Single To Soulmate Podcast with Johnny & Lara Fernandez

Sometimes we need to experience pain in order to move from where we currently are. Through it, we learn to muster courage and become brave.   In this episode we talk about:   - Your biggest pain in life and using them as your propellant to move forward   - How disappointments and devastations don’t define you   Pain is one of the greatest motivators of change in life. Maybe you’re feeling extremel...

Being a single woman for years, Lara kept attracting men who are emotionally unavailable to her. In today’s episode, Lara shares her thoughts and experiences on the topic of being single and available. In this episode we talk about: - Being single and available - Knowing the truth and how it will set you free - You attracting unavailable guys because you yourself are unavailable too   - Examining...

Chemistry is very important to have in any relationship. It is that fun friend you always want to hang out with and go together with on road trips. But is chemistry always a good thing?   In this episode we talk about: - Why chemistry shouldn’t be your main decision-making framework   - How chemistry can lead you astray and how it has lead you astray in the past   - Examples of things that can hel...

We either teach people to treat us with dignity and respect, or we don't. Nobody deserves mistreatment. But we are partly responsible for the mistreatment that we get at the hands of someone else.   In this episode we talk about:   - How to take loving responsibility   - Having a higher level of commitment to loving and valuing yourself and love   - Self-respecting behaviors   - Making clear, non-...

Frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed. These are the three words that best describes the feeling that leaves you no room in your life for love. If you're frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed, you're not really ready for a relationship in your life. Even if the most amazing man in the world walked into your life right now, you wouldn't have any room for him. What can you do to change this?   In this epi...

In this episode, Johnny talks about the crashes you may experience in life. And how a certain incident can turn into your breakthrough.   In this episode we talk about:   - How riding motorcycles led Johnny to Lara   - Not allowing your crashes to define who you are   - The importance of having a friend or someone who has the expertise to help you navigate through difficult waters   READY TO TAKE...

You may have that feeling of hopelessness sometimes. You can’t avoid it. If you’re feeling hopeless, you may look for encouragement everywhere, in any form. But what’s actually going on and how can there be a turnaround when you’re feeling hopeless?   In this episode we talk about:   - Feeling hopeless   - How your present determines your future and not your past   - Turning your hopeless situatio...

The dating world could get really overwhelming and intimidating for someone who’s not prepared to actually make a decision or doesn’t know if someone is right for them or not.   In this episode we talk about:   - The importance of having a breakthrough in your life   - Becoming your own soulmate first as the right path to soulmate love   - Being kind to yourself   - How you’re not only leading you...

Setting boundaries is such a big issue especially when it comes to your family, lover or people who are super close to you.   Boundaries are needed in order to have a healthy relationship with anybody. When setting boundaries, make sure it is clear and reasonable.   In this episode we talk about:   - Lessons on boundary   - How everything affects your love life and your love life affects everythin...

What does it take for you to call a man perfect? Should he be handsome? Wealthy? Attentive? Kind? A family man? Does he even exist or have you just fallen into “The Perfect Man Trap”? Should you be that perfect girl too in order to be the right match for your ideal perfect guy?   In this episode we talk about:   - The “perfect man trap” - a story about people who didn’t click and a story about per...

They say you can’t have it all. But what does it really mean to have it all? This concept of having it all means different things to different people. It could mean having an exciting career, a loving husband, being rich and famous, and whatnot.   In this episode we talk about:   - What “having it all” really means   - Love Warriors take their dreams seriously and so does the people around them  ...

Social media is not really helping when it comes to moving on from a breakup. Sure, you did unfriend your ex or maybe even blocked him. But what about his friends? What if they post something where your ex is tagged or mentioned? What if this reminder of him hurts you too much? Should you unfriend them too?   In this episode we talk about:   - Releasing your anxiety by unfriending your ex’s buddie...

