Someone Gets Me Podcast

In this episode of the "Someone Gets Me" podcast, host Dianne A. Allen delves into the concept of the "three amigos" who accompany us on our life journey. She categorizes people into three archetypes: Encouragers, who genuinely support and help us grow; Piggy Backers, who offer verbal support but lack meaningful action; and Exiters, who may hold us back and create stagnation. Dianne emphasizes the...

In this podcast episode, host Dianne A. Allen delves into the concept of accountability, especially within mental health and substance abuse professions. Dianne challenges the notion that accountability is punitive, advocating instead for its role in personal and professional growth. She recounts a professional training session where presenters discouraged enforcing accountability on patients, a s...

In this episode of "Someone Gets Me," host Dianne A. Allen explores the transformative power of various thinking styles and their impact on our lives. She discusses the importance of cultivating big picture thinking, focused thinking, creative thinking, realistic thinking, possibility thinking, reflective thinking, and unselfish thinking. Dianne emphasizes how our thoughts shape our experiences an...

Episode Description In this episode of "Someone Gets Me," host Dianne A. Allen explores the distinction between excellence and perfectionism. She explains that perfectionism, often rooted in fear of failure or success, can lead to self-sabotage and unrealistic standards. In contrast, excellence involves continuous personal growth and realistic self-assessment. Using the analogy of snow skiing, Dia...

In this episode, hosted by Dianne A. Allen, Dianne delves into the complexities of anger in society. She discusses the origins of anger, its manifestations, and the role of intergenerational pain and societal pressures. Dianne emphasizes the importance of awareness, truth-telling, and setting healthy boundaries. She also highlights the detrimental effects of gossip and the need for radical self-ca...

Welcome to the Someone Gets Me podcast, where we help smart, talented, and sensitive people navigate an often insensitive world. Dianne A Allen, your host is an ambassador, author, speaker, and intuitive mentor for bright and talented people are woven into each episode. She has the experience and knowledge to educate and inspire as she has been there and understands your unique intensities, sensit...

In today's episode, we're going to talk about the mental health of visionary leaders. As a visionary leader, your mental health is not just about whether you have a diagnosis or not, or if you're sick. It's about your ability to effectively navigate the world and make a real difference. Visionary leaders, like you, have different considerations and additional challenges when it comes to mental hea...

Welcome to the Someone Gets Me podcast, with Dianne A Allen, your host. In this episode, I will be discussing how to practice acceptance as a visionary leader. Acceptance is energy conservation. When we are in a place of acceptance, spiritually, emotionally, or mentally, we are conserving our vital energy to focus it toward what really serves us and our goals. It allows us to reserve our resources...

In this episode of the "Someone Gets Me" podcast, host Dianne A Allen offers guidance to neurodivergent individuals on how to navigate life's challenges and achieve personal liberation. She discusses the significance of surrendering compulsive behaviors, taking decisive action, and transforming negative thoughts into joy. Allen encourages embracing the present, releasing past conditioning, and end...

In this episode, Dianne discusses the transformative power of authenticity and laughter for personal growth. She begins with an affirmation about embracing aliveness and sensitivity to the good in life. Dianne emphasizes the need to live authentically, guided by intuition rather than judgment and assumptions. She shares her journey from seriousness to rediscovering laughter, highlighting its role...

"I know you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant." In this episode of "Someone Gets Me," host Dianne A Allen shares insights on the perils of assigning motives to others and how this can damage relationships, both personally and professionally. Through her personal story and discussion, Dianne highlights the importance o...

Hello, my brilliant friends! It's Dianne A. Allen here, your guide and confidante on the journey to understanding our bright and sensitive souls.  In our fast-paced, always-on world, it's easy to feel overwhelmed. For those of us with gifted sensitivities, the chaos can be even more pronounced. But fear not! I'm here to explore the delicate dance of living in overdrive and how we can find our foot...

