Second Thoughts

Pia and Paula are excitedly counting down to 2024 and reminiscing about all the amazing things that happened in 2023 – shoutout to Pia's new house and Paula's career pivot! But they're not just looking back…they're also planning for their future. In this episode, the sisters share their experiences from the past year, both the highs and the lows and discuss their goals and aspirati...

The holiday season is just around the corner, but it can be super tough to fully enjoy it if you're far away from your loved ones. And Pia and Paula totally understand the challenges of living in different states from each other and the rest of their family! In this episode, they share their experiences navigating long-distance with friends and family and split-family obligations with their pa...

With Thanksgiving just around the corner, Pia & Paula are feeling grateful and nostalgic! The sisters think this season is the perfect time to reflect on your year, tap into your feelings, and enjoy all the beauty right in front of you. They chat about appreciating life's simplicities, being thankful for their friends and family, and living in the moment. So listen in, grab your favorite c...

Let's be honest... we're all a little nosy sometimes. In this episode, Pia and Paula dive into the latest trend on TikTok - "I pay attention to things most people ignore," inspired by Olivia Rodrigo's song, All American B*tch. They chat about the most popular TikToks on this topic, like Venmo requests between couples, the weird ways people interact with your significant other...

Social media has made it way too easy for people to share intimate details of their lives with their followers, and today, Pia & Paula reflect on their experiences with oversharing vs. keeping certain things private online and in real-life. They talk about the difference between relatable content, excessive oversharing, and providing personal stories that can be helpful or educational.  The si...

Today, Pia and Paula are chatting all about being petty and being on the receiving end of petty behavior! Throughout the episode, the sisters share some personal stories about their experiences with pettiness in relationships, friendships, and family dynamics. They also talk about the nuances of being petty, the difference between playful and harmful pettiness, and how they respond to someone bein...

Emotional detachment gets a bad rap, but finding ways to separate yourself from situations or people that don’t serve you is so important. In this episode, Pia and Paula discuss what detachment looks like through the lens of toxic friendships and family dynamics, particularly for people who tend to absorb negative energy. They also highlight ways to let go of unrealistic expectations and reduce an...

The leaves are changing, the pumpkins are out, and the sweaters are on! Fall is here, and Pia and Paula couldn't be more excited. But as cozy as fall can be, they don't want you to get caught up in the seasonal blues. Today, the sisters share their tips for keeping your social calendar full of fall activities, making memories with your friends and family, and suiting up in those comfy cold...

As Pia's 25th birthday approaches, she and Paula are taking a moment to look back on all the amazing things that have happened before and during 24. They chat about why it's so important to prioritize self-care, health, and personal growth over partying and Netflix binges as you hit that quarter-life milestone. Moving into her mid-twenties, Pia is embracing what makes her unique and playin...

As summer 2023 comes to a close, Pia and Paula are reflecting back on all the lessons they've learned. For the sisters, this summer was all about growth, self-discovery, and realizing that you can live life on your own terms. They chat about the importance of setting boundaries, finding supportive friends, and not giving in to societal pressures or expectations. Pia highlights embracing her ad...

Pia and Paula are here to remind you that there's nothing wrong with being a little delulu from time to time! Today, the sisters chat about the power of delusion, also known online as “being delulu.” They talk about how being delusional can be a good thing, especially when it helps you turn your passions into a career or as a way to stay optimistic in situations that are beyond your control. T...

Are you starting to channel more Emily Mariko energy and less Alix Earle? Then, you might be transitioning into your soft girl era! Today, Pia and Paula dive into hot girl and soft girl eras. They explore what each phase of life means, how they differ, and why it all ties into growth and priorities. They also introduce a new term for an era that's a mix of both! The sisters share their experie...

In a world full of societal pressures, social media trends, and cultural standards, it's easy to feel like you need to be the "perfect" version of yourself all of the time. Pia & Paula know how overwhelming this can be and want to remind you that these standards are totally unrealistic! Today, the sisters open up about their experiences in navigating modern beauty standards, rant...

Today's special episode is dedicated entirely to second-guessing and answering your burning questions. The sisters cover an array of topics, including their semi-traumatic childhood Target trips, why Pia couldn't keep her guinea pigs, and their goals for 2024. They also dig into deeper discussions about having kids in modern America, the advice they would give their younger selves, and the...

Pia and Paula admit they aren't financial experts, but they're more than happy to share some tips and tricks that have helped them manage their money in their 20s! In this episode, they offer advice to anyone looking to manage their finances wisely, find joy in their spending choices, and create a harmonious relationship between everyday luxuries and future security.  The sisters reflect o...

Pia and Paula understand the uphill climb of making friends in your 20s. But they’re here to remind you that feeling unsure or nervous is completely normal and building genuine and meaningful friendships takes time and effort!  Today, the sisters open up about navigating the ups and downs of making friends. They share their tips for connecting with others, what they look for in friendships, and wh...

Family vacations are a rare time to slow down, relax, and bond with loved ones without any work-related or outside distractions. For the Cuerquis family, going on big family vacations is a tradition, and Pia & Paula have become professionals in the art of family travel! Today, they're sharing their pros, cons, and expert tips for making the most of family vacations. Being in forced proximi...

For Pia & Paula, learning is a never-ending process. With immigrant parents, they've had to figure out important US milestones like college applications, filing taxes, finding a doctor, and pumping gas (shout out to New Jersey) on their own. In this episode, the sisters share the obstacles they've faced in their young adulthood that no one bothered to teach them about sooner!  Everyone...

If you claim you don't get jealous, you're lying! Jealousy is a natural human emotion that everyone faces, but knowing how to handle it is essential for your personal growth journey. Today, Pia & Paula dive into how jealousy can sneak up on you in relationships, work, and friendships, especially in the era of social media.  The sisters open up about the ways they experience jealousy, l...

While you're probably familiar with red and green flags, there's a new online trend: beige flags. These flags aren't necessarily good or bad, but they add a touch of uniqueness and quirkiness to a person. In today’s episode, Pia & Paula share their own relationship green, red and beige flags! They highlight their green flags, like when someone they’re dating makes their friends lau...

It's Paula's 26th birthday! In this episode, Pia and Paula discuss all things birthday, including the significance of birthdays as an opportunity to pause, reflect, and appreciate another year of growth and lessons learned. But, which birthday is the most important? Why did their 18th birthday parties cost $12,000? How do you efficiently plan birthday dinners as schedules get fuller? Plus,...

In this episode, Pia and Paula deep dive into the concept of closure, share their experiences with seeking it, and second guess if having closure is really necessary. They question whether closure is about finding answers, mutual agreement, accepting reality, or reinforcing what they already know. The sisters acknowledge that while closure can be helpful for processing emotions and gaining clarity...

Between work, socializing with friends, house hunting, recording their podcast, traveling, creating TikToks, and spending time with family, Pia and Paula can hardly find moments to catch their breath! But the sisters are determined to manage everything without being overwhelmed by the stress. They believe finding balance is the key, and in this episode, the sisters dive into what balance means to...

What does it mean to live as your authentic self? Pia and Paula are still figuring it out! In this week's episode, they want to take you on their journey of self discovery! The sisters discuss the steps they're taking to find their authentic selves, compare the person they are now to who their younger selves wanted to be, and the ways they manage the opinions and perspectives of those who...

You may know bits and pieces of Pia and Paula’s background, but in today’s episode, they take a deep dive into their origin story! The girls go all the way back to their birthplace in the Philippines and open up about how they balanced a traditional Filipino upbringing with their New Jersey, All-American childhood. Paula gets real about finding freedom in college, and Pia talks about how, ever sin...