Single To Soulmate Podcast with Johnny & Lara Fernandez

Everyone has heard of online dating by now, and most people have tried it.  But lots of people, especially women, have had bad experiences with dating sites and apps. Maybe you have too.  So… is finding lasting love online ACTUALLY possible? Some people swear by online dating and some people swear it’s the worst… So, which is the truth?   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - The real reason online dating hasn’t...

Are you SCARED of true love? So many women are subconsciously blocking themselves from love because they fear intimacy, vulnerability, and love. This might be you, even if you don’t think it is- and you might not even know it. If you’ve been having trouble attracting good men or good relationships, check out this episode- it might explain why. WHAT YOU WILL LEARN - Why you might unconsciously fear...

Could you be making love out to be WAY more complicated than it actually needs to be? But what does this mean? EVERYONE knows love is super complicated. But does it really need to be? Maybe you’ve been unknowingly making love HARDER for yourself, and it’s been holding you back from lasting love. Tune in to this episode to learn if YOU have been doing this and how to break free from self-sabotage s...

If you’ve been dating all the wrong men for ages, no matter HOW hard you try to meet Mr. Right, and you have no idea what to do about it… This episode is for you. You keep dating the wrong guys because you PICK the wrong guys. Sounds simple, but learning how to choose the right men to date (and therefore avoid creeps, manboys, and cheaters) is a skillset you CAN learn. So in this episode, Lara wil...

Without you even noticing it you are letting myths kill your love life!   You could be trying hard to attract your soulmate and maybe you don’t understand why you still can’t attract that high quality man. Well that is because of the myths you’ve fallen victim to   In order to succeed in love you are going to have to ditch those myths.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - What the 3 myths are - Why they are l...

“I’m broken.” “I’m unlovable.” “I’m too lazy.” “I’m too picky.” If any of these sound familiar to you, you are BLAMING yourself for being single. And as you might have noticed, doing that hasn’t helped you find love, has it? Nor has it made you feel any better or more empowered on your soulmate journey. And maybe your family or friends are being unkind to you and blaming you too. It hurts. We unde...

“What is the POP cycle?” you may be wondering.   Well, it’s a vicious mental cycle that could be holding you back from true love and the life of your dreams. So if you find yourself feeling stuck in your love life and you don’t know where to go next or how to get out of this rut, you might be in a POP cycle.   Tune in to this episode to figure out how to break out ASAP.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - Wh...

So you’re finally dating a great guy and it’s going well so far! Fantastic!   But wait… Now you need to think about if you have enough chemistry, exactly when you should check off each relationship milestone, how often you should see each other, if he’s doing everything right, what he SHOULD be doing instead, whether there are any red flags…   Wait. Are you project managing this guy like you would...

If every time you date a new guy, things quickly go south… listen in: this episode is for you. There are probably some hidden FEARS about men that they can subconsciously tell you’re feeling when you meet them.    And these fears are pushing away men without you realizing it… even GOOD men. So you’re left feeling like no matter what you do, every relationship dies before it even starts. Sound fami...

“I’m happy being single! I get to travel, be independent, and do whatever I want.”   It's great that you’re able to be happy while being single! And… Why are you here if you’re truly, 100% happy being alone?   It’s okay to admit you’re fine alone AND you really want soulmate love. This episode is all about getting honest, the REAL reason you might be constantly telling yourself you’re happy alone,...

NOTICE: This is Step #5 in Dr. Lara’s 5 Step series. If you haven’t heard Steps 1, 2, 3, and 4 yet, go back and listen, then come back here for the final step!   If you really want to find your soulmate… just wanting it won’t be enough. There’s something else that is required: the actions and mindsets you learned in steps 1 through 4.   And there’s 1 final step that ties it all together. In this e...

NOTICE: This is Step #4 in Dr. Lara’s 5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love series. If you haven’t heard Steps 1, 2, and 3 yet, go back and listen, then come back here for Step 4!   Have you ever felt trapped in your love life? Like you had to choose between things you want? Love and family, or a successful career? Passionate love, or security and stability?   This belief is LIMITING you. You CAN have it...

NOTICE: This is Step #3 in Dr. Lara’s 5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love series. If you haven’t heard Steps 1 and 2 yet, go back and listen, then come back here for Step 3!   This step is maybe one of the MOST controversial of the 5. That’s because this way of thinking ISN’T that common in the modern dating world- and people don’t realize how it’s holding them back.   But most people aren’t happy in th...

NOTICE: This is Step #2 in Dr. Lara’s 5 Steps to Soul-Stirring Love series. If you haven’t heard Step 1 yet, go back and listen, then come back here for Step 2!   These 5 steps to love all work together and are ALL necessary in order to attract true love- so make sure to keep up with this series to learn each step.   The mindset I teach in this episode works in tandem with the mindset from Step 1....

Attention everyone: Dr. Lara is starting a NEW 5 episode series, “5 Steps to Soul Stirring Love”!!   This is a series you’ll want to keep up with, if you want to learn what thousands of women before you have been using for YEARS to attract lasting love. Dr. Lara is pulling back the curtain and telling you the 5 steps to love that have helped her clients rapidly transform their love lives for good....

Aren’t you tired of being so TIRED?? Tired of going through the hard parts of life alone, tired of not finding love no matter what you do… and maybe you’re already tired at the thought of being alone even longer? The good news is- you don’t have to STAY this tired forever. Listen to this episode to learn what you can do to break out of this rut forever.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - What to do when you...

Breakups, divorce, and co-parenting with an ex… these can be some of the HARDEST things to do and go through. We understand. Many of our clients come to us right after a breakup or divorce, unsure of where to go or how to heal and get ready for real love. We’ve helped them through it, and if you’re in a similar spot, you’ll want to listen to this episode- maybe we can help you too.   WHAT YOU WILL...

You’ve been searching for that perfect guy, your Mr. Right, for years… maybe decades now. And even with EVERYTHING you’ve tried, nothing has worked out. Maybe you’re starting to wonder if your perfect person even exists, and maybe deep down, you’re starting to lose hope.  If this sounds like you- you’ll want to listen to this episode.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - Why you haven’t met your perfect perso...

Do you seem to only attract guys who just can’t commit to you? They leave you hanging, don’t want a serious relationship (but will still string you along and sleep with you), or maybe you found out years into your relationship that he didn’t want to marry you. Ugh- that is SO painful. I get it.  But good news- there IS a reason, and there IS a way to find an incredible, high quality man that is EX...

In this episode, we’ll dive into the TRUTH about soulmate love that most people won't tell you. Is it really the neverending fairytale you've seen in Disney movies, or is there more to it, something deeper? Tune in to discover what a soulmate really is and what soulmate love actually looks like.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - What a soulmate REALLY is - The reality of soulmate love - What real love look...

Have you ever felt like most of the guys you date don’t take you seriously? They disregard you, talk over you, belittle you and your capabilities, or just treat you like you’re disposable? UGH, right?? If you’re wondering WHY you’ve experienced this, this episode is for you. I’ll break down the real reason this has been happening to you- and what you can do about it to break this cycle NOW.   WHAT...

Have you ever felt like finding a truly good guy seems almost impossible? Do you feel like you run into way too many creeps, ghosts, cheaters, or just mediocre men who aren’t at your level? If that sounds familiar to you, this episode is a MUST-listen for you to understand WHY this happens and what you can do to finally meet high quality men- so you can find the man for you.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:...