Shea's Heart to Heart

Have you ever been afraid of the boogie man under your bed or your closet? Well what if I told you that everything that you've been told about monsters is a lie. What if I told you that you're the monster? Would you believe me? Chime and listen as many times as needed! I'll see you there!!!

Do you fall in love quick? Do you believe I love? Why do we rush into relationships before being someone's friend? Let's talk about it!!! Watch this as many times as you need to!!!

Have you ever had to deal with immature boys? Can you identify when a man has fully grown into a man? I've met a new put myself in comprising situations where I settled. Ladies am I the only one? I am not a man or woman basher at all...I stand on neutral ground! Let's talk about it men and women!!!!

Are black men broken beyond repair? Are men broken in 2021? What has broken the man? Are there any solutions to this problem? I believe that a woman can't speak on man, because she's not a man. I totally believe that should be left up to real men, do you agree or disagree? What does is mean exactly to be broken though to you fellas? I have a special guest to speak on broken as a man and how can me...

Do you have a type? I'm not talking about ice cream, food, perfume or cologne, or shoes, but qualities in a potential romantic partner! What if I told you that most of us have a specific type, even the smart people! I believe that there's someone for everybody. What if your type is blocking your blessing? What if one of the reasons why you're still single is because of a type? Is having a type bad...

Have you been dealt with a bad hand in life? How has it affected you? Have you been able to pull yourself by your bootstaps? I can personally testify that it's not easy! Do you have a broken life and experiences? Do you want to do things differently? I can personally tell you that you can! This is the segment for you! I can't wait to see you there!

Do you believe that good men and women still exist? Are they like unicorns? I'm speaking on my personal dating experiences and how I define a "good" man! What are your thoughts? I'll see you there!

Have you ever been on a dating site? How would you prefer to meet that significant other, in person or online? I speak on the pros and cons of dating websites. I even speak on my personal experiences with dating sites. I can't wait to see you there!!! Let's go higher!

A lot of times in life, we've had to deal with the hand that we're dealt. We sometimes forget that we're spiritual beings in a physical body. We have been been born with superhuman abilities that transcends this current reality. I look at the heroes that saves others ,but not themselves. We're all heroes in our own right, but we must find what makes us that to ourselves. A hero is someone who does...

How good has 2020 year been to you? I already know that some would say the total opposite! As this year comes to an end, I'm reflecting on the good, bad, and the nuetral. Come and join me to celebrate the victories and the L's that I've had to take. My guest Michael Venson and I spoke on relationship goals in 2021. I want to leave everything they happened in 2020, and embrace all the newness of 20...

Do you believe in co-habitating before marriage? Have you ever lived it are you living with a significant other? Will a relationship be more successful if you lived together? What are your thought? I can't wait to see you there. Please leave a voice message if you agree or disagree...your opinions matter to me!!

Are you ready for 2021? I know that I am! I already know that everyone us getting their new year resolutions together, and while doing this please put down healthier relationships! I believe that we all need to work on healthier relationships, because they are the foundation of connections( work, school, church, going to the store, spouses, children,exes,etc....)! My guest and I speak on what make...

Why are guys so reluctant to get married? What does that mean for guys?? How do you see marriage? I speak on who does marriage benefit more..the man or the woman? What are your thoughts? Chime in...

The holidays is usually a time for intimate time with loved ones. It's a time to reflect on the year coming to an end. What does the holiday look like for those who are single? This segment is for those who are hopeless romantics as well as those who may have lost a spouse, family member, or a pet. This is the time of year that we need to forge connections with those who are important to us. But i...

In my personal journey I have been through a lot of changes! I've been to the mountains in Landstuhl, Germany,and back to the hood of Memphis, TN. I've also lived in San Antonio,TX as well as visited Venice, Italy. My journey has taken me to different places, and I've seen many,many faces. It's been a beautiful journey from married to single again. I was a military wife and now a civilization. I w...

Does it matter who wash the dishes or takes out the trash? Does it matter who pays the bills or babysits the children? As a society, roles have been created to create order in a supposed chaotic world. What roles(masks) do we play or wear? Are you a father, mother, teacher, coach, artist, son, daughter, aunt,uncle, woman,grandmother, grandfather, a mentor or life coach, husband, wife, man, boy, gi...

How many viewing this have to pay child support? What is child support exactly? Some may say it's a way for the system to imprison the black man. While others will say it's a bitter baby mama. Other will fo into the deep, bitter truth about the origin of what it really is! These two words can spark controversial convos as well as in depth ones. You decide which one will it be for you ! I can't wai...

How much time do you spend with yourself? How much time do you think is required to spend with a significant other(whether it be your child, mother, father, boss, neighbor, cousin, or best friend)! I believe wherever you divide your time, self- preseveration is a must! It's very important to love you first, so that you can love other more effectively. How much time do your significant other spend...

What is the honey moon phase in relationships? What do you think the honeymoon phase is in relationships? I believe that the honey moon phase is the honey or the sweetness to the marriage. If you look at honey, it's sweet to the tastebuds as well as a one of the natural sweeteners. In a bitter world sweetness would be an requirement. The honey moon stage keeps the relationship fun and youthful, wh...

What are the most important things in a romantic relationship? Some would say time, sex, communication, having fun together! There's some missing on that list of things though, in my honest opinion , it would be appreciation. If I went back in history Kings and queens or people in power demanded respect and adoration through words, bowing, and appreciation for who they are, and what they represent...

Have you ever vented to a friend about your significant other? Have you ever spewed the negatives about your partner whether you're still together or not? We all have, it's a way of releasing negative energy about someone we cared about! I just had conversed with my father concerning this issue. It's easy to point the finger at the other person instead of taking accountability of your own actions....

Are you tired of hearing someone nag you? What exactly is nagging though? Do you even know? Well I finally found a segment to do for the fellas! I will be speaking on the reasons why women nag. This is not a sexist segment, so I will address this subject from very gender-nuetral points of views concerning this issue. I can't wait to see you chime in so that we can finally have this conversation me...

Do you have a high or low sex drive? Does sex drive matter in relationships? If you had to rank it from 1 to 10, how would you rank it? I believe that sex is one of the greatest motivators in life period. Sex is the driving force behind the passion that we have for our significant other, children,jobs,and careers. It's like the fire at the bottom of a volcano, it pushes us to become our highest se...

Have you ever noticed a difference between light- light skinned, and dark-dark skinned? Have you ever been stereotyped by people that's from the same neighborhoohs as yourself? I've experienced colorism from my own people. I speak on my journey of finally accepting my own skin complexion. I also speak on racism in America. Let's chime in.... I'll see you there.

What type of parent are you? What is your parenting style? Do you have a child by someone that you're no longer with? Whether it be via marriage or a hook-up, are you having to co-parenting with them. Do you ever feel frustrated with them? Well this segment indirectly and directly addresses the ups and downs of sharing your seed with someone you may now dispise? Chime in and remember that out of t...