So Problematic

🚨 Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!! - - On this episode, “Light or Dark Skin…No Head, Your Sexual Performance is Dead”…. we discuss things regarding stereotypes with special guest PillowTalkWithTheTea so let’s talk about it! Go Listen now 🤩 - - - Make sure you tune in and don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink and let’s talk about it sis....

🚨 Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!! - - On this episode, Having Boundaries For The Holidays, we discuss things like letting people know you are not okay with certain things during the holidays. Holidays can be a trigger from some so let’s talk about it! Go Listen now 🤩 - - - Make sure you tune in and don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe to our youtube channel. Have a drink...

🚨 Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!! - - On this episode,He’s A Stay At Home Father & Imma Stand Beside Him-This episode we had the pleasure of speaking with Victor from the LiquorTalkPodcast. Victor brought his perspective on being a stay home dad and being the provider in the relationship ain’t easy with the women of today- Go Listen now 🤩 - - - Make sure you tune in and don...

🚨 Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!! - - On this episode, If You Don't Tell The Money Where To Go… You Going To Wonder Where It Went! -This episode we had guest Joyce Poliard she is a life coach , author and financial coach. We discuss how to make your life look like how you desire financially. Go Listen now 🤩 - - - Make sure you tune in and don’t forget to like, comment and subsc...

On this episode, Mental Health Boundaries Are Necessary -This episode we talked about mental health and what is healthy boundaries when it comes to putting yourself first for your own mental insanity. Let’s talk about it!!! We came to be problematic AF! Go Listen now 😩 Oh and we have visuals so check out our YOUTUBE CHANNEL and subscribe. - - - Make sure you tune in and don’t forget to like, comm...

🚨 Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!! - - On this episode, Whats Does The Booster Shot Have To Do With "Ya'll"? -This episode we talked about the vaccine and how these companies and jobs are trying to make it mandatory. Hear our views on how it makes us feel and also how we see it becoming a health issue for those who don’t know everything about their own bodies. Oh and who is “YA’L...

On this episode, It's More Of An Orange Flag Right? But It's Still A Flag! Part 1 -This episode we talked about a few red flags in dating. Financial flags, family flags, sex flags I mean we taking it there. Are broken promises a red flag? What about little white lies they aint orange flags? Oh and we only covered a few so you know this is only part 1.  Lets talk about it!!! We came to be prob...

On this episode, Its Levels To This, Know Ya Place Respect My Space Get Out My Face or You Will Be Replaced! This episode we have the pleasure of spending some QT with our friend Desiree new last name! Sharing different aspects of friendships and how they can change. Knowing who your friends are. It’s levels to friendships and how they grow. Lets talk about it!!! We came to be problematic AF! Go L...

🚨 Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!! On this episode, AINT NO APOLOGY IN THE FIRST 5 YEARS OF F**KING UP I’M SET IN MY WAYS…BT I KNOW MY POSITION IN THIS MARRIAGE! This episode we have the pleasure of collaborating with Ringold host of We Need To Talk Podcast. Sharing how his wife help change him. Poor Kev smh Ringold takes shots for that man! Do you know your position in your marr...

On this episode, Couldn’t Lay in the Bed They Preached F**kery in…But Wish You the Best… Grow the F**k Up! This episode we discuss accountability. Being blocked because you call a person out on they bs and they couldn’t handle it. Learning from your own mistakes and realizing other people feelings matter. Lets talk about it!!! We came to be problematic AF! Go Listen now 😩 Oh and we have visuals s...

🚨 Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!! - - On this episode, My Mommy Was Mad At Me So She Put Me In The Corner… But I Saw Grandma Go Get Her Switch Fa Dat Azz! This episode we discuss when is crossing the line of abuse when whooping or spanking your children. Does time out really work? What about talking and hearing your children out? You remember when your mom or dad said “it hurts...

On this episode, Stop Lyin To That Man You Faked It And His Deep Stroke Ain't Hitting Right!!! This episode we discuss the weak deep stroke that does nothing for some women. Men take an estimated 4 minutes to ejaculate but when it takes about 10-11 minutes so quickies don’t always work for us. Listen we survived the Cov we can’t be out here lying to these men about their whack D game! And who brou...

