So What Now? with Carla and Dex

It's Hispanic Heritage Month! I am joined this week by Ruthie Fonseca, my long lost neighbor from Puerto Rico. We have a list of 10 facts about Puerto Ricans about things that we say and do when raised in the island. Ruthie endured Hurricane Maria in Puerto Rico one year ago and was able to get on the first flight out of PR 5 days after Maria destroyed our beautiful island. She is opening up to ev...

How do we balance being a good single mom & still having time to work on our business, have a social life, date, and travel.   We also discuss child support & Serious Mom Meltdowns!

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AUDIBLE FREE TRIAL & FREE BOOK www.audibletrial.com/shitim30 Today's episode is all about Dream Chasing! Dexty and I share our current emotional state based on where we are in our professional lives. We help each other and hopefully help you also explore some major career decisions and possibly changes. Oh! and as all good friends should do we will do some accountability checks! SH*T You Should Kn...

This week Carla is joined by her instagram bestie Ivana Cora from Brendalin & Cora ---They finally get to sit down and meet face to face! SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW Rates of Chlamydia, Syphilis & Gonorrea Break US Records 12 year old girl suffers second and third degree burn after attempting "FIRE CHALLENGE" - What the hell is a fire challenge? During our girl boss topic we talk about getting out of you...

We need to learn how to manage our anger so that it doesn't overwhelm us.  Carla is joined this week by your favorite realtor Tony and Dexty to discuss how we all deal with anger in our lives but some of us struggle with managing this normal human emotion.  We will discuss what we went through in our childhood to led us to struggle with controlling our anger and temper as adults. Listen to how we...

WE REACHED OUR 10K MONTHLY DOWNLOAD IN HALF THE TIME PROJECTED! Thank you so much to everyone that has downloaded and tuned in weekly to listen to me talk a little sh*t, with an hint of intellectual sophistication (aka tell it how it is).   ENJOY THIS UNSOLICITED ADVICE BONUS EPISODE! Its Juicy!  

REAL ESTATE! Join me this week with real estate agents Gabby & Anthony to discuss all the questions you guys have about real estate.  Should you rent or buy? Do you buy a home together with your bf/gf if you aren't married yet? There are so many questions about buying a home that we have no clue about and the same way we go to a doctor when we are sick we need to go straight to a realtor when we h...

This week Carla sits with exotic dancer Ekah Love to talk about Alternative Lifestyles. A corporate 9 to 5 job is definitely not for everyone and there are many different paths to success. Ekah shares her stories as a dancer and gives us strip club etiquette as well as a few tips on how to "finesse" these men. You can get the book is Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Inti...

Join me this week as I sit with financial advisor Kimberly Stewart to talk about financial literacy in our communities. This is a conversation we definitely dont have often enough and then wonder why 73% of Americans can't come up with $1000. Mandii B from the Whoreible Decisions podcast will be added in a phone call to join us in a very intense discussion revolving around household incomes and wh...

We've all wondered what goes on behind the scenes of trainers and those socially awkward  yoga instructors. In this episode we break through the stereotypes of brown & black people in the Yogi community, and how a trainer can help you jump start your fitness journey with two amazing trainers, Bert from @bodybybert and Rasta Yogi DJ @dade2shelby.  Listen until the end when we start speaking on ment...

Join Carla today while she sits with Jamaal the owner of Orlando's best bbq restaurant, Jesse's Rib Shack and my bestie Dexty. Today's episode introduces a new segment SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW, and the topic is DOUBLE STANDARDS. We have a heterosexual extremely masculine male help give a different point of view on our society's double standards like the number of sexual partners, breastfeeding in publ...

Lets take it back to a sit down Carla had with her bestie Dexty about the infamous f*ck boys that all girls have dealt with. What is a f*ck boy and who are the thots out here also? Come join us and have a few laughs. Dont forget to rate and subscribe! Follow us on instagram @shitim30podcast

WHOREible Growth! This week join the conversation between Mandii (1/2 of Whoreible Decisions Podcast) & Carla in NY revolving around the growth that we all go through from our early 20's into our Golden 30's. Mandii is not quite 30..YET..but the change in her with age is definitely showing! We will also discuss if society now days with social media even lets us grow and learn from our past mistake...

This week I sit with Karla G to talk about our frustrations and struggles of raising our teenagers. We were 100% not prepared for the hell these children are putting us through, but we wouldn't trade it for the world (welllll maybe for a couple glasses of wine and a shot of tequila!). Join us as we let it all out and vent to each other & we promise we love our kids hahaha! Follow us on social medi...

This week we dive right into the possibilities of platonic relationships between men and women with radio host/personality Ricky Padilla. We determine whether it is possible or not from the male and female perspective to have simply platonic friendships. We clearly agree on who has more will power. Who do you think that is? Please don't forget to rate and review! Thank you! Follow us on IG @shitim...

Happy Friday! Forgiveness isn't weakness. It's the ultimate sign of courage and strength. Today Carla sits down with her friend Rod to discuss forgiveness and what it means to them individually. How they forgive and if they ever forget after being hurt by someone else.  We also have a listener letter about a broke baby daddy that left and cheated on her with a sugar mama nurse. (Could you forgive...

Thank you so much for the support on the show. Here is a fun laid back BONUS episode! Join your host Carla and her best friend Karla (KPB), while they give advice to people who truly didn't even ask for it! Sometimes people want to hear what we have to say, other times we just tell them even if they don't care!  follow us on instagram @shitim30podcast @carlawilmaris @kpb_    

This week the ladies are joined by the other Karla (with a K) to discuss different ways we can all be broke and the struggles we have had ourselves in our lives and how we are still working to get out of it. Also we talk about these broke "boys" posing for the ladies now days.  You can download  THE  TOTAL MONEY MAKEOVER  by Dave Ramsey on audible for  FREE!  using this link www.audibletrial.com/s...

This week Carla & Dexty are joined by Rod. The group discuss the minor differences and major similarities of heterosexual and homosexual relationships, interracial dating and a bunch of other random ish!! Follow us on IG @shitim30podcast @carlawilmaris @dexty

This week Carla & Dexty dive in to a conversation about starting over in different aspects of life. Whether it is your career, relationship, mind set, etc. Join in their conversation and email or DM your experiences starting over in your life and the hurdles you had to go through.  Download your FREE Audible Audiobook wwww.audidletrial.com/shitim30 Follow us on instagram @shitim30podcast @carlawil...

BONUS EPISODE ALERT! It's not Friday but, we are giving you a Bonus 100% Unsolicited Advice episode.  If you want to get our advice on whatever might be going on in your life. Send us a letter and we will tell you EXACTLY what we think you should do. UNFILTERED!  

This week Carla and Dexty discuss different types of domestic abuse and how it impacts our culture.  National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE Follow us on instagram @shitim30pocast @carlawilmaris @dexty

This week Carla and Dexty are joined by Christina from Running on Crazy. Christina shares her personal journey with bulimia and depression. Christina's story is a powerful one about body image, self-love, and her road to recovery.  Follow us on Instagram  @shitim30podcast @carlawilmaris @dexty Free Audible Trial - www.audibletrial.com/ShitIm30