soju with sarah

welcome to today’s spicy episode where we answer a controversial question, “do you miss being single?” while there’s no clear answer to this, we do dive into the nuances of being single vs. in a relationship and our realities back when we had more “relationship independence” ~ for all of our soju shotties out there that are single, let us know your thoughts! today's specialty drink on the menu: mi...

we're focusing on the male perspective today as our co-host james takes the stage to share his experience navigating love, relationships, dating, and the big ol' question of long term commitment. today he answers some hard hitting questions like his ideal type, why he never dated before sarah and how he overcame his fear of commitment ~ grab your drinks and strap in because today's episode is a ju...

today we're chatting about mindset shifts as we entering our 30s ~ while 30 is still a few years away from me, the 20s can be a confusing & challenging period leading up to it. i've personally had my own existential crises in this time (as y'all have probably witnessed) so today let's break down the little bits of our late 20s that challenge us! today's specialty drink on t...

today we're talking about family dynamics & growing up in an immigrant household ~ this is a topic that is near and dear to our hearts so we're diving into all things familial responsibilities, commitments & what we truly owe our families. so grab your mugs and let's chat! today's specialty drink on the menu: yogurt soju chapters (00:00:00) intro (00:03:01) do you owe your parents? (00:12:...

welcome to another soju friday! for today's episode, i compiled pieces of life advice that i've found personally useful and uplifting~ hope y'all enjoy :) today's specialty drink on the menu: lilikoi passion soju chapters (00:00:00) intro (00:02:49) fail small, not big (00:04:28) fall forward rather than backward (00:05:24) ask stupid questions (00:07:48) luck needs preparation (00...

today we're having a fun chat about fashion, style & self expression ~ there will be one too many cringey outfit pics, some *lighthearted* roasts & deep dives into our fashion evolutions :) today's specialty drink on the menu: melon jelly soju chapters (00:00:00) intro (00:09:10) drink of the day (00:10:07) james' relationship to personal style (00:14:45) sarah's relationship to personal s...

read all our soju shotty 💕vday💕 submissions here! ➭ https://sojuwithsarah.com from high school sweethearts to complete sociopaths, from soulmates to exes who didn’t even know your name—this episode is a rollercoaster. we’re diving into wild dating stories, rekindled romances, matchmaking fails, and love advice straight from the soju shotties. buckle up for some unhinged, hilarious, and heartwarm...

today we're talking about being "cool" - the pitfalls and distractions that "coolness" creates in our lives. we talk about living in nyc, the death of subculture, and what to prioritize in life. get ready for another friday of putting us on your incognito browser at work, minimizing the window, and listening to the dulcet tones of our voices as you pretend to work on this b...

the tea is piping hot today! today we're bringing you a long overdue advice column where we talk all things relationship, life, and career based on submissions from our wonderful soju shotties (shawties). get ready for an hour of riveting discussion and maybe even a cameo from our pawducer. have a lovely soju friday! :) today's specialty drink on the menu: red wine chapters (00:00:00) intr...

today is all about love! in this episode, we’re diving into the do’s and don’ts of relationships — and not to mention, spilling some spicy stories from the past ~ whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, this is your guide to building connections that actually last; so grab your mugs and let's chat about love! today's specialty drink on the menu: cucumber mint soju chapters (00...

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today, co-host becomes interviewee in this riveting discussion on james's quitting journey! let's talk about the experience of quitting your corporate job and taking a bet on yourself. we get deep into the thought process and lead-up to james pivoting to a creative career so grab a nice drink and enjoy our conversation :) today's specialty drink on the menu: thai tea chapters (00:00:00) preview (0...

welcome soju shotties to the first episode of 2025! with our co-host joining, we have a fun and introspective episode about identity and mindset as we grow older. so grab a nice hot drink and get cozy as we talk about feeling "old" vs feeling "young" today's specialty drink on the menu: white russian chapters (00:00:00) preview (00:00:18) james is back (00:03:36) episode topic (00:06:36) youthful...

