Second Thoughts

In this week’s episode, Paula & Pia are joined by their oldest friends—Anna, Geolie, and Jasmine. Friends for over 20 years, the girls—aka The Fab 5—talk openly and candidly about the importance of friends and how to navigate different types of friendships. We all have acquaintances, friends, close friends, and best friends, and this episode takes a deep dive into the realities of making and r...

In this week's episode, Paula & Pia come back from their 2-month hiatus! They talk about what they've been up to the past few months, what you can look forward to for the future of the podcast, and—most importantly—their moving out journey! Paula & Pia share their thoughts on how they've grown up since moving out of their childhood home, what they've learned about themselves in the process...

In this week's episode, and the last episode of Season 1, Paula & Pia get into answering 73 questions, Vogue style! They ask each other about their worst traits, favorite qualities in a partner, items on their bucket list & other rapid fire questions! Tune in to get to know the girls and their unique personalities.

This week, Paula & Pia talk about toxic relationships; both platonic and romantic. In this episode, Paula & Pia discuss their experiences navigating one-sided friendships, on-again-off-again relationships and all the red flags that everyone should be mindful of. Tune in to hear their two cents on why leaving someone is easier said than done but, more often than not, necessary. Goodbye toxicity!

In this episode Paula & Pia discuss burnout. Burnout has become an all-too-common experience. With symptoms ranging from irritation to fatigue to l straight-up hating the things you once loved—Paula & Pia discuss their experience(s) with burnout and how to avoid it. Tune in to hear ways you can spot burnout ahead of time and best practices to keep you focused and happy.

At Second Thoughts Pod, we're all about cliche sayings. So...NEW YEAR, NEW ME! This week, Paula & Pia discuss their New Year's resolutions and goals for the future. The two sisters talk about the importance of goal-setting and mapping out your best future. Tune in to hear their personal aspirations for 2021 and how you can seize the new year.

As 2020 comes to a close, Paula & Pia reflect and reminisce on what was a crazy and unexpected year. They share 20 lessons learned ranging from things like defining boundaries and putting their mental health first to thanking TikTok for the communities they've been exposed to and reminding them that you are never truly alone.

'Tis the season! This week's episode is a special one. The holidays are the season of giving and Paula & Pia are looking to give back to their community. For every listen this episode receives (up until Jan 1, 2021), Paula & Pia will donate $1 for every listen (up to $500) to their charity of choice. Tune in for a good cause and a good time! Make sure to follow them on Instagram at @secondthoughts...

Bad days are inevitable. We all have them and it's easy to let one bad instance ruin the rest of your day. This week, Paula & Pia bring you a short and sweet episode to remind you that 1) it gets better 2) take it one step at a time and 3) there are always silver linings. Whenever you're going through it, give this episode a listen to remind yourself that it's not always as bad as you think. It's...

In this week's episode, Paula & Pia share their thoughts and feelings about confrontation and passive-aggressive behavior. They shed light on the pros and cons of each trait and provide advice on how to address your problems head-on versus internalizing them. The two sisters believe that communication is key, but that you must learn to pick your battles. Tune in for a candid conversation on why co...

Motivation—it's something we all want and need but somehow it always finds a way to escape us when we need it most. In this week's episode, Paula & Pia talk about their personal motivations and how they encourage themselves to get shit done. From having your friends keep you accountable to using competition to drive you forward, Paula & Pia share their secrets on how they keep the foot on the gas.

Rejection stings. In this week's episode, Paula and Pia reflect on all the gut-wrenching rejections they've endured over the years. From being ghosted by boys and potential employers to being in the shoes of those doing the rejecting—this episode will be the most relatable one yet. Everyone goes through rejection and it almost always sucks. However, there are certain things you can do to make each...

Last week, we took a dive into Pia's life as an influencer. Since we know not everyone can achieve the same amount of clout that Pia has—in this episode, we analyze all the ups and downs of your typical, and realistic, 9 to 5 job. Paula goes into detail about how she came to study advertising/marketing, her first job out of college, and what Corporate America is really like. Tune in to hear Paula...

You've been asking for it and we're here to deliver! This week we dive into Pia's career of choice...or choices. Social media influencer, TikToker, YouTuber and entrepreneur—Pia wears many hats. While she may look picture perfect on Instagram, the reality isn't always full of smiles and amazing brand deals. Paula and Pia talk about how Pia started this journey, obstacles she's faced along the way,...

Hot take...it's okay to be selfish. In this episode, Paula and Pia challenge the negative stigma around selfish behavior. Sometimes, being selfish is OKAY and you shouldn't let people shame you for 'doing you.' Listen in on how Paula and Pia navigate the boundaries around their individual selfish tendencies and how they combat self-neglect. Learn how to say no and how to measure what is an inconve...

Our love languages are ice cream and people who vote! In this episode, Paula and Pia talk about the 5 love languages and how love languages can help you better understand your partners, family and friends. Girls (and boys!) it's time to tell your partner exactly what you want and need. Join Paula & Pia as they talk about how they were able to identify their love languages and how they were able to...

We're kicking off the podcast with a little bit of...confidence! Putting yourself out there can be intimidating, but you shouldn't let the fear of being judged or ridiculed stop you from doing you. Join Paula & Pia as they talk about their individual insecurities and how they navigate the always-moving scale that is confidence. The two will share their perspective on how their confidence varies (d...

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