In this episode of "Someone Gets Me," Dianne delves deep into the realms of mental health awareness and the intricacies of neurodivergence. With her insightful commentary, Dianne underscores the critical need for proactive mental health care and the celebration of life's inherent beauty. She advocates for the practice of self-compassion and the transformative power of positive self-dialogue. Throu...

In this episode, I explore a topic that's close to my heart: the importance of paying attention. It's a simple concept, yet it holds the power to transform our lives in profound ways. Here are some insights and lessons from the episode. The Essence of Paying Attention: Paying attention is an art that requires practice and intention. It's about being fully present in the moment, whether you're imme...

In this episode of "Someone Gets Me," host Dianne A Allen delves into the profound topic of existential loneliness, offering insights and strategies for those who feel disconnected in a world that doesn't always understand them. Drawing from her own experiences and expertise, Dianne shares invaluable wisdom on how to identify and connect with one's tribe, combating feelings of isolation and findin...

In this podcast episode, host Dianne discusses the transformative concept of "being the gift" in life. She explores the journey of moving beyond victimhood through radical self-care and the release of inner burdens. Dianne emphasizes the importance of compassion towards oneself and others, and the cultivation of hope and excellence over perfectionism. Drawing from her book "Hope Realized," she off...

In this episode of the podcast, host Dianne explores the idea of being a beneficial presence, especially for those who are intensely sensitive. She stresses the importance of deep listening, a service-oriented mindset, and setting healthy boundaries. Dianne discusses how these practices can lead to positive and inspiring interactions, urging listeners to consider their own impact on the world and...

In this podcast episode, Dianne, the host of "Someone Gets Me," explores the various ways people may inadvertently or deliberately steal from their friends. She covers scenarios such as expecting freebies from entrepreneur friends, social exclusion, idea theft, and actions that diminish joy. Dianne stresses the importance of self-respect, clear communication, and stopping the justification of poor...

In this episode, Dianne delves into the challenges faced by intensely sensitive and twice exceptional people when they engage in deep intellectual pursuits. She shares personal experiences and introduces the concept of the three "P's"—payoff, price, and profit—as a framework to evaluate when to emerge from these deep dives. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and balance, provi...

In this episode of the "Someone Gets Me" podcast, host Diane Allen tackles the issue of behavioral addiction, emphasizing its profound effects on personal well-being. She shares a story of a man overly devoted to helping others, neglecting himself in the process. Diane discusses various forms of behavioral addiction, including excessive screen time and compulsive distractions that prevent individu...

In this podcast episode, Dianne reflects on the transformative power of joy, drawing from personal wisdom gained on a recent trip. Emphasizing the need to let go of unhelpful beliefs and behaviors, Dianne advocates for creating space for joy by jettisoning what doesn't work, omitting hindrances, and aligning with higher principles. Through stories and examples, including relationship dynamics, she...

In this episode of the "Someone Gets Me" podcast, host Dianne Allen and emotional intelligence expert Carol Gill discuss the complexities of emotional intelligence in gifted and ADHD individuals. They explore the importance of self-awareness, managing emotional intensity, and the challenges of navigating social interactions. The conversation covers the significance of empathy, active listening, an...

In this episode of the "Someone Gets Me" podcast, Dianne explores the complexities of self-definition. As an intuitive mentor, she prompts listeners to reflect on their own identities beyond surface-level labels. Sharing anecdotes and personal experiences, Dianne challenges the subjective nature of terms like "musician" and "legend," while discussing the influence of external opinions on self-perc...

In this episode of the "Someone Gets Me" podcast, host Diane Allen explores the complex nature of love, challenging the notion that it's merely a feeling or that it inherently causes pain. She discusses love as a state of being and the importance of recognizing and expressing one's love language. Diane encourages listeners to reflect on their personal experiences with love, to understand it as an...

In this episode, I'm opening up about a truly special person—Millie. Her story isn't just a narrative; it's a masterclass in love, a virtue we all seek to understand and embody. Millie's life is a testament to the power of kindness, generosity, and a profound spiritual connection. Here's a little sneak peek of what you'll discover when you tune in: 🌟 The Art of Kindness: Learn how simple acts can...