Sophie-sticated Mom Podcast By Dr. Sophia Reed

Sometimes it is better to hurt yourself temporarily then it is to stay in a situation that will bring you long term pain.  That’s why, I would much rather hurt myself NOW then cry later and allow someone else to hurt me.   Link to all of my books and products: https://sophie-sticatedmom.com/my-products/shop Get the amplified Bible I read from:   Joyce Meyer Amplified Bible: https://amzn.to/3npbTyO...

This post is going to give you a prayer for healing or actually several prayers for healing.  Because let’s face it, not all healing that you need is physical.  Sometimes it is mental or sometimes you may be hurting so bad that you do not even know what you need healing from.  This is why I want to give you a prayer for healing.  A prayer for healing in the areas of:  Mental Healing Physical Heali...

Boyfriend vs husband privileges are not the same. I do not care how long you have been dating, going out, and I do not care if you “see” your boyfriend like your husband. I do not care if you live together, if you have children together, or if you have met his family. I do not even care about common-law marriage. Unless you have a legally binding document, also knows as a marriage certificate, the...

Do you feel like you can’t get over a breakup or are you having difficulty getting over a breakup? If so then you have come to the right place because I am going to give you 5 very real tips on how to get over someone ASAP. Also, you can check out my other blog about how to get over a breakup in the fastest way possible. Link to the original post (including videos and other blog posts that were me...

If you have been looking all across the internet trying to find how to make a man fall in love with you let me answer that question for you in a nutshell you can’t. So many women are forcing a relationship with men thinking that they are helping when really it is just running men away. Link to the original post (including videos and other blog posts that were mentioned): https://sophie-sticatedmom...

Let get into the red flags that women missed about Derrick Jaxon.  The lying, cheating on his wife, him throwing God into it.  Link to original video: https://youtu.be/-_yQy59Wzfc Related Videos:  Types of men who cheat: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pif1cB_uSSc Men Who Look Good On Paper: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KbwWp82cYrg How To be On Your Grown Woman Status: https://www.youtube.com/w...

Saweetie and Quavo are the perfect example of when a man tries to buy you in order to do his dirt on the side and you won’t say nothing. But what happens when money is not worth the disrespect.   Link to original video: https://youtu.be/W7P0ycFnDtk Empressive Tv Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2VziDrz79Y&t Get my book:  Fix It, Jesus! For Single Women Only. The Straightforward No-Nonse...

If you are stuck asking yourself “why am I so insecure” then I am going to get into some reasons why but also let’s talk about how to get over it.  I would love to sit here and tell you that the reason why you are insecure comes down to one thing and once this one thing is dealt with you will no longer be insecure. Link to the original post (and related content): https://sophie-sticatedmom.com/202...

In this post, I am going to tell you how to deal with difficult coworkers. On top of being a mental health professional, I have also had my share of having to work with difficult people. In fact, I have an entire dedication video down below so you can see that I get your pain.  And now I am happy to say that I have mastered the art and feel that it is my duty to share how to do so with you. Link t...

In this post, I am going to tell you the difference between love and infatuation and even lust because there are many of you walking around getting yourselves into bad relationships because you do not know the difference. You may be calling your purely sexual relationship "love" when in reality it is just "lust." And you may be calling your "infatuation," "love&q...

In this post, I am going to tell you how to never settle and how to get what you deserve in a relationship. The fact of the matter is that so many of you are sitting around in a bad relationship wondering why you are treated like trash, wondering why you are coming last in a relationship, or why you keep getting bad men who give you less than what you deserve.  The entire premise of this post is g...

The Rake is an archetype in the art of seduction but plenty of them are walking around today in the form of a narcissist, player, a pick up artist, or a man who just want to hit it and quit it.  Don’t get caught up, learn their game so you can avoid them.  Link to original video: https://youtu.be/wG0LlSrjkf4 Stream song in outro  (for Every Good Work) https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/sophialvon/f...

