Seba O'Kiley

Southern Fried Witch

Society EN ↓ 205 episodes

Musings about life and magic from the Deep South.

Author

Seba O'Kiley

Category

Society

Podcast website

southernfriedwitch.com

Latest episode

Apr 29, 2026

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Episodes

E30: LOVE IN THE TIME OF COVID-19 29.03.2020

This is gonna be rough, y’all: we are working on sheltering in place and my fam is shoved up into every corner. What you will hear today is fairly unedited, recorded roughly and unfairly for my interviewee, and about as raw as it gets. I ain’t about to not put out a podcast, so . . . let’s talk about love, radical defiance in the face of a monster, and hanging on with spirit. Love y’all!

E29: SURVIVAL OF THE SPIRIT: INTERVIEW WITH THE MUSIC MAN 22.03.2020

We are hunkered down, grounding, and attempting the hardest magic of all: peace. Join me for an interview with my second son, the Music Man. Love y’all. Stay home. Seba

E28: THE MOST SACRED SPACES: DAILY RITUALS 15.03.2020

Even your morning coffee can take on the sacred. Y’all come sit on the porch and let us muse on how the small ritual spaces in our lives matter—and how we need to protect them from becoming work. Email me at seba@southernfriedwitch.com. Blessed Be, Y’all!

E27: GREMLINS AND HOW TO BLESS THEM 06.03.2020

Alright: apparently, there are certain words we cannot use right now that have to do with the current, um, situation that we are all worried about. So. Let’s talk about a certain gremlin, if you will, and how to bless its ass? Y’all know I’m about to pick a winner on that animal spirit topic—so send in your stories about an animal that changed the way you understand their character and their impor...

E26: Betty Badasses-SFW Listener Stories 23.02.2020

Y'all, I'm as sick as a dog, but here I am. Time to read those lovely listener emails and think long about what matters! There's a surprise at the end--so suffer all the way through. Love y'all! Write to me at seba@southernfriedwitch.com.

E25: THE GOING RATE OF A SOUTHERN WITCH 16.02.2020

Perhaps the most difficult moment in my life has been learning my worth. Haggling that down demeans my spirit and lays to waste precious magic. Come chat with me on the porch about understanding our worth, standing firm on the weight of it, and determining a fair value for our work and love. The tea is sweet—y’all settle on in! Email me at seba@southernfriedwitch.com and share your own thoughts on...

E24: BEAUTIFUL RUINS 09.02.2020

Of all the podcasts I have done, for some reason, this feels the most personal. Come settle in with me on the porch. We need to talk about the truth when it comes to aging, not some idealistic hogwash. Some of it is horrific. Some of it is heartbreaking. But some of it is just downright fucking beautiful. Welcome to the porch of an aging Southern witch.

E23: PERSEPHONE'S HOPE AND THE SEASONAL WITCH 02.02.2020

Blessed Imbolc! Let’s get real about seasonal depression, loss of hope in general, and hanging in there. Today’s sit n’ sip on the porch is all about sharing the lows, but also the unfathomable (and often hard to locate) hope that resides just under the frozen tundra. I might be sharing too much in this one—but we’re in this together, so . . . Love y’all!

E22: SUPERSTITIOUS WRITING ON THE WALL-BOOGIE AND THE WITCH 26.01.2020

When you believe in things that you don’t understand . . . you might need to kick their ass. Today’s musing on the porch delves into the divide between superstition and the proactive witch. Y’all ready? (Way less chickens are in this episode, but pigs do show up.) The Boogie Man and Seba have a bit of a chat. Come sit on the porch a spell!

E21: FAILURE TO THRIVE AND THE SUPERWITCH 19.01.2020

Just as soon as I’m done birthin’ chickens, we’ll stop talking about chickens. As a Southerner, my analogies will come from my daily life, y’all. Time to talk about some personal stuff, admit some failures, and trudge on into the truth about failure to thrive. (Extra side note not mentioned in the podcast: Go listen to “Sittin’ by the Side of the Road,” sung by Andie MacDowell, from the movie "Mic...

