Shaunciology

In this episode, I reflect on the deep and complex bond between my mother and me—two middle children navigating life in our own ways, yet mirroring each other more than we realize. My mother, having lost her own mother too soon, had to figure out motherhood without a guide, doing the best she could with what she had. Now, as I stand in my own journey, I see the echoes of her struggles, resilience,...

In this episode, I dive into the layered relationship between my brother and I, from closeness to codependency. Unpacking the healthy and unhealthy parts of our older/younger sibling relationship. & how I was able to remove the invisible peddle stool from up under his feet & allow him to be JUST my Brudda.

“In this episode, I dive into the unique and evolving bond I share with my sister. From childhood memories and shared family experiences to the moments that challenged and strengthened us, join me as I explore how we’ve grown together and supported each other through life’s ups and downs. This conversation reflects on the connection that defines our sibling relationship and the lessons we’ve learn...

In this episode, I dive into the story of my unique friendship with two sisters. From the day we first met to the start of our complex, back-and-forth relationship, I reflect on how these bonds have shaped my perspective on friendship. Tune in as I share the ups, downs, and the special way I’ve come to view each of them.

“In this heartfelt episode, I take a deep dive into four friendships that are no longer a part of my life, but whose impact has shaped me in ways I never imagined. From the joy of connection to the pain of loss, each relationship taught valuable lessons about love, trust, and growth. Join me as I reflect on the beginnings, the endings, and the healing that comes from letting go while holding onto...

The “F*ck Them Kids” trend became popular after Covid restrictions died down. Parents were stuck with their kids 24/7 & we realized…WE NEED SOME ME-TIME. So team FTK was a joke to express the need for self care, mental health awareness & to help us prioritize those things during the pandemic and after. But I think we’ve gotten too comfortable. Shaunciologist join me as I discuss the darker implica...

Rediscovering myself, I realized, that I may be the problem. In this episode, we delve into the complex dynamics of being a middle child, exploring the traits of narcissism, challenges of being unapologetic & for the people, and the essential journey toward seeking therapy. Join me for an insightful discussion that unpacks three strangers opinions that has inspired this episode & the reason for my...

In this episode, we delve into Jordan Peele's chilling film "Us," one of my current favorite movies. We'll explore its complex themes and thought-provoking symbolism, unpacking the significance of the Bible verse Jeremiah 11:11, which states, "Therefore thus saith the Lord, Behold, I will bring evil upon them, which they shall not be able to escape; and though they shall cry unto me, I will not he...

I’m not saying I “saw the light”. What I saw is a chance to ignite mine. I wanna make little me proud, but I also want to heal her too. So the woman I’m suppose to be, can LIVE. I see the light in me. This is the last episode of season three. I hope my guest & I made you laugh, relate, and wanna to experience dating from another POV.

I found Love on POF. You know what they say, “5th time is a Charm” I was single when I started season 3, but the time I was on my 6th ep, he was in my life. So allow me to share my experience with my HusBen, twin, my man, my man, my man!! Listen to find out how I got “lost in the breeze” #sineadharnett

Sharing stories on our experience, transition, & entrance into “pretty privilege”. Congratulations Hannah on your Bundle of Joy.🤱🏾

I had a brief intermission but I’m back to end season three. I asked some questions that people have had about my weight loss surgery & I answer them here. 09.06.22 & I’ve lost 75lbs since. Slow loser but I’m getting there!! Solo ep so enjoy the transparency. Follow me ig: shaunciology tt: shaunjohn88

Dating while healing is hard. It doesn’t make much sense to do both but I needed a little fun, no strings attached, no falling in love. Well at least that’s what I thought. I wasn’t made to be for the streets. I was made for white picket fence, on the porch, with a glass of lemonade under the shade with my forever mate. I had to learn the hard way, I guess. This episode was recorded back in March...