The key is to attract your soulmate and dreams in life is to not give up - on yourself and your dreams. Your attitude and mindset will affect how you will magnetize your man and your ambitions in life.   In this episode we talk about:   - Extraordinary self-care   - Becoming a person who forgives quickly   - Lara’s method on how to forgive   - How all dreams take longer than you think   - Giving L...

Being bold, honest and frank is very important in any type of relationship. Your way of communicating matters. Are you saying what you mean? Are you meaning what you say?   In this episode we talk about:   - Why we should say what we mean   - Meaning what you say   - Taking actions over your words   - Learning to say what we actually mean   READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP?   If you are ready to take t...

  There is no hocus-pocus, magical love potion, or any quick fix podcast and blog posts to instantly change your relationships with men permanently. To change the flow of your relationships, you must first understand yourself. In this episode, Lara talks about the 3 things that could help you change your relationships with men forever! Get on track and live your best life with these steps that’ll...

After a breakup, the last person you want to see is the one responsible for the pain you’re experiencing right now or have experienced in the past.     In this episode we talk about:   - Why you shouldn’t be friendly buddies with your ex (if he’s not the father of your child/children)   - Reasons why you should learn to keep your distance and maintain your boundaries   - Your ex is your past and n...

Each new year is another chance to make things better for you, an invitation to take your life from the slow lane into the fast lane.   In this episode we talk about: What it really means to set your intentions right for the new year   How willpower alone cannot make massive change in your life   Gathering information can’t be the answer to setting your intentions   Setting intentions right includ...

As 2018 comes to an end, maybe you have started scribbling all the goals, resolutions, bucket lists and your plans for 2019.   In this episode we talk about: New Year’s Resolution, Goals & Intentions 5 Actions you need to do in order to find love this coming 2019 Getting a “Love Mentor” who has a holistic approach in love Taking a few minutes to really internalize and think through who and what yo...

Is being in a relationship a burden or a responsibility? Or a little bit of both? Do you ever feel like a burden to your partner? Has your man ever said that he feels like a burden to you? Are you burdened being with each other?    In this episode we talk about: The importance of taking care of yourself Why you should not see relationship as a burden Choosing a guy who shares the same mindset as y...

Fascination about one’s self for the proper reason is the key to unlocking a life filled with meaning and happiness.   In this episode we talk about: What are the things you can contribute in order to have a healthy relationship? How a man can be fascinated by you Be fascinated by yourself first The fascinating story of how Lara enchanted Johnny Just be your true and raw self   READY TO TAKE THE N...

Do you ever feel like - ”Why does this feel so hard? Why do I have to go through this difficult situation?”    In this episode we talk about: A Love Warrior is a rebel Wanting something different than what is the norm Mediocre love = mediocre life   READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP?   If you are ready to take the next step in living your best life and finding your soulmate go to  singletosoulmate.com/l...

You’re a role model if you didn’t know that. If you’re a single mom, you are the greatest influencer of your kids.   In this episode we talk about: You being a role model Examples of how you can be a role model The wonderful story of one of our amazing Love Warriors & a role model to follow- Nancy! The ripple effect of being a role model READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP? If you are ready to take the ne...

We have dreams, goals and plans when it comes to achieving financial wealth and a great life. But what about love life and relationships, how do you get what you want? How do you attract that one person into your life?   In this episode we talk about: Asking better questions Adjust and carry on Your willingness to ask for support Not giving up and doing whatever it takes! Practice NATO READY TO TA...

Have you ever wondered why men prefer a ‘particular’ girl over the others? There’s more to it than just looks.   In this episode we talk about: 3 Major things a healthy man is looking to find in his future wife Get a LIFE, then get a MAN Make your man “FEEL like a MAN” Confidence is SEXY Powerful action steps that can help you achieve the qualities to attract that man The risk taker’s advantage RE...

Nowadays when it comes to love and relationships, “online dating sites” is very popular. People join with the hopes of finding the one whom they can claim as theirs.   In this episode we talk about: Online meeting and dating in real life Truly opening your heart for love What to do with that online frustration of yours Attraction Qualities Questions READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP? If you are ready to...