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Waiting and trusting can be hard! But both are necessary if we want the best outcomes in life. Anything significant in life requires time. It's how we show up during these times of waiting that really determines the results and impact.  Listen in to today's episode as I share a few ideas for how you can show up as you wait in a way that will build your spiritual muscles and dependence on God. When...

We are all called to forgive others, no matter the offense. Why? Because God tells us to. Not only that, but the only way that WE will receive forgiveness is if WE FORGIVE. Does forgiveness= forgetting or accepting wrongs? NO! Far from it.  In today's episode, I'm breaking down what forgiveness really means and how we're all called to demonstrate it.  In order to have true peace, you may need to f...

One of the most selfless things we can do is to live a life that sets up our future generations for blessings upon blessings. We do this by living intentionally and purposefully, regardless of what was handed down to us.  Inspired by Pastor Brian Bullock's sermon on legacy, I am sharing my perspective on changing the course of my family line.  Support the Podcast When You Purchase Any of the Produ...

According to Tony Robbins, every human has 6 core human needs: Certainty, Uncertainty/Variety, Significance, Love/Connection, Growth, and Contribution. When we are able to understand all of our mental and emotional needs, we can live more purposeful and meaningful lives.  Tune in to today's episode to learn more about our core needs as well as ideas for how to meet them.  Support the Podcast When...

The term narcissist seems to get tossed around a bit these days. People who may demonstrate selfishness or a sense of entitlement may incorrectly be labeled as such. In my conversation with today's guest, we get an inside look at what true narcissism looks like as well as the toll it can have on family members.  Unable to continue living under the same roof with her husband, Christelle found the c...

Many people would agree that marriage is hard. But, it's also beautiful and sacred, too. Join me today as I share a little bit about the struggles I've faced in my own marriage as well as the secret to keeping it together and building a solid foundation.  With love and God (who is love) at the center, anything is possible.  Support the Podcast When You Purchase Any of the Products Below!  *All pro...

Whether you are a parent or not, the way in which you live your life is impacting others. As parents, we can never be perfect and we're not expected to even try. What we can do, however, is be aware of the decisions we make and the lifestyle that we choose to live and to consider how it impacts our children and other loved ones.  Whether it is your physical health, marriage or relationship, financ...

We're so used to hearing the terms 'self care' and 'self love' but what does that really mean? I like to think about this as being well from within. How do we address this? In this episode, I share the idea that each of us is the main character in our own story and we are writing it every day by the decisions we make. What is happening within us? How is our mental, emotional, and spiritual health?...

Whether we realize it or not, we all have habits- some good, some not so good. The thing is, no matter how seemingly small a habit is, you can bet that it is responsible for some pretty big results in your life.  Listen in to today's episode as I share more about what a habit is, why we have them, and how to change them so they work for us. Shop Affirmation Cards Grab Your Gratitude Journal  Let’s...

Part of creating the life you desire is your ability to decide to do so. If we could learn to be firm in our minds about what we will or will not accomplish, everything would be different. Many of us get caught up in the HOW instead of focusing on the WHAT, keeping ourselves stuck and frustrated. In today's episode, I'm reading a powerful article that teaches us how to  become a firm decision make...

Most people don't realize the power they truly have over their thought life. They also don't realize that a single thought can lead to their ultimate joy or pain.  In this episode, I am offering suggestions for practicing having thoughts that work for us and not against us. Over time, this practice leads to new automatic thought patterns that are positive, productive, and powerful. While we're not...

Many of us believe a life of wealth is beyond us. Before we can experience this reality, we must have an abundant mindset and embrace all that we already have. When we are filled with a spirit of gratitude and generosity, we naturally receive more. Listen in to today's episode as I share the idea that we all have the same potential for financial abundance and prosperity. I am using a recently read...

So often, the desire for more money gets twisted. Real twisted. Listen to today's episode as I share what it looks and feels like to be financially wealthy.  The more money we have, the more we get to enjoy life and be generous to others. God has called us to be fruitful and multiply in everything that we do- this includes our money. Let's be rich together! There is an abundance of wealth and it i...

