Sidepiece Season

Met Laura via a mutual friend & we had a great conversation; here's the finale. We will undoubtedly speak again in the not so distant future. Like & Subscribe please! It helps the show to grow & it's FREE! DM me on IG: Sidepiece_Season

Finally managed to have an interview with an insider/practitioner of consensual non-monogamy. Laura is sharp & kept me on my toes. She threw new terms & different ideas at me & I had a blast. Enjoy Part 1 of 2! Have questions that I haven't answered yet or interview ideas for the show? DM me on Instagram at sidepiece_season. 

There are so many readily available distractions out there & sadly most of us are in a near constant state of poor focus. Stop blaming ADHD! The resulting lack of focus  results from our lack of establishing priorities & then keeping ourselves accountable. There, I said it! Love to hear your thoughts. Anybody interested in cohosting an episode with me? DM me! IG: sidepiece_season 

There is a reason for everything that we do. It doesn't have to be high minded. Knowing the reason, establishing your boundaries, & adhering to your boundaries deliver the best results! Stop f@#king around out there on dating people that are not the right fit. (City bois/City girls excluded.)  Drop me a line & tell me your craziest, strangest, or most disappointing dating stories.   I...

Businesses are generating incredible wealth from dating apps & yet loneliness has climbed to at all-time highs. That's strange right? Sure it is a multifactorial problem butter the apps helping or hurting? What do you think? IG: sidepiece_season

In Speech it is crucial to know your audience. Communicating in relationships requires this, however it's even more critical to know oneself. Knowing yourself enables you to convey your messages clearly & with exactness. A great deal of discontent is spawned in the gaps of communication. Fix it & flourish! IG: sidepiece_season

This question ruffles feathers for some reason. Folks get all emotional but really all that's being asked is "Do you have & can you show me your business plan?" The investment will be time & energy. They are asking for things that cannot be seen. You should have have an answer. If they don't like it - oh well. If you think your answer sucks - that's on you. I took...

My take on 3 of your questions. 1) Should I give the person that cheated on me a second chance? 2) How do I make sure that I am not getting played in my relationship? 3) Is there is a love that lasts forever? Have more questions? Want to dive deeper? Drop me a line. IG: sidepiece_season  

So you found yourself someone special. Seemingly the most awesome human on the planet - maybe ever. Fantastic! It's the love right out of your favorite songs. It seems like this is it, "THE ONE!"  Well then, sit right down & talk about all the things that you hold dear to your heart & all of those you want from them! Time to be an open book. Are you ready for that? IG: @side...

Hello there! I end up saying this a lot. & here we are again: NOBODY HAS TELEPATHY! You have to say what's on your mind. When it comes to sex there's too much that you could COULD be in to. I cannot guess. Nobody can. God will not give us divine revelation as to what really gets you off, sorry. Long term you not expressing that is going to cause more problems than it solves. FRFR IG:...

As a man who has occasionally been on some b@llsh#t I feel completely confident in saying that if your relationship is not going well it's because YOU are on some bs! In this episode I explain why? DM me & let's make it a dialogue.   Instagram: @sidepiece_season

Hey there friends! Just checking in to hoist responsibility for your underperforming relationship squarely onto your shoulders. Hear me out though... IG: @sidepiece_season

Sometimes we get rather cavalier with our time in our relationships & in our lives. That is one of the ways that we end up sabotaging ourselves & our relationships. What about it, is that you? Send me a DM. IG: sidepiece_season 

Where is your relationship heading? Are your goals aligned? Are you ready for whatever comes your way?  IG: sidepiece_season

Greeting all! This episode focuses on some of the major factors that lead to the demise of marriages & long term relationships. I'm still blaming individual & trash talking all the quick fix gurus out there being disingenuous. Send me a DM @sidepiece_season on IG. Thank You to everybody that followed & wrote a review last week; I appreciate you very much!

Somehow the notion that friends with benefit (FWB) are equivalent to serious relationships has taken hold. Additionally some folks use FWB as a distraction & delude themselves into thinking that they do not want more &/or cannot get more. I disagree. Dating is a dumpster fire these days, but that is no reason to abandon all hope. What is on your list of needs for/from long-term relationshi...

Episode 101 addendum. Here are a few things that I feel like I should have said. IG: sidepiece_season

Last week I was asked to talk to this really smart kid after his first breakup. He is a teenager but this advice applies across the board. I was kicking around a name for this list. What do you think of the Sidepiece Five Piece? Let me on IG @sidepiece_season & if you like this episode send it to a friend. Thank You for your support!!!

For #100 I wanted to do something somewhat different from my normal show. There was an article about a man who hired killers to murder his sidepiece & her boyfriend. I had to dig around for facts that were less sensational & I found them on the KXAN website. Link to follow. I brought in some special backup for this episode. Enjoy it!  https://www.kxan.com/news/crime/former-austin-car-deale...

Sometimes we are disrupting the whole vibe & we don't even know it. Why? Because all of us have our own BS that we bring to the table. Sorry, you're NOT perfect. This episode was inspired by one off-hand remark from a fellow podcaster. Let me know what you think. DM me at sidepiece_season over on IG. I answer all my DMs. It's really not a bot!

7 May 2023 made it 2 years of Sidepiece Season!!! Today we talk about consistency & not once did I mention LOVE! Consistency is greater than Love! (Love is still dope though whenever it decides to show up.) Please Like & Subscribe!!! If you enjoyed the show tell a friend & tell an enemy it's great if you disliked it. Slide into my DMs with any questions or comments @sidepiece_seas...

WARNING this episode contains a Domestic Violence story. Happened across this story on IG which triggered an investigation on my part. Take some time to search Charlie Newhart's story. Thanks to him for sharing the tale. His IG is iamcharlienewhart  & he is wearing a gray shirt in front of a blue background. Check out the Community Service podcast #191 from 40:46 - 45:49 for more details....

What are the MUST HAVES for long term success in relationships? LOVE is a "nice to have" but definitely not a must have. There I said it! I am going to do a miniseries on the MUST HAVES. Want to add yours? DM me on! IG: @sidepiece_season 

Some thoughts that got stirred up after a screenshot was shared. Thanks for sharing! IG: sidepiece_season

You can lie to yourself. We do it all the time. Self-limiting beliefs abound. Sometimes we make problems where none exist &/or ignore major issues altogether. Communication, emotional intelligence, & mindset all come into play. Tell me what you think. Add your thoughts. IG: sidepiece_season