What Is A Beta Male & Why To Avoid Them At All Cost What is a beta male? Well in short a beta male is something that I have dubbed a man-child. But in short to answer your question “what is a beta male.” A beta male: is a man that is unmotivated, nonassertive, men who have no real plans for their life, they will not take initiative, and if they can live off of you they will. Link to the origin...

In this post, I am going to tell you what men really want in a woman. Because the fact of the matter is that what men really want and what women think men really want can be two different things. A woman might call her behavior caring a man may call it needy. A woman may call her behavior nurturing while a man calls her behavior controlling. A woman may think that she is in a relationship with a m...

As a single mom myself and a mental health professional I can say that knowing how to build self-esteem in a child is important. And building self-esteem in children goes beyond telling them that they are doing a good job. It goes beyond doing a few activities and telling them they are an awesome person. The most important aspect of building self-esteem in children is that it is in day-to-day inte...

In this post, I am going to tell you how and why you should stop feeling sorry for yourself. The fact of the matter is when you sit around feeling sorry for yourself, the more you become the victim in your own eyes, and the more victim you become in your own eyes the more you are not doing anything. Not succeeding at anything, and the more that you are sitting around watching life pass you by beca...

One of the downfalls of social media and photoshop is that it makes us all appear perfect when we are not.  So now in relationships and with men, and even with yourself we strive to reach this perfection that can NEVER be reached.  Hence with Megan the Stallion was shamed for not wearing makeup.  Really when she is literally beautiful both ways.  So what do we do about it?   Link to original video...

Let’s get into the signs that your friend doesn’t care about you.  No matter if you want to believe it or not the people that you have in your most inner circle can make or break you.  Understand that having toxic friends, frenemies, and people who do not care about you in your inner space can bring you down. I want you to also consider watching my video below about toxic friends and don’t forget...

Competing with another woman for a man has become the norm. And because it is the norm I think that women are way too blind to realize how stupid this actually is.  I have written a blog on how to not be a woman fighting over one man, which I also highly recommend you read. But in this post, I am going to tell you why you should NEVER, EVER under any circumstances AND I MEAN EVER be competing with...

Are you wondering when to have the birds and the bees talk with your child and how exactly to do it? Well, my advice is that it should always be sooner rather than later.  And I want to encourage you as a parent that it is really not as bad as you think. Even as a Christian I realize it is important to have an open dialogue about sex. Link to the original post (including related videos and blog po...

A plain definition of a wifey is a woman that is in a serious relationship with a man.  She is more so of an elevated girlfriend but not really an actual wife. Typically, the relationship is so serious that the man considers her to be wife material, but she is called his wifey because they are not married but due to the title the name gives the appearance of marriage.  A wifey is a woman who does...

One of the best books written on how to attract people is the Art Of Seduction.  Now granted some of the advice I recommend you should NEVER FOLLOW.  But a lot of it is good.  Particularly the Siren archetype. These are the lessons you should take from the Siren and what you should probably NOT DO.  Stream song in intro  (for Every Good Work) https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/sophialvon/for-every-...

Let’s talk about the art of letting go of a relationship and why it is so important.  One of the biggest things that will hold you back in your romantic journey is holding onto relationships that you know you should not be in, in the first place.  Because the longer you refuse to let go of a relationship the longer you are going to stay away from the actual person you are supposed to be with becau...

When it comes to couples ready to get a divorce and sometimes they had only been married for a year. Give yourself the BEST chance at marriage by learning to avoid getting into a failed marriage. As it stands, the divorce rate in the United State is at about 50%, meaning that you should be willing to do anything and everything to make sure that when you get married that you give yourself the BEST...

7 Tips For Job Interviews With Guaranteed Success Knowing how to make a good impression in an interview can be the difference between getting a job and not getting a job.  This is why this post is going to reveal to you 7 tips for job interviews so that you will know without a shadow of a doubt that you are in the running for getting this job Link to the original link ( to see all post and videos...