E20: A WITCH'S WEIGHT 05.01.2020

If you don't like chickens, do not click play. Today we're gonna dig right into the weight of responsibility in the Craft, especially for those of us who have have passed those careless witch years. Y'all excuse the Alabama rain in the background and let's rock a little on the porch together!

E19: BONE-TIRED WITCHES AND GYPSY SISTERS 29.12.2019
E18: MAGICAL SOAP AND A PAGAN YULETIDE CAROL 21.12.2019

Blessed Yule, Y’all! Love chatting about ways to witchify your cleaning habits? Come sit on the porch a spell and dig into some natural, country ways to protect your land while scrubbing your floors. (If this is not your digs, skip ahead about 17 minutes). Today’s episode will then wind around the back forty toward a Pagan Yuletide Carol over a warm fire. Have yourself a merry little Winter Solsti...

E17: TINY NIBBLES, RITUALIZED COOKING AND WITCHIFYING EVERY DAMN THING 15.12.2019

Y’all know that moment where we go numb? Where we are just trying to get through the best we can, but our impulse is to throw our armor on and not feel too much? Yeah. That kills our magic. Let’s chat about being present, as much as possible, through the blue days. Let’s witchify ‘ary damn thing, shall we? Send me an email at seba@southernfriedwitch.com with your stories about how you stay awake,...

E16: THE GREAT GATSBY - AND WE BEAT ON 08.12.2019

Tough stuff: Grieving, remembering, and honoring our familiars. Seba shares the life and loss of her sweet Gatsby, the Aussie who became a hero.

E15: BADASS WEIRD WITCHES NAVIGATING THE MUNDANE 01.12.2019

Happy holidays! Today we are chatting about being unique and nourishing those magical differences, rather than conforming to the status quo. All misfits to the porch!

E14: WALLFLOWERS, SHADOW WORK AND GASLIGHTING A WITCH 24.11.2019

We have listener questions! From the magic of wallflower witches to the killing fields of gaslighting, Seba chats back with those of you who have written in... and shares a bit of her own witchy life. Come sit on the porch a spell!

E13-REBELLIOUS SOULS AND ECCENTRIC WITCHES 17.11.2019

Following your inner compass costs you something, but man, what a ride! Come sit a spell and chat about learning the rules in order to break them, witch style. We are going to take a short ride through homesteading—but we always land back on the porch.

E12: OLD WITCHES RUNNING THROUGH FIELDS 10.11.2019

It’s time for a porch chat about aging, generational divides and the spaces in between where magic lives.

E11: TRADITION, RITUAL, AND SENTIMENTAL, SNOTTY WITCHES 03.11.2019

Well, it took three days, but Seba worked through her fever and this is what we got. Let's talk about the importance of tradition, how it can become a ritual, and how to fight ancestral trauma in yours.

E10: POVERTY, GRANDMAS, AND THE MAGIC OF SWEEPING A DIRT PATH 27.10.2019

Poverty does not always equal failure; sometimes a witch's energy is focused on something more important than money.

E9: LEAVING A TRACE: MINDFUL DEATH-CLEANING 20.10.2019

Living a magical life means that we need to prepare for a good death. Seba chats about the baggage we carry, as well as that which litters our abode. Come sit on the porch a spell!

E8: RESISTING DOGMA: DO YOU, WITCH 13.10.2019

Let’s chat about resisting dogma, working from your own habitus , and the sacred nature of Land-Witchery.

E7: HOUND DOGS IN TREES: ODE TO A DEAR FRIEND 05.10.2019

In memory of Seba's beloved friend and father to her son, Billy the Kid. The Southern Fried Witch website will be going dark on Sunday October 6 as a memorial. We will return on Monday.

E6: ASK YOR' LOCAL WITCH: QUESTIONS AND REFLECTIONS 29.09.2019

Seba answers listener questions and muses on a rooster.

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