SMEX ED

In this episode, we're getting down and dirty and discussing pussies! Yes, this is a 'taboo' subject for some, but Amanda is here to break the stigma and help women to find their own pleasure and step into their sexual empowerment.    Book mentioned Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer    Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bo...

In this podcast takeover episode, Jessica Aycock, discusses her article in this month's issue of SMEX ED Magazine. Jessica is a liscenced therapist and a Kink & Sex Personality Coach who helps couples communicate their wants, desires, & kinks to each other. In this episode she will be discussing the 5 Love Languages..but with a twist! Each love language has a specific kink that needs to be fed, an...

In this episode, Amanda discusses the difference between dirty talk for foreplay vs talking dirty during sex. She gives tips and tricks on how to make dirty talk appeal to the female gaze and gives examples of what to say in and out of the bedroom to make your partner come undone.   SMEX ED Digital Magazine:  www.smexedcom Follow Amanda on Snapchat  Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email lis...

In this episode, Amanda discusses the idea of bringing in a 3rd party to a sexual situation: aka threesomes. She discusses the taboo ideology behind threesomes, how to communicate to your partner your desire to participate in one, and the boundaries that need to be discussed before the session. SMEX ED Digital Magazine:  www.smexedcom Follow Amanda on Snapchat  Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for o...

In this episode, Amanda discusses the three c's of the female body: climaxing, cumming, & creaming. She discusses the studies behind each, the "how to" of each, and the societal conditioning that comes with female pleasure in general.  SMEX ED Digital Magazine:  www.smexedcom Follow Amanda on Snapchat  Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list  My Website  (scroll to the bottom) Follow me...

In this episode, Amanda discuss why women tend to have disruptive thoughts during sex. A woman's brain is on hyperdrive 24/7 and it can be very difficult for her to slow her brain down and be present in the moment during sex. Amanda discusses ways that both partners can help decrease disruptive thoughts and enjoy sex the way it should be: filled with pleasure.    SMEX ED Digital Magazine:  www.sme...

In this episode, Amanda discusses the unrealistic expectations that modern media (TV shows & movies) put on sex and the pressures put on men to reach these expectations and make the sex 'last longer'.  Did you know that statistically the  average sex session (including foreplay) lasts 20-30 mins max ? Yet modern media puts pressure on men to make it last all night in order to satisfy their partner...

In this episode, Amanda discusses her newest passion project, SMEX ED: a digital magazine dedicated to teaching you the shit you should have learned in school. Amanda discusses how she came up with the idea, the reason why she created it, and speaks about what to expect with the upcoming March 2023 Issue. I would also like to thank all of the writers of the first issue of SMEX ED Magazine. This wo...

In this episode, Amanda discusses dirty talk and why women don't generally like it. Spoiler alert - it's because most men approach dirty talk from the male gaze. They get too graphic and it becomes cringe for the woman. So let's discuss the difference between dirty talk from the male gaze and dirty talk from the female gaze..a few small changes and it will be better experience for everyone!    Fol...

In this episode, Amanda discusses some self love practices for beginners to help you reconnect with your body. She got a lot of traction on a recent Instagram story push where she suggested recording yourself masturbating to reconnect with your body. So many women were uncomfortable with the concept but wanted to learn more tips for less drastic measures on how to reconnect with their bodies. So i...

In this episode, Amanda discusses why it is so hard for women to take on the dominate role in the bedroom. How societial conditioning makes women believe that the only role they serve during sex is the submissive role. She also discusses tips to help you step into your dominance in the bedroom & express your wants, needs, and desires.    Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for...

In this episode, Amanda invited Jessica Aycock,a licensed therapist to discuss the proper way to open up communication when expressing a kink or fetish to your partner.  Jessica is a therapist and coach who focuses on all things taboo - including sexuality and kinks. Her passion is helping women take the shame out of pleasure and own their unique sexual personality. She is an ally for sex workers,...