Happy Birthday to me!! 11/17!! To celebrate ME, I have my two mini me’s expressing their love for me & how I could be a better Mommy!! Also, the special women in my life that have help mold me to the woman & mom I am today!! The goal for each generation is to break generational curses & raise children that DON’T need therapy from childhood trauma! I pray that my children get the emotional support...

Red is for the Blood, Yellow for the Wealth, Green for the Land, Black for the people. Learning about the History of Rastafarians, their lifestyle choices, being vegan, to the colors that represent them, & how the people originated from Africa. Culture differences matter when you’re openly dating & you cross paths with people who look like you but don’t share your beliefs & religion. Are you open...

Different stages in your life, introduce different people & sometimes that means the falling of others. Starting over means a new start to a new beginning with new opportunities…that is one way to look at Divorce. & even if you’re not ready for a new spouse you can have reassurance that when you are, the world of dating will be waiting. Because “Divorce” doesn’t mean the end for love…for you.

Dating is hard as is, so when we find ourselves putting limits on who & what we want our spouse to look like we tend to close the doors to new and maybe better opportunities to find “The One”. & as I listened to my guest speak about her experiences dating outside of her race I’ve found I’ve limited myself for a very long time because of the color of their skin. Is it wrong?? Has it hindered you li...

How important is great sex to a relationship?? As a person begins to date, we tend to learn that sex is another level of intimacy & communication & shouldn’t be shy(d) away from. My guest and I, Akeele & Tyler, are single and mingling in a Millennial & GenZ era!! Listen as these questions get juicy & uncomfortable but most importantly, REAL!! Questions provided by: TonightsConversation: After Dark...

Bringing myself to #Shaunciology!! *in my Jada P-Smith vc* Really hearing myself in all my toxicity was embarrassing but it was Therapeutic. It was important for me to talk about my failed relationship(s) so that I can move on & my listeners can hold me accountable from this day forward. Sometimes the Truth can be ugly but it can set me me free.

It’s natural to assume that Pain comes with anguish & a negative outlook on Life. But what if your light never dims? What if every time you walked into a room every one looked to you for laughter? That’s what BDC does for every room she walks in. You’ll never know her pain unless you took the time to walk into her room, unless you put your needs aside & let her in. Even in her healing she’ll allow...

*Bonus Episode* We can be classy, We can be Vulnerable, We can be Feminine, We can be Nasty. We can be all the things that make us a Woman. So why not talk about sex openly with our Listeners?? We gave you Honest Queen shit in every episode now let’s take it to bed & end it right. So take a listen to ShunJai, Akeele, & Ricky talk about sex.

“Ain’t I A Woman.”- Women like Sojourner Truth walked so women like myself, @amomentwitha & @becominga.podcast can Strut.💃🏾Three Black Women, Podcasters coming together in a 3 part series + bonus, in all our femininity, vulnerability, accountability & insecurities. #AmomentwithA Ain’t I A Woman: Vulnerability-Nov 12th #BecomingA… Ain’t I A Woman: Self Sabotage-Nov 17th(my birthday)

Most women were born to be Mothers. Their nurturing spirit that they carry soothes the cry babies, embraces even the toughest child, & mentors the younger generation, all in one. & that’s who Tammy “D’va Prez” does for every soul she touches. She is the woman every Village raising family needs. She doesn’t call herself a Stepmom because her love for each child she encounters is a Mother’s (authent...

We may not be professionals but we can critique with the best of them. & I fell in love with the show created by Netflix two years ago so I couldn’t wait to catch up on where they are now. Let’s just say the drama was in full effect from beginning to end & I was here for it. So take a listen to Aaron, Shooting the Breeze with A, Taroy, the Average Joe, & I give our take on the drama unfolded. It’s...

Three couples let us into their lives after saying their “I Do’s”. The “High School Sweethearts”, “Decade Marriage” & “the Newlyweds” Part 1 is the introduction to their lives, parenting, hardships, etc returning guest Shannon Clark & Regina Williams & introducing their husbands Alex Clark & Eric Williams. & married couple Ryan & Dominque Christian. Their stories will put your thoughts of marriage...