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In this eye-opening episode, Laura (@ itslaurapatriciamartin ) dives deep into the crucial insights and strategies that transform your approach to dating and relationships. If you've ever found yourself wondering why, despite all your personal growth and success, attracting high-value men seems like a puzzle you can't solve, this is the episode for you. Laura explores the often-overlooked...

Laura (@ itslaurapatriciamartin ) sits down with Colton Daly (@ coltonmdaly ) , a Professional Life Coach known for guiding leaders to embrace their greatness and realize their full potential. Together, they delve into the intricacies of male perspectives and relationship dynamics, exploring themes such as choosing purpose over love, understanding what men truly desire, and the importance of both...

In this episode, Laura ( @itslaurapatriciamartin ) dives into the art of balancing ambition with self-care. With her signature blend of personal experience, neuroscience, and somatic practices, Laura shares transformative insights on how to sustain your drive without sacrificing your well-being. Discover practical strategies for setting meaningful boundaries, recognizing your limits, and nurturing...

In this milestone 100th episode, Laura ( @itslaurapatriciamartin ) has her best friend, Stef Elsperman ( @ stefanieelsperman ), crack her open and share things she’s never shared publically since growing this brand over 100 episodes. From grappling with the depths of heartbreak and depression to facing the daunting challenge of $19,000 in debt, we explore the pivotal moments and mindset shifts tha...

Laura ( @itslaurapatriciamartin ) unveils the secrets to crafting an authentic personal brand that resonates with both your dream clients and romantic interests. This episode is a treasure trove of insights, blending Laura's deep understanding of human behavior with actionable steps to stand out authentically. Listeners will learn to communicate their unique values, align their personal and pr...

n this empowering podcast episode, Laura (@ itslaurapatriciamartin ) and Alreen Haeggquis (@ alreen ), Best Selling Author of “ Fired Up: Fueling Triumph from Trauma ”, delve into the transformative journey of reclaiming one’s sense of self after sexual violence. Alreen is a lawyer, survivor of childhood sexual abuse, and fierce advocate for those brave enough to stand up to their abusers in court...

In this episode, Laura ( @itslaurapatriciamartin ) delves into the sensitive yet crucial topic of reclaiming your voice in the bedroom after experiencing sexual trauma or shame. She breaks down the complexities of healing and rediscovering one's sexual identity, offering insights on building resilience and fostering a positive self-image. Join us to explore practical strategies, hear personal...

They’re baaaaaack with the monthly #unplugged & unhinged episode! Join hosts Laura ( @itslaurapatricamartin ) and Stef ( @ stefanieelsperman ) as they delve into their New Year's Eve revelations that have completely transformed their love lives and their businesses through the lens of the #softgirlera… but savage. The two dive into what it really takes to call in the life you want and how...

In this episode, Laura ( @itslaurapatriciamartin ) is diving deep into the reasons why you might be feeling stuck despite putting in the work. If you've been hustling on personal growth but not seeing the love life results you desire, or you’ve been posting consistently online and not getting the clients you know would be blessed to work with you… it's time to unravel the mystery. We'r...

In this powerful episode, I ( @itslaurapatriciamartin ) sit down with the Author of ‘Running in Trauma Stilettos’, Whitney Allen ( @ whitneylynallen ) . We talk about navigating the complex terrain of grief with resilience and vulnerability. Whitney shares her personal journey of losing her husband, highlighting how tragedy didn't define her future but rather fueled her towards creating her ow...

In this episode, Laura ( @itslaurapatriciamartin ) delves into the complexities of navigating relationships while carrying emotional wounds. Exploring the challenges of vulnerability and connection, she uncovers how past traumas shape present experiences in dating. Join Laura as she discusses the struggle between longing for fulfillment and the fear of enduring further heartache, offering insights...

In this episode, I ( @itslaurapatriciamartin ) have an empowering conversation with trauma-based energy healer, embodiment, and integration coach Nikki Fielding ( @nfielding03 ) as we explore the profound journey of reclaiming sexual autonomy after trauma. In this episode, Nikki delves into the essential practice of shadow work as a gateway to unlocking genuine pleasure and liberation. We unravel...