In this episode, Amanda shares a training from her monthly membership, Audacious AF, so that her listeners can get a preview of the information that is provided in her membership. She discusses delayed ejaculation, the symptoms (medical, physical, psychological) and how to help your partner through their struggle with DE. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list...

In this episode, Amanda discusses the most commonly asked questions about anal sex: "How do I begin to explore anal play?" "What toys do you recommened?" "What is the prep work that needs to be done for anal sex?" "How do I communicate to my partner I want to experiment with anal?" She answers all these questions and more!    Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email l...

In this episode, Amanda discusses the cause of when a person shuts down their intimacy. She discusees how your partner goes into survival mode and gets stuck in the "freeze" stage. She breaks down what that means, how to communicate to your partner about it, and steps to take in order to support your partner during the "thawing" phase of freeze mode.  Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapach...

In this episode, Amanda discusses the male versus the female gaze, especially as it pertains to dirty talk. She gives her tips on how to cater to one or both of these. Men and women have both been brought up with conditioning about sexuality and how they approach dirty talk is proof of this. Men are more visual and so their dirty talk will be more focused on visual stimulation whereas females are...

**Reposting this podcast episode for all my new female followers** In this episode, Amanda discusses female ejaculation, also referred to as ' squirting ' or ' cumming '. On average 10-50% of women have the ability to cum, however, it's a huge taboo subject so not many women are aware that they have the ability, until it happens, by accident. Then they are too afraid to talk about it. So let's ope...

In this episode, Amanda discusses her book  Audacious AF  and the inspiration behind the book. Amanda discusses that although the book is considered a business book, the main themes of the book apply to every single person, even if you don't own a business. She speaks about the writing process, the structure of the book, and how the book can be translated into life choices & sexual expression.  JO...

In this episode, Amanda answers the question "Who the fuck are you to be talking so openly about sex?" She discusses her own struggle with being disconnected with her body, her lack of intimacy, & the struggles she faced to break down societial conditioning that made her feel ashamed of her body. In this vulnerable discussion, she discusses how her own lack of physical intimacy in her life lead to...

In this episode, Amanda discusses recently getting banned on Tik Tok's platform and losing 92.3K followers overnight. She discusses why the app banned her, the appeal process she is undergoing, and her thoughts and feelings on the community guidelines that the app claims she voilated. This episode is a discussion on why sex is considered so taboo in the world and how apps community guidelines keep...

In this episode, Amanda discusses the idea that in order for someone to become confident, they must be able to function without insecurities, fear, & struggles with self worth. She addresses how this notion of confidence is utter bullsh*t & redefines what it is to be a confident individual.   I f you like what you heard don't forget to tag us on   @the.amandaking For tips & tricks on how to gain c...

In this episode, Amanda address the insecurties women face during sex. She discusses the amount of sociatal conditioning that women undergo when it comes to how they are supposed to enjoy sex, how they are supposed to look during sex, even the noises they are supposed to make in order to show their partners they are enjoying the experience. All of this conditioning causes women to have disruptive...

In this episode, Amanda discusses how she receives messages from women concerned about their signifcant other looking at other people. Her opinion on this matter may trigger you, but she provides a perspective that might give you some insight into your own insecurities.  I f you like what you heard don't forget to tag us on   @the.amandaking For tips & tricks on how to gain control of your sexual...

In this episode, Amanda tackles the WHY, the WHAT, the WHO, & the How when it comes to women struggling to own their bodies. Amanda dives deep into discussing the conditioning that women face about their body types, who needs to help women "fix" these issues, what women can do to reconnect with their bodies again, and how men can help their partners step into their body confidence.  If you like wh...

In this episode, Amanda disucsses a comment that was left on her viral reel about men's penis sizes. The comment, which was left multiple time by multiple men stated "You are talking about two entirely differnt things, sex & being in a relationship. They aren't the same." Since this comment was left multiple times, Amanda wants to add her perspective on the question, is there a difference between...