happy 2025 soju shotties! let's sit down and chat for our very last episode of 2024! today we talk about why 2025 won't be your "year", and advice on how to live your best life. we're so grateful to all our soju shotties for tuning in during the holidays and we can't wait to continue on with you all in the new year :) today's specialty drink on the menu: mixed herbal tea chapters (00:00:00) previe...

welcome to a new set & a new beginning! today we talk about change and how to embrace change head on while also learning to grow from it ~ so grab your mugs and let's chat! today's specialty drink on the menu: yuja seltzer (00:00:00) preview (00:00:20) intro (00:01:30) new apartment setup (00:03:07) drink of the day (00:04:00) difficulties moving in (00:08:03) don’t resist change (00:13:09) un...

welcome back to our LAST episode in this apartment, where we talk about finances, our childhoods, and money tips. we hope you find value in our discussion and look out for future episodes in our new apartment :) today's specialty drink on the menu: milk tea chapters (00:00:00) preview (00:00:13) episode topic (00:05:20) drink of the day (00:07:22) how much do we save? (00:13:05) does money buy hap...

welcome to your bi-annual identity crisis! today we talk about the onset of an identity crisis, the plight of social media in this era of overconsumption & how to recover from an ongoing identity crisis ~ we're getting a little more introspective about all things superficial + non-superficial, so grab your mugs and let's chat! today's specialty drink on the menu: barley tea (00:00:00) preview...

today we’re reflecting on why gratitude is so essential in life and what we're grateful for this holiday season! so grab you mugs and let's all say "thank you" together in unison :) today's specialty drink on the menu: apple cider chapters (00:00:00) preview (00:00:17) intro (00:07:16) why gratitude is important (00:09:52) james has a counterpoint! (00:12:42) more perks of gratitude (00:15:20) und...

today we're chatting about a topic that is intimidating for a lot of people and often seen as a little "icky". we're going to unpack what networking truly is, beyond just clout chasing and social climbing. there's many different types of networking and ways to do it effectively, so grab your favorite drink and let's talk about how to network in your 20s :) today's specialty drink on the menu: appl...

if you're just as confused as we are about winter arcs, then this is the episode for you! let's deep dive into "winter arcs," the time of year when life seems to slow down, routines shift, and introspection sets in ~ whether it's about finding comfort in solitude, setting meaningful goals for the new year, or simply enjoying cozy nights in, we're talking about how winter can be more than just a co...

t-2 months until 2025! in this episode, we're rethinking the idea of waiting for 2025 to start fresh ~ we’ll talk about how the “perfect time” mindset can keep you stuck, and why now is as good as any moment to begin working toward what matters ~ so grab you mugs and let's chat! today's specialty drink on the menu: banana milk matcha chapters (00:00:00) preview (00:00:15) intro (00:02:56) drink of...

today’s episode of soju with sarah is a spooky one! we’re diving deep into the fears you face in your 20s — from friendships and adulting to the haunting realities of growing up. you’ll find out why your 20s are truly the scariest era of life (boo!), and we’re breaking down the stuff no one warns you about. grab a cozy drink and join us as we explore the anxieties of adulthood with some laughs alo...

stressed, overwhelmed, worried? in today's episode we take a quick breather and talk about what to do when life feels overwhelming. so grab your mugs & let's navigating this feeling together ~ today's specialty drink on the menu: pumpkin spice white russian chapters (00:00:00) drink of the day (00:00:20) intro (00:02:00) feeling overwhelmed (00:09:26) too much choice is paralyzing (00:12:54) i...

join us for the second episode of our halloween series! hope you're ready for a discussion about the self-perception gap and our experience with it in life ~ grab a drink and get cozy while you listen to our little chat :) today's specialty drink on the menu: spicy apple cider margarita chapters (00:00:00) drink of the day (00:00:17) intro (00:02:05) james is going thru life for the first time (00...

welcome ~ghouls & goblins~ this is the first of our halloween series! today's episode is full of laughs and vulnerable discussions about co-dependency, love languages & more ... so grab a drink and get cozy while you listen :) today's specialty drinks on the menu: strawberry basil soju (neat) & orange cream soda (poppi) chapters (00:00:00) drink of the day (00:00:19) cold open & in...