Separation Anxiety

Our reader, “Dad Can’t Decide”, asks Amy and T.J. in their Yahoo weekly relationship advice column about whether he should consider getting his vasectomy reversed. In this episode, Amy and T.J. commiserate with both sides, because these two know what it’s like to want kids with the person you love, even when it’s not biologically possible… and yet, they also ge...

Before Ben can play matchmaker, he has to get to know our Famously Available women inside and out! Through an extensive series of questions, we're getting all the need-to-know answers! Would DeAnna be the breadwinner in a relationship? Does she want to get married again? ...What shoe size is she? Post-divorce, DeAnna has grown and is ready to share her experience finding love again.  See...

Amy and T.J. go over the comments and advice their readers left for Casi, a nearly 40 year old woman who wants to give a failed romance with a big age gap another try! In their latest weekly Yahoo column, it was surprising and even inspiring to hear other readers talk about their successful relationships despite the taboo of having a significantly older partner.   To read their weekly column...

Casi wrote into “Ask Amy and T.J.” in their latest Yahoo relationship advice column, wondering if she should give a man 25 years older than her another try, now that she’s older and wiser. She met him when she was a freshman in college and he was in his 40s… Now she’s about to turn 40 herself and thinks they may be ready for love.    To read their weekly co...

From “Shrekking” to “Future Proofing” to “Micro-Mancing” do you fall into one of these newly coined dating trends? Some of these dating styles have been around for ages, but we just haven’t admitted we’ve participated in them…  so they have new and hilarious names. While many are entertaining to talk about, others serve as major red flags...

After being unlucky in love on both The Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise, Mercedes is ready to put her love life in Ben Higgins hands! From figuring out what she is looking for in a relationship to what her type is, Mercedes is ready to get to the heart of what she really wants outside of reality TV.  Follow us on Instagram @FamouslyAvailable See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informati...

We know this looks like clickbait, but hold on, Amy talks to T.J. about research that shows just ONE minute of focused undivided attention to your partner each day, can massively improve your relationship. It’s from a researched article in Forbes that challenges all of us to put down our phones, hold each other’s hands, and ask our partners how we can support them today. Amy and T.J. a...

Say it ain’t so…  Love Island winning couple Amaya and Bryan have publicly announced their breakup, followed quickly by fan favorites Iris and Pepe! Amy and T.J. discuss how just days after the Love Island reunion episode, it seems breaking up is easy to do See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Amy and T.J. go through readers’ advice to Kai after she asks if she should tell her parents about a year long relationship with a man outside of her culture, before they get engaged.  Some readers think Kai should grow up and live her own life, while others take issue with Amy and T.J.’s advice to Kai.       See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You remember DeAnna Pappas when she was on Brad Womack's season of "The Bachelor", and again when she starred as "The Bachelorette" - but sadly, DeAnna never managed to find love in Bachelor Nation. She got married and started a family, but unfortunately, every rose has its thorn, and the marriage ended in divorce.  Now DeAnna is ready to get back out there and take control of her dating life...

Amy and T.J. LOVE love and have some fun with the big engagement news! With nearly 30 million likes on their instagram engagement announcement post, it seems the world is celebrating Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift. From the proposal to the ring to the now sold out Ralph Lauren sundress Taylor was wearing, we have all the details, and now everyone from Little Caesar’s Pizza to Krispy Kreme to...

Ben and Ashley have something NEW you have to hear! Listen to “Famously Available” to follow some of your favorite Bachelor Nation alum on their next journey to finding love!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Famously Available” explores love at every stage of life, with familiar faces from Bachelor Nation sharing their journeys, opening their hearts, and inviting listeners along as they step into a new era of romance.  We’ll follow DeAnna Pappas, who Bachelor Nation will remember for her heartbreak from Brad Womack, and later, for her own turn as The Bachelorette in 2008, neith...

A messy, awkward and yes, entertaining finale capped off the most watched season to date for Love Island USA. Amy and T.J. go over all the highs and lows, including Hurricane Huda, Nicolandria, a lot of “apologies” and how the hell two of the seemingly tightest couples, just unfollowed each other within days of the taped finale.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information...

In this week’s Yahoo column, Kai writes to Amy and T.J. asking whether she should tell her parents about her very serious boyfriend from a “different background” before they get engaged… or Kai asks, should she wait until afterwards, so she doesn’t cause any unnecessary conflict.   To read their weekly column Ask Amy & T.J., head to Yahoo News  https://...

The hate for Jeremiah on Amazon Prime Video’s number one show is real. It’s one thing to be “Team Conrad” or “Team Jeremiah” but it’s another thing altogether to be calling for, or wishing for physical harm to come to the actor. Amy and T.J. talk about what actor Gavin Casalegno has to say about all the hate for his character and how Amazon had to post a s...

”The Summer I Turned Pretty" has set off a heated debate in the Holmes-Robach household.  The show is a cultural phenomenon and bonafide hit for Amazon Prime. And, it's set off a debate: #TeamConrad or #TeamJeremiah? Amy is sitting this one out, and letting T.J's daughter Sabine school him on which team he should be on.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Amy and T.J. are floored by some of the advice their listeners and readers had for Brenda. She reached out to Amy and T.J. for help dealing with her husband's ex-wife, who's always around and always touching, and even kissing, on Brenda's husband.   To read their weekly column Ask Amy & T.J., head to Yahoo News  https://yhoo.it/AskAmyAndTJ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy info...

This week, Brenda writes into Amy and T.J.’s weekly Yahoo Advice column and says her husband’s ex-wife, Betty, is always around and is constantly hugging and kissing on him. Hear what Amy and T.J. think Brenda should do, after she’s already told him she’s not comfortable going to the next family event if the ex is there, and he’s already told her, he’s going wit...

Pick up a dish towel. If you want to show how much you love your partner, cleaning might be the way to go. T.J. surprises Robach with today’s topic, and turns out, she didn’t need to do research on the topic. She had PLENTY to say. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Brian writes into Amy and T.J.’s weekly Yahoo advice column and says he constantly gets told “You’re so nice, I don’t want to ruin our friendship.” He wants to know how he can keep putting himself out there when, despite his accomplishments, he just can’t find a relationship.   To read their weekly column Ask Amy & T.J., head to Yahoo News  https:/...

Amy and T.J. are scratching their heads with the rest of you as to why former MLB player David Justice would throw shade on his ex Halle Berry, 30 years after their divorce.  But if you listen beyond the headline, what he goes on to say is far worse. From explaining how she proposed to him and how he dumped her, he also talks about how they could’ve stayed together… which has to...

Kelly Clarkson has taken a step back from her public career to help her children through the sudden loss of their father, her ex-husband, Brandon Blackstock.  Clarkson and Blackstock had a contentious, public divorce just a few years ago, Clarkson even writing lyrics addressing her anger and broken heart, but as Amy and T.J. discuss, she is now having to mourn a different type of grief while...

How many of you have different politics than your partner? Can a relationship work if each of you are on polar ends of the political spectrum? In this episode, Amy and T.J. give their advice to Laurie, who wrote into their weekly Yahoo column “Ask Amy & T.J.” to find out if she can make her marriage work even though political differences are tearing their relationship apart.  ...

It's OK to admit it: the question has crossed your mind before. It's crossed all of our minds at some point: Should I stay with/settle for my current partner ... or should I go out and find someone who makes my heart flutter? In this episode, Amy and T. J. have a passionate (yet loving) debate as they advise a 27-year-old who wrote into their weekly Yahoo column, "Ask & T. J."  They ultim...