SHE Gets It Pod

A lot of women start new relationships and reinvent themselves, because they thing the old them was too this or not enough that... Its about what do I have to do to be able to stay where I want to be... Men do it too. Merry Chrimaaaaaaaa !!! It’s season 24. Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enou...

It's not allllll women.... Men rush into relationships too. In my experience. I love a good friend, relationship before I'm boo'd up. It’s season 24. Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can...

Everyone's definition of the truth isn't the same. Women ask for things they think they should all the time it doesn't mean they want it. To ask for the truth and swallow it is "big woman" type shit. Strong, confident, sure of yourself type shit. Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Mos...

This one is a multi layered one: Why do women leave a man who cares for and supports them for cheating? Why get a new man or several men smash her without any commitment ? Why support all of them still being able to keep the other women they smashing? Different women care about different things in cheating. I wouldn't want to keep a man who cheats because Gemini women don't forget, they tu...

This goes back to that saying " Happy Wife, Happy Life" thats lopsided or make sure you find a man that loves you more... Ummmm thats stank ass energy to me. #womenaintalwaysright Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide...

Some women cannot read the room and every mans threshold for ya BS isn't that strong. Some women saw women in their family annoy men for decades and those men still showed up and stayed in the relationships. These new men understand their worth, they have found out that they too deserve peace and happiness as they provide. Surprise Big Gotcha!!!! It’s season 24. Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod ~~...

This is clearly a personal opinion from a man, but I'm still going to answer it. In my opinion, Men with big wallets and a consistent money flow never clocking what a woman has or brings, other than love, peace and a good attitude. It’s season 24. Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hou...

Its not always us its the propaganda painted visually about all of us... I truly believe that this man versus woman conversation that keeps happening with different situations is rooted in self hate. If we don't truly begin to love ourselves as Black people, we're going to have these distracting discussions that bring no progress to where we need to be as a people. We need black women and...

I promise yall, you ain't mad at women... its Men yall mad at. Its them society pressures !!! ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhel...

Some women are told straight up, if you have a man and he doesn't do x,y,z, he aint it. ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed an...

See now, this is where women say " what did ya mama have to offer yo daddy other than..." But we not gonna do that. Let me list attributes of a good woman on this. ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with me...

Sustaining a relationship falls on two people. Who are willing to drop that pride and ego. Men and women struggle with this and if you need clarity and you don't have it, work on that asap. ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who c...

This is the trickery: I believe women are trained from little girls to want everything good from a man. What the biggest and the best all the time. Weddings in my opinion are overly costly and audacious. Those who like big, elaborate parties and attention probably love them. Personally I never wanted one. I never looked at a wedding dress like " this is what I would want"... I don't ev...

Women do not always think that they're right we just hope that you stop trying to correct us and just let us be. So the pushback that most men get is because you're setting a boundary. A lot of women are not used to men setting boundaries but letting them feel right when they're wrong. I'll tell you more. I just press play. Sorry, Ladies. ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsor...

Its not a diss... Don't be offended, men just want to know if you can recognize a good man or one thats not good for you. Dad's are so essential for women and little girls. It’s season 24. Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust...

Mental abuse with anyone isn't good. Free yourself and let me be honest... too many get women get away with manipulating men in relationships for their own selfish reasons. Im talking about it. It’s season 24. Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someon...

Do not beat me up. I'm just a messenger. I think society has become a leaning " agreed contributor" towards women on most things where it isn't fair. Now as a woman, I'm going to be in the middle of explaining answers to a lot of different men's questions. A lot of men want to have some understanding of why women do what they do, why do they think how they think, and why do...

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All friendships aren't forever, if I end one I had a good reason. Those friendships you walk away from... don't look back. I can't be phony for you. I keep it direct. I won't ever be okay with anyone being disrespectful so you can stick around. For what? Emotionally not being aware, being messy and not caring what connects you ruin because your in ya feelings, is a "you" is...

Rest doesn't always mean sleep. Today would have been my dads 102 b day Rest could be, no social media, no calls, no emails, no leaving the house and no driving. Go in your back yard, put your feet in grass without shoes. We are always on the go and rest is always needed in order for us to be our best selves. Now I'm not saying you cannot sleep or nap... do what ya body needs. In today’s w...

This is why I say there is no happy ending. Press play ~~~ Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professiona...

You don't have to be the most religious person in the world either. Prayers are powerful expressions of our hopes, desires, and dreams. They connect us to a higher power and serve as a gateway to divine guidance. A lot of us find ourselves receiving answers to our prayers but still choosing to ignore them.  Understanding Your Prayers Why Do We Avoid Those Answers to what we asked for? Fear of...

Limiting how you think about yourself aint helping you. But you knew that. You trying to have a pity party or you tryna get better? Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try thi...

Nothing is forever, I know it sounds harsh but it’s true. Now won’t always be now, even yesterday changes. People change Homes change Jobs change Location change Wants change Needs change Love changes Hope changes Trust changes Faith in the situation changes ... All life changes Chan & Pods This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in...

I think society and "Most Men..." lmao have this idea of what women want... and Im here to tell you no the hell we don't. It's cool though find that one that works for you though, some women out here want to play the same games men do. Tap me out, we are not the same. 1. We do not need to see you everyday  & Constant Attention 2. Fcuk relationships if you ain’t ready. 3. Fcuk D...