In this episode, Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin), candidly reflects on her dating & #prehousewifeera journey in 2023. She shares personal experiences and the valuable lessons learned from her biggest dating mistakes. From missteps in communication to misconceptions about compatibility, Laura explores the highs and lows of modern dating so you can learn and not make them yourself ;) Listeners c...

In this special episode, join Laura ( @itslaurapatriciamartin ) and Stef( @stefanieelsperman ) as they sit down to reflect on the transformative moments and impactful trends that defined the past year. Through laughter, shared experiences, and contemplative moments, Stef and Laura offer a candid and nostalgic journey, encapsulating the essence of the year while exploring the intersection of our in...

Get ready to uncover the game-changing insights with Laura (@ itslaurapatriciamartin ) as she fearlessly tackles the impact of the fear of being seen has on your love life, prosperity, and joy in the #prehousewifeera. This episode unearths how this fear disrupts connections with men, abundance, and happiness, while unveiling actionable strategies to clear this hurdle. Laura's personal anecdotes an...

In this podcast episode featuring Taylor ( @taylorthelifecoach ), the focus revolves around unraveling the essence of a conscious relationship. Taylor shares her story of finding conscious love and the pitfalls of seeking perfectionism in relationships, debunking the myth that one must be entirely healed to invite love into their life. The conversation explores prevalent barriers hindering conscio...

In this episode, I ( @itslaurapatriciamartin ) delve into the complexities of trust in relationships, sharing personal stories of past mistrust and the impact it had on sabotaging connections. Highlighting the power of choice in fostering trust, the episode emphasizes the importance of consciously shaping our perspectives and habits. The discussion explores the correlation between trust, respect,...

In this episode, I ( @itslaurapatriciamartin) sit down with Whitney Eve (@ whitneyeve) . The woman that inspired the #prehousewifeera, lovers! We're unraveling her personal journey from the hectic hustle to embracing a more tranquil, feminine essence. Together, we explore the intricate steps in navigating the "messy middle" and embracing life's simplicity, laying the groundwork f...

In this empowering episode, I (@ ⁠itslaurapatriciamartin⁠ ) unravel the mysteries of building strong and harmonious relationships, specifically focusing on attracting masculine partners. From understanding the dynamic of masculine energy, cultivating confidence, and embodying vulnerability to maintaining independence and embracing femininity, each facet is explored with depth and practical insight...

In our monthly segment of #UNPLUGGED, I sit down with Stef (@ stefanieelsperman ) and we delve into the intriguing world of using birth charts to discover alignment in both personal and professional spheres. We explore the art of embracing one's authentic self, shedding societal norms, and developing comfort in being seen for who you truly are. Whether it's fostering deep connections in lo...

In this episode, I (@itslaurapatriciamartin) delve into the common yet challenging experience of falling for someone too quickly and becoming overly attached, often long before the other person reciprocates those feelings. I explore the emotional rollercoaster, consequences, and underlying reasons for this behavior, shedding light on the profound impact it can have on our well-being. This discussi...

In this episode, I sit down with the manifestation queen M arie Reginato ( @marie.reginato ) , We delve into the transformative concept of "keeping momentum" in the practice of manifestation. She emphasizes the crucial role of play and authentic expression as catalysts for successful manifestation, shedding light on the art of seeking evidence in one's life to sustain the momentum. T...

In this episode, I (@ itslaurapatriciamartin ) am going to spill the tea on what's been happening in my world lately. Over the last 6 months, I decided to call ALL IN on my life… and it’s been stretchy as fuck. So today I’m taking you BTS of my break up and my healing, navigating my move to a state where I don’t know a soul, and navigating the dating world again… This episode made me cry and I...

In this week’s episode we sit down with Jacque (@ etherealjacyt ) is a psychic medium and aura reader. After recovering from a chronic illness she had for years, she was able to start exploring her abilities. She has been able to work with people all over the world through her readings and classes. Jacque believes in taking a lighthearted, but grounded approach to all things spiritual and that’s e...

In this episode, I (@ itslaurapatriciamartin ) talk about why so many people mess up their chances in dating and how to stop it. I'll explain the reasons behind these dating mistakes and share easy tips to help you avoid them. If you're trying to find love or just curious about dating, this episode has some useful advice to make things better. Make sure you subscribe for new episodes every...