Sophisticated Ignorance

Flags on the play! Vixon J. and Rovie talk about the multiple flags in relationships, from the red flags and why they’re not recognized, green flags and why they’re not embraced, as well as yellow flags and if they can be dealbreakers. Follow Vixon J.: @vixonj (IG) | @vixon_j (TW) Follow Rovie: @nrevor (IG/TW) Follow the pod: @sipodcast (IG) | @si__podcast (TW) | @si_podcast (TikTok) To ask questi...

The brothers are heated! Vixon J. and Rovie discuss the latest debate of Black Greek Life represented in media, specifically in a recent episode of Insecure. They determine what is considered as disrespectful to these organizations and what are the ramifications, if any, of these groups being misrepresented. Follow Vixon J.: @vixonj (IG) | @vixon_j (TW) Follow Rovie: @nrevor (IG/TW) Follow the pod...

It be your own parents. Vixon J. and Rovie break down the traits of a toxic parent, from burdening children with adult problems, emotional gaslighting and anger issues driving a wedge in their relationship with their kids. Follow Vixon J.: @vixonj (IG) | @vixon_j (TW) Follow Rovie: @nrevor (IG/TW) Follow the pod: @sipodcast (IG) | @si__podcast (TW) | @si_podcast (TikTok) To ask questions/advice, g...

He did that shit! Vixon J. and Rovie discuss R. Kelly and the recent trail which found him guilty of multiple crimes, especially sexual abuse towards women. They discuss why abusers are expected to be redeemed while their victims don’t get the same care, how celebrities support their own bad acts and how we should properly address those affected by these abusers.

Lost and not found. Vixon J. and Rovie explore the disparities of media coverage in missing person cases from a racial standpoint, defining “missing white woman syndrome,” highlighting different missing people of color and statistics about missing persons and why there are unbalanced. Resources https://blackandmissinginc.com/ 
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We did that! Vixon J. and Rovie wrap up their fifth year with their live show! They discuss high value and the pros and cons of its definition. They also have some fun with some shenanigans, a round of Ignorant Debates and some Q.T.N.A. Thanks to everyone who came out, truly appreciate you. Host: @shazthephotog Sponsors: @drunknshots, @coco_chanel, @groc_handsome (IG) Follow Vixon J.: @vixonj (IG)...

Who’s groceries are being ate?! Vixon J. and Rovie discuss the latest memes and stories from social media, including stiffing out on an expensive bill, gentrifying your own people, and the dangers of being a public figure online, especially as black women. Follow Vixon J.: @vixonj (IG) | @vixon_j (TW) Follow Rovie: @nrevor (IG/TW) Follow the pod: @sipodcast (IG) | @si__podcast (TW) | @si_podcast (...

There’s a hater in every corner. Vixon J. and Rovie explore jealousy in friendships and relationships, defining what makes someone jealous, traits to look out for and how to manage personal jealous emotions. Follow Vixon J.: @vixonj (IG) | @vixon_j (TW) Follow Rovie: @nrevor (IG/TW) Follow the pod: @sipodcast (IG) | @si__podcast (TW) | @si_podcast (TikTok) To ask questions/advice, guest appearance...

Take the shot or not! Vixon J. and Rovie are back and discussing the state of vaccinations and the decision to be vaccinated or not. They determine who is being more safe and how different ad campaigns are pandering to Black Americans to get vaccinated. Follow Vixon J.: @vixonj (IG) | @vixon_j (TW) Follow Rovie: @nrevor (IG/TW) Follow the pod: @sipodcast (IG) | @si__podcast (TW) | @si_podcast (Tik...

We're just getting started. Vixon J., in this mini episode, discusses the new viral variants that have been discovered, specifically the Delta Variant, where it originated from, what symptoms you can experience and how to stay safe. Follow Vixon J.: @vixonj (IG) | @vixon_j (TW) Follow Rovie: @nrevor (IG/TW) Follow the pod: @sipodcast (IG) | @si__podcast (TW) | To ask questions/advice, guest appear...