🚨 Today is So Problematic Wednesday- NEW EPISODE!!! - - On this episode, Kicked Out After The Wedding Oh Sh*T Honeymoon Phase Is Over Pack Ya Bags This episode we discuss a little bit about getting kicked out the house right after getting married, walking around the house butt azz naked. Trying to figure out who you like and dislike in the dating phase. When he say to pack your bags we going on a...

On this episode, KEEP YA HAIRBALLS…SINGLE PARENTS HAVE IT TOUGH! This episode we discuss a little bit about new intro music for our podcast shoutout to Erica from @Ericawithacpodcast for an awesome suggestion. We get slightly distracted with CiCi’s cat Emma and hairballs wow don’t know how that happened… Single parenting is different from solo parenting and we discuss the difference as well as sha...

This episode we rant really quick about how our own people can be very judgmental about not being woke enough… There are those who are just too woke and tear down others for not being on the same level as them about our history. We are tired of the madness either way… What does Black-ish even mean? Does it have to do with where you were raised or being classified as ghetto? Who gives the Black AF...

We want to take the opportunity to say thank you to everyone who has supported us on this podcast journey! We can't wait to see what the future holds and we hope that continue to take to this ride with us. Our podcast is reaching levels we never expected it to and it's beyond a blessing. Hope you enjoy our episode with a few flashbacks of what the year has been like for us! We love you all… Don't...

On this episode, ORDER OF BUSINESS  We had the pleasure of having DEJUAN from THE GROWN MAN LOGIC PODCAST join us on this episode. Should we treat a relationship like a business? Do you have monthly or quarterly meeting with your partner? And the order of business is as follows: Billie Jean, Versus Battle, Apocalypse, Marriage, Cain & Abel, Contracts and Emotions. Find out what we discuss...

On this episode, GETTIN FLEW OUT TO EAT CRAWFISH IN A MOTEL We had the pleasure of having BIG L AND PORK from THE COOL OUT CORNER PODCAST join us on this episode. All we have to say is- please use headphones and definitely prepare yourself for a wild conversation. We talked about getting flown out by the opposite sex and the benefits or requirements that are expected. How are you out here eating c...

On this episode, WHATS ANXIETY & SETTING BOUNDARIES We had the pleasure of having Cortney from Thee Barbie Way Podcast join us on this episode. How could she not watch The Best Man movie? What does America’s Next Top Model have to do with this? What is up with jealous friends and how do you turn off having anxiety from trying to balance life, podcasting, school, parenting & more. Tune in a...

On this episode, SURVIVING ALCOHOLISM ABUSE We had to get deep with dealing with a spouse who was in a relationship with other things and not his wife. Jay shares a little about her struggles of being a wife to a husband with alcoholism and give advice on how to deal with them. We suggest to call for help and to reach out to a supportive friend or family member if you or someone you know is dealin...

On this episode, LUPUS DID NOT WIN…! We had the pleasure of speaking with Jay’s Mother Mrs Esther who is a phenomenal nurse, Newlywed, amazing mother and is still surviving Lupus-her way! She shares her story and knowledge about the struggles and blessings that came about when dealing with her condition. Let’s not forget Jay has memories of what it was like for her as well…Make sure you tune in an...

On this episode, BECOMING A MOTHER-Sharing Our Stories Every mother has a story…How we delivered our babies into this world or how we felt the first time we made eye contact with those little faces. Jay and CiCi share their birth stories as the reminisce all the good and painful deliveries. It ain’t easy brining life into this world, but we do it and that is what makes us have super powers! - - Ma...

Have your relationship taken over so much that you don't know who YOU are anymore? Some relationships have understanding from the jump but others can be very draining. You find yourself justifying someones behavior because you love them or you take interest in their hobbies and forget about yours... Take a listen as we discuss not loosing yourself in a relationship with guests The Nurse & Nerd...

You don't know how toxic certain family traits are until you get old enough to understand them, recognize them and learn from them. You felt criticized, controlled, emotionally drained, self conscious of all of your goals and more. Cici shares a few personal experiences that takes us through an emotional rollercoaster ride but it's her truth and some of us have similar issues we just don't speak o...

*BONUS EPISODE* Here is a little self care mantra from ya girl CiCi. we wanted to provide something a little different so we decided to give a little bonus episode of meditation. hope you enjoy and feel free to share, like, comment, & subscribe. Peace out byyyyeeeeee