Stop Losing Women Podcast with Harry Wilmington

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we compare your dating life to the recent failings of the video game company Nintendo! Specifically, we go over: Why Nintendo is currently failing in the market with the Wii U How their stubbornness and unwillingness to change impacted decisions that are now bringing the company down What you should do to make sure you’re not being as stubborn a...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why long distance relationships aren’t worth getting into! Specifically, we go over: Why you shouldn’t believe your situation involving a long distance girlfriend is going to be the exception to the rule How and why the distance affects her feelings for you (and vice versa) “Forever in the Honeymoon Phase” – why this actually bodes...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why it’s a BAD idea to contact girls you’ve just started dating when they’re out of town or on vacation! Specifically, we go over: What she’s REALLY saying when she tells you she’s heading out of town (and when she’s coming back) The myth: how constant contact after only a few dates can actually DECREASE her interest Why she’s not...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about what people in long term relationships need to talk about to make it thrive! Specifically, we go over: Why couples need to be willing to have the “tough” discussions 10 important issues couples need to discuss before tying the knot or staying together long term How not to let the “honeymoon phase” trick you out of discussing topics...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we help YOU plan for Valentine’s Day!!! Yes, it’s January, but so what?? You should be planning for this special holiday way in advance of February 14, especially if you’re in a long term relationship! Specifically, we go over: Why it’s better to plan NOW vs. waiting until the last minute Why NOT to listen to a woman that says you don’t have to...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we respond to a listener’s message about a woman he took out who didn’t break the touch barrier with him, and now he wants to know what this means as it pertains to her interest in him! Specifically, we go over: What this guy did EXACTLY right in getting the date in the first place Why a woman not breaking that touch barrier is not always an ind...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer the question: is it okay to let a girl know you’re talking to other women while dating her? The answer may surprise you! I go into a personal story where a girl I met online was holding back from me physically for the first couple of years… and then, when she asked me if I was seeing other girls, my honest answer to her – “yes” – had c...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about 7 small things you may or may not be doing that can have a HUGE impact on a woman’s interest level! Specifically, we go over: Why paying attention to small actions and/or things when dealing with a woman can mean big things to her 7 examples of actions/interaction choices you make that will help her in determining if she sees herse...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to find what method of picking up women will work best for you! Specifically, we go over: Why it’s better to have ONE pick up method you do well vs. 100s you suck at Examples of the various avenues you can use to pick up women Why you shouldn’t be mad at not being able to do a specific style of picking up (hint: it’s all about...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we respond to a listener’s comment about yesterday’s show, AND we talk about the difference between weak vs. strong buying signals from women! Specifically, we go over: How to tell the difference between a girl that has a strong interest in you or a low interest in you 5 examples within the dating cycle of weak buying signals vs. strong buying s...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we respond to a listener who had a girl he met on OK Cupid send her number and asked him to text her! Specifically, we go over: Whether or not you should text a girl when she requests it The consequences (good or bad?) that can arise from agreeing to text her BEFORE going on a first date with her Why setting up the date online increases the odds...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how a man should respond when a girl he’s hooking up with – but not in a relationship with – gives him the “I don’t want a relationship” speech! Specifically, we go over: Why it’s a BAD idea to be the first one to bring up the whole “relationship” thing in the first place Why you shouldn’t try to negotiate with her about being in a...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we open up the “Stop Losing Women” mailbag and answer a message from a guy who met a girl online that says she wants to “take it slow!” Specifically, we go over: The number 1 mistake this guy made that allowed the woman to be in control of how they conversed Why it’s a bad idea to think you’re “inferior” to the woman you’re dating What a woman m...

Happy New Year!! On today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women podcast, I delve into my recent decision to have a vasectomy! It’s one of those issues that can greatly affect a man’s dating life, both positively and negatively, and because it can be controversial, I wanted to discuss what made me come to the decision in the first place. I also talk about the topic of making the decision to have (or n...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about how to handle various relationship obstacles that may come up during the holiday season! Specifically, we go over: What kind of gift to get her – and why getting her what she asks for directly is a HORRIBLE way to go Been dating her for a while? You may meet her family and friends this year – how should you act? What should you bri...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you shouldn’t try starting new relationships during the holiday season! Specifically, we go over: Why a new girl may not give you as much attention this time of year that she normally would during the rest of the year How guys’ constant pestering for her to hang out with him during this time of year can cause her to lose intere...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of being a gentleman when taking a woman out on a date! Specifically, we go over: How and why women will be shocked – SHOCKED – when you act like a gentleman on a date How to appear as a confident gentleman vs. a wimpy nice guy – and yes, she WILL go out with a confident gentleman Various gentlemanly actions you can...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we open up the Stop Losing Women mailbag and answer a reader’s question about how to handle a woman who says she wants to take it slow! Specifically, we go over: Why a woman who genuinely likes you would say this statement in the first place Is her wanting to take it slow a rejection of you? How trying to convince her to move faster will make he...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should stop ignoring when a woman shows you signals indicating she’d be a BAD choice, i.e. “red flags!” Specifically, we go over: What “red flags” are, and what they indicate when a woman shows them Why it’s important not to think you can “change” a woman who shows you these negative signals 10 examples of “red flags” the W...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of not being so messy! Specifically, we go over: The perception of you women have when you are an unkempt man with an unkempt wardrobe, car, and place to live Things you should do to keep your overall life appearance clean Why it pays to have your car/place/etc. clean, even if you don’t think girls will be in those a...

Episode #100, yaaaaaaay!!! In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about the importance of not bailing out when the relationship gets hard! Specifically, we go over: The reason problems will arise, even between two people who love each other The difference between “red flags” and “small relationship hiccups that can be solved” How sticking around and resolving conflicts can sc...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why you should stop watching porn! Specifically, we go over: The effect porn can have on your expectations from the opposite sex The effect porn can have on your stamina in the bedroom The effect porn can have on being able to relate to women in the real world The effect having “fun time” with yourself consistently can have on your...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we answer a letter from a listener who took a girl on a date, followed the stuff he learned from the podcast, and got the girl to ask HIM for another date! Specifically, we go over: Why not talking “future speak” forces her to bring up the idea of more dates What to do when the girl is showing interest in seeing you again – how soon do you see h...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, I answer a guy’s message about over-texting a girl and calling her to ask her out! In addition, I issue a challenge to ALL guys out there who are constantly texting women (and occasionally argue with me about my “Texting KILLS relationships” mantra). The challenge? To see if you can go ONE week without texting a girl, and see what results you ge...

In today’s episode of the Stop Losing Women Podcast, we talk about why there’s no need to fear that a girl you’ve met and made a good impression on will forget you! Specifically, we go over: How having the fear of her forgetting you causes you to make CRITICAL mistakes in your dating game Why a woman can not forget about you if you’ve made a GREAT first impression The only reasons a woman would fo...