You don’t have the answers! Vixon J. and Rovie get into another round of questions, including a guy offering his wife to his best friend, someone attempting to reclaim their land and if they’d give their arch-nemesis millions of dollars. Follow Vixon J.: @vixonj (IG) | @vixon_j (TW) Follow Rovie: @nrevor (IG/TW) Follow the pod: @sipodcast (IG) | @si__podcast (TW) To ask questions/advice, guest app...

Appropriation much? Vixon J. and Rovie discuss Michael B Jordan’s rum line as they reexamine cultural appropriation, specifically from a Caribbean lens. They bring up a long time offender to island culture, how Black TikTok is boycotting white creators and much more.

Speak Your Truth. Vixon J. and Rovie discuss their relationships with the truth, as they differentiate honesty versus transparency. They discuss how honesty is viewed towards themselves and others, how transparency can be good and bad, as well as how their truths have helped them grow.

Let's put these topics to rest! Vixon J. and Rovie are joined by Via Simone (of Bonnets & Durags/Pillow Talk Podcast) to officially retire certain topics that are discussed repeatedly on the timeline, including $200 dates, splitting bills, who's more important between one's kids and their partners, even choosing between having dinner with Jay-Z or $50K.

What the shenanigans? Vixon J. and Rovie break down some of the wild stories across the timeline including a super casual groom, Summer Walker and her baby feeding choices and Monique’s beef with bonnets. They also answer if someone is an asshole for not wanting to help their pregnant relative move.

Who runs the world? Vixon J. and Rovie are joined by Shanté (of Flash Zine) and Phylicia to discuss their recent collaboration and women in the music industry. They lists their favorite artists, if female artists are truly respected, positions behind the scenes and how more women in creative roles should be highlighted. Follow Shante: @shazthephotog & @flashzine Follow Phylicia: @chvrmd (Episode A...

Safety first! Vixon J. and Rovie discuss creating safe spaces on a professional and personal level, especially in digital and physical spaces. They share recent incidents of victims being violated in their workspaces and go over what goes into creating safe spaces for a diversity of people. They finally answer if a teenager is being neglected by their parent or not.

Express yourself! Vixon J. and Rovie discuss Black expressionism in the forms of visual arts and fashion in culture. They discuss how Black artistry has been viewed and treated throughout the years, as well as fashion and its influence on how it’s received and consumed. They also answer if a person is an asshole for ignoring their roommate in need.

Questions that need answers! Vixon J. and Rovie take the time to answer some personal questions, like the saddest moments in their lives, who they miss the most, childhood habits they still have and more.

We all go together. Vixon J. and Rovie discuss polyamorous, polyandrous and other multi-partnered relationships, their definitions and its misconceptions with infidelity. They also answer if someone is an asshole for blackballing a relative for a position at their job.

Can we live? Vixon J. and Rovie discuss how they’re coping as it relates to the polarizing events of the Derek Chauvin verdict and the murder of Ma’Khia Bryant. They discuss the adultification of Black youth, breaking down a partner’s worth via their text interaction and answer if a person’s friend may be colorist.

Getting things off our chests! Vixon J. and Rovie get into what’s been on their minds, such as reflecting on the latest police brutality and fatality moments that have happened in this past few weeks, including Duante White Jr., friendship dates and toxic friendships and if a guy is an asshole for not caring about his brother’s kids.

Access granted or denied? Vixon J. and Rovie are joined by Jade to discuss the different forms of access that we allow others in our lives. From digital to physical, they discuss what it means to be an “open book,” code switching, social media personalities and if one should regain access once it’s taken away.

It’s us versus them! Vixon J. and Rovie discuss the saturation of Black trauma in media and how it relates to the reality that we see everyday. They share a recent bill that passed in Georgia, which will effect voter capabilities for Black constituents and answer what would make someone they’re attracted to unattractive.

Cheaters gonna cheat. Vixon J. and Rovie go over the latest relationship scandals that have hit social media recently between Derrick Jaxn and his wife, as well as Quavo and Saweetie. They discuss cheating, the roles of partners in their relationships, accountability of actions and how to be better. They also answer what makes people stay toxic. Follow Vixon J.: @vixonj (IG) | @vixon_j (TW) Follow...