Most people automatically connect the word 'rich' with financial wealth. In today's episode, I am breaking down the real meaning of what it means to be rich IMO.  As just about any rich person will tell you, without love, joy, and peace , money doesn't mean much. Let's all work harder to create a life of true abundance as we also build our financial wealth. Visit my Etsy Shop Grab Your Gratitude J...

Listen in to this week's episode where I share about my latest cross country travels with my daughter. I also discuss receiving a heart wrenching call from my best friend of over 30 years during this trip and how I am managing to move through it with a range of emotions. This is the last show for Season 1! Thank you for being here and for choosing to listen along. You are the best! Stay in touch m...

Join me for a powerful conversation with author and speaker Jordan Raynor about what the real meaning behind our work is, according to God's word. Jordan shares the biblically stated truth that the work we all do matters for eternity. He also shares the inspiration and hope for his newest children's book, The Creator in You.  No matter what job you have in life (excluding sinful jobs) there is gre...

In this episode, I share my experience after learning that my husband of over twenty years was a drug addict. My sole mission became to protect and shield my children from the ugliness that addiction brings with it. I filed for divorce and a court order to have him removed from the home. It was one of the toughest things I've ever had to do.  To families of addicts: Hold on to hope. By the grace o...

For thirty years, my husband struggled with drug and alcohol abuse and addiction. After silently dealing with war-related PTSD for several years and medically retiring from his job in law enforcement in 2015, his drug use hit an all time high.  Unable to slow down his drug use, his life quickly spiraled downward until he nearly lost his family, hope, and life itself.  By the grace of God, he survi...

The next time you have to make a u turn back home because you forgot something, be grateful it wasn't a 20 hour u turn like mine! Ten hours into a 33 hour drive, my daughter informed me that her move in date was actually a few weeks later! Instead of letting her have it for not communicating properly regarding this BIG move, I decided we were going to make a fun adventure out of the mishap and tha...

Life, right?  Whatever it is you may be going through, rest assured that it will pass and things will smooth out. There is hope. You are loved and God has His perfect plan for your life. With each new sunrise comes new hope. Look ahead with joyful expectation and put your trust in the hand of God. Tune in as Barbara shares about some difficult times that others are experiencing and reminds us that...

We all have dreams, desires, gifts, and talents within us. Why do so many of us hold off, put off, and refuse to take necessary action?  It all boils down to one thing: FEAR. Fear of failure, rejection, embarrassment...  In this episode, Barbara reminds us that God did not give us a spirit of fear but of power, love, and self discipline.  It's up to us to live the life we dream.  Go get it! Visit...

If you've never been to jail, DON'T ever go there!!  The strip search, wearing other peoples underwear, and serving 100 community hours as a dishwasher at an Alcoholics Anonymous was so not the business for nineteen year old Barbara.  Tune in to today's episode where Barbara shares her experience of fighting in a nightclub and landing herself in a jail cell. It was a hard lesson to learn but she d...

Have you ever been in an unfair, unjust, or uncomfortable situation at work and you just couldn't sit back and do nothing?  On today's episode, Barbara shares the story of standing up for herself with her boss and how it all worked out in her favor. For months, she struggled with making the decision to quit her teaching career, but before she could turn in her resignation, she was let go by what s...

Some call it generational curses, while others call it generational patterns. Either way, there are many signs in every family that point to the behaviors and circumstances that continue to show up and cause trouble and pain.  What are the curses in your family that you will strike out and replace with healthy and bless-able behaviors?  How do you deal with generational curses? Prayer is the ultim...

If you look back at your upbringing and the environment that you were in growing up, you might be able to connect the dots on some current beliefs and behaviors. Some of these behaviors may be healthy and good, and some, maybe not so much. Understanding the root cause for anything is always powerful in making decisions about your choices moving forward.  In this episode, Barbara shares details abo...