idea of positive and negative challenges versus too nice, alpha and beta males as well as the idea that alphas are being demonized in our society right now.  I mention a few books as well.  The Surrendered Wife for the controlling, nagging woman who'd rather not be that way.  And an oldie but goodie Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. https://www.buy...

#007 Are you really good...at oral sex? 05.10.2021

Vince and I go there on this episode.  We have a much needed conversation where we talk about do's and don'ts about both giving and receiveing oral sex for both men and women.  We talk about enthusiam, technique, and most importantly communication.  We end with an even more interesting sidebar as well. Resources: https://youtu.be/lx-5ip5NQSY Netflix shows: Goop Lab, Sex Explained, Sex/Li...

#006 4 Keys to Deeper Relationships and more! 28.09.2021

I interviewed Jon-Paul Rippetoe who wrote a great article that we discuss in the episode and bonus material as well.  See the below links for his book recommendations (including his own) and a link to the PDFs of the material he shared on this episode as well.  He's also a coach so look for his contact info on his website link below. http://www.youralchemistlife.com/straight-from-the-source-s...

#005 (Part II) More male perspective for us ladies with sex while dating 21.09.2021

Daniel, Carissa and I discuss a scenario where sex is on the table even when it's specified otherwise.  To wait or not to wait and the pros and cons.  Being clear about what you're really looking for and the ever present double-standard for women.  We discuss it all! Helpful books: Comedy Sex God, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, and Surrendered Single and Surrendered Wife https://www....

#004 Male perspective for us ladies on dating and sex 14.09.2021

#004 Daniel and Carissa talk about their philosophies or methodolgies for dating online and in person.  We cover some of the dating sites out there, talk about the male and female perspective and some red flags or issues we've encountered while dating.  Plus, we intend a part II and III of this episode because we had so much to say.  We'll cover all things sex while dating and Daniel sha...

#003 Interview with Love Coach Jimmy Allen: Named Top 10 Male Coach-Entrepreneurial Mogul Mag 20.08.2021

003 In this episode I interview Jimmy Allen.  We discuss online profile mistakes and dating mistakes in general.  Then we move on to  want vs. need, healing your past so they don't affect current and future relationships, sex, honesty, shame and finally a good news story about one of his clients that applies to anyone. Join our FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/401939984698836/ IG: ht...

#002 Aim for Secure but probably Avoidant or Anxious (Insecure) Adult Attachment Styles 14.08.2021

#002 In this episode Carissa and I talk about the ideas in the book Attached by Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel F. Heller, M.A., and similar information by Katherine Woodward Thomas (her vimeo video clip below) who wrote several books including Calling in "The One"  Find out which style you have and how to better communicate to get your needs met. Other books: The Avoidant: How to Love (or Le...

Trailer for Straight from the Source's Mouth Podcast 08.08.2021

Find out all the topics that'll be covered in this new podcast.  Join Tamara and soon her friends on the journey by liking and subscribing to this podcast. IG: @tamara_schoon_comic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lx-5ip5NQSY https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Straightfsmouth Send us Fan Mail Support the show Thanks for listening! Check out this site for everthing to know about women's pleasure...

#001 Welcome to Straight From the Source's Mouth Podcast 08.08.2021

#001  We tell you why we started this needed, in our opinion and others, podcast where we will get real about sex and dating.  We will share lots of information on online dating, sex how-tos and don'ts.  Enjoy and...I do stand-up and my link is below for even more content on the subject.  Subscribe and like please! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmbyisXzOpuAY9Kv9UQINCQ https://www.buymeacof...

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