Sex, Lies & DM Slides

We’re back with another juicy episode! Ana just got back from her wild trip to Bali and Saff’s been living it up in Berlin. Bali was party central, but Ana didn’t go on any dates there... because she had one right before her trip with a finance bro she matched with on Raya! Raya’s been working wonders for Ana, and today she’s reading out her messages (with a little help from Saff, of course). Plus...

We’re BACK with our absolute FAVEEEE kinds of episode. Yep, you guessed it - it’s YOUR dating dilemmas. And boy oh boy do we have some shocking ones for you today… from ‘Should I date my exes mum (?!)’ to ‘What is an acceptable body count to have?’ We answer them all! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's that age old debate made popular in the hit movie When Harry Met Sally. But why are we still questioning it to this day? Today, we discuss if men and women can ever really just be friends, or whether they will always end up being romantically involved. Plus, Ana shares her own experiences on this topic. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Celibacy is something we've been wanting to talk about for a hot minute! After seeing that #celibacy has 78 million posts on TikTok, we knew we had to give our hot take on the topic. Today, we discuss all things celibacy, our opinions on it and whether we've ever taken a period of celibacy... by choice or not! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's finalllly the summer - the weather is weathering, England are doing well in the Euros and things are looking up. AND hot girl summer is upon us! Today we reminisce about our previous hot girl summers, holiday we've taken together and our plans for this summer too. Plus, we talk about if our holiday romances and give our tips on how to have a hot girl summer. Got a hot girl summer story? DM us...

We are back with another one of our absolute FAVE episodes! Yes, you guessed it: we are answering MORE of your dating dilemmas. In today's episode, we discuss what to do when your boyfriend of 10 years doesn't want to have sex with you, tips on dating with anxiety and how to deal with it when a boy says ‘I like you but I’m not ready.' Plus, we give our hot take on one of your more *gross* dilemmas...

Have you ever heard of the 'Three Loves' theory? Today, we discuss the idea that you only have 3 loves in your life: the first love, the intense love and the everlasting love. We give our hot take on whether we believe this theory AND we discuss how many times we've been in love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We've been wanting to talk about the different attachment styles in dating on the pod forever and some of these really resonate with us! From anxious attachments to avoidant to secure, we discuss them all. Plus, we talk about which attachment styles we think we are or have been in previous relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We absolutely LIVE by manifesting, so we are super excited to be joined today by Roxie Nafousi, who is a 2x Sunday Times Bestselling Author and the absolute QUEEN of manifesting. In this episode, she answers all of your questions on all things manifesting, from how to create a vision board to daily manifestation practices and how you can remove fear and doubt when manifesting your perfect life. Pl...

There are soooo many reality dating shows nowadays that depict contestants falling in love with the potential suitor in *an instant*. This got us thinking… can you ACTUALLY falling in love someone at first sight? We give our two cents on the topic and we reveal if we’ve ever fallen in love with someone when first meeting them. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Boundaries are such an important part of dating, whether you just started seeing someone or you are in a long-term relationship. We wanted to break-down some of the different boundaries you should keep in mind and the importance of them - from physical to emotional and more. Plus, Ana opens up about the boundaries she put in place when she was dating her ex-boyfriend. Learn more about your ad choi...

Have you ever wondered if you actually fall in love someone by asking them a handful of questions? Well a study by psychologist Dr. Arthur Aaron seems to think you can! We take a look at those 36 questions and whether these can help you fall in love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’ve all come across certain types in our dating lives right? From the bad boy, to spending time with “mr.unavailable” or the classic ‘man child’, we take a look at ALL the common stereotypes in men when on the dating scene. Plus we look at some of the stereotypes that women tend to fall under in the dating world as well. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Going through the stages of dating can be quite the journey (we would know!) So we thought this bonus episode would be a perfect chance to look at dating milestones and how to navigate those big moments, one step at time. From when should you make things official, to when should your meet partner's family and when is the right time to book your first holiday today together as a couple? Plus, we di...

We’ve been wanting to do an episode on this for ages! Beige flags is a major trend on TikTok atm so we wanted to talk about all the major differences between beige AND red flags. We also discuss some of our own beige flags and reveal some of yours too! Plus Saff gives an update on her trip to LA, and the very “interesting” fact she’s learned about the new gym she is going to. Learn more about your...

We wanted get back to basics with this podcast…so thought we'd share some the wild and weird DMs WE have received. From Ana's flirtatious messages from guys, to people sending Saff some very traumatic breakup stories - these are honestly wild! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It’s that time again! In this episode, we try and answer all of your dating & relationship dilemmas. From what to do if you fancy your housemate, to dealing with feeling left out when being the only single girlie in your friendship group, and how do you navigate the awkward situation if a friends boyfriend starts flirting with you? Plus, we answer the big question… how to talk to your mum if she d...

We all had that feeling of literally being *obsessed* with someone, but has a crush ever gone TOO far for you? This bonus episode we take a look at trending terms called unrequited love and limerence - plus we confess if we’ve both ever felt this way before… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’re getting pretty deep in this episode! There’s a major trend on TikTok on the topic of the "male gaze" vs the "female gaze"... especially when it comes to dating. We talk about the major differences in what men find attractive compared to women, from dating apps to dress sense and more! Plus, we give tops tips to spice up your dating profiles just in time for hot girl summer. Learn more about...

We wanted to get back to basics and discuss all things DMs! We chat about top tips to slide into someone DM’s, and the weirdest DM’s we’ve ever gotten. Plus, you guys sent in some of the brave way you've slid in... and we were honestly shocked by the responses! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We’ve all been in a situationship, aka not a real relationship and a lot of confusion about where you stand with the other person. This got us thinking... can they actually work and can casual dating ever be a good thing? Plus, we take a look at the major differences between situationships and friends with benefits, and Ana opens up about her own experience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit...

Everyone has things they absolutely would never put up with when it comes to dating, while some people are more open when they are dating someone new. So, we wanted to take a deep dive into some dating non-negotiables, like would you ever date someone who doesn’t want kids to would you date a smoker. Plus, we give our hot take on our non-negotiables. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcast...

Since we both met up with our exes recently (just as friends), we thought we would discuss all things break ups and exes. Like can you actually be friends with an ex? Would you ever let one of your friends date your ex? Plus, you sent us some crazyyy break up stories Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We all know our coupled up friends mean well when they give us advice... but sometimes, it’s just NOT helpful! So, we’re turning the tables and gently reminding our friends who are in relationships why certain things are just not useful to tell a single friend. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are BACK from Coachella and boy do we have a lot catch up on! Our trip also got us thinking about all the major differences between America and the UK.. from dating to lifestyle to fashion (trust us, there are A LOT!) Plus, Saff spills the tea on whether she found her soulmate in LA and she addresses rumours about her ex-boyfriend. You won't want to miss this one! x Learn more about your ad cho...