Tom
Save My Darlings
I'm the lead pastor of Coast Bible Church in Orange County, CA. In this weekly podcast I talk about the stuff that I think is interesting or theologically pregnant or super complicated but didn’t quite make the weekly sermon. Check us out at coastbible.org!
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Episodes
Milk vs. Solid Food 30.10.2025 32:38
On Sunday we talked about the pure milk of the word, and how newcomers to the Lifeboat need to feed on Jesus' teaching. Well, spiritual milk gets mentioned elsewhere in the New Testament, and not in a very favorable way. In 1 Corinthians 3, Paul is angry at some Christians because they don't want to move on from milk and start taking in solid food. What is solid food? Do we really ever sto...
How Bad am I? 23.10.2025 17:35
On Sunday, we saw that Paul calls himself the worst of all sinners. Well, that can't be literally true because it seems like there must have been other people who did worse stuff than him. So what does he mean and why does he say it? And what does it mean for us? Should I think of myself as "The worst of all sinners?" and if so, how should that impact the way I live?
Why Is There Evil? 16.10.2025 20:49
On Sunday we heard Thomas Aquinas's view that God allowed evil because he judged it better to have the possibility of redemption than not. What the heck does that mean? Is evil good? What do we do with horrific evil? Why is there evil? Well, we can't answer all fully in 20 minutes, but we can at least get a start.
Who's Driving the Ship? 09.10.2025 17:14
Before we turn to Jesus to rescue us, we often aren't aware we need rescuing! So what is happening when life is like that and who is responsible? And why do we so often wish we could go back to that sort of life? It might help to make sure you've listened to the sermon first for context. Visit coastbible.org for links to audio and video.
What If Getting Forgiven Might Ruin My Life? 03.10.2025 11:16
Practical question: what if the person you have wronged could really hurt you or those you love if you tell them what you've done? What if trying to address the wrong is almost certain to make things worse? Are we off the hook? Sorta-kinda. Listen to find out!
The Psychology Behind Forgiveness 02.10.2025 18:15
Why does Jesus tell us get forgiven from someone we've hurt when we're angry? Receiving forgiveness does something to us. In this episode we find out what.
Giving and Praying Jesus' Way 25.09.2025 32:49
On Sunday, we described giving, praying, and fasting as opportunities to "have a catch with dad," that is, delight in spending time with our heavenly Father during all of life's ups, downs, and everything in between. But what might that look like for giving and fasting specifically? This episode deals with some more specifics.
How do we know right from wrong? 08.10.2024 44:40
Sadly, Christian theologians and Biblicists and ethicists are hopelessly confused about how to tell right from wrong. We saw that in the last episode. So I'm here to help you do better! Here's a quick and dirty guide to understanding how the bible thinks about right and wrong and how you should too. Little bit on male and female emissions, so look out for little ears!
Can I Lie and Make Fun of People? 04.10.2024 26:00
So apparently there's a movie that makes fun of antiracism that came out called, "Am I Racist?" And, surprisingly--to me, at least--some conservative Christians are concerned that the tactics used by a Christian in the movie--including lying to and mocking perceived enemies--are beyond the pale and unChristian. Well, that's silly. Listen to find out why.
Did the biblical authors really write what we're reading? 20.09.2024 28:51
Sometimes there are big differences between translations of the Bible. In fact, sometimes whole verses are omitted. Why? Don't we all translate from the same sources? Well, come on a journey as we find out where are sources come from, how old they are, and how confident we can be that we know what John or Luke of Isaiah really wrote.
What is a Soul and Do I Have One? 11.09.2024 26:20
Christians talk a lot about "souls" but what do we mean? And what are the implications of soul talk for our lives and afterlives?
What Happens When We Die? 06.09.2024 13:25
What do the dead experience? Anything? Are they watching us right now? Just a few quick thoughts.
Why Don't I Get a Miracle? 27.08.2024 25:45
Sometimes God says no when we really need him to say yes. Why? Well, it's impossible to know for sure, but here are some biblical themes to help us out!
Have You Noticed There aren't Any Real Heroes? 23.08.2024 16:28
Hebrews 11 gives us a huge list of the "heroes of the faith." But when we take a closer look at their lives, they aren't, uh, very saintly. Really corrupt in fact. What do we make of this? Are there any real heroes?
Does the Bible Think Prostitution is Okay? 23.08.2024 19:18
Last week we talked about Rahab the prostitute. One of the weird things about the story is that no one ever calls her out for being a sinner or asks her to repent. But doesn't it seem like sex trade is something God would condemn? What gives? (Note: there's nothing graphic here, but we are honest about sex work and do talk about its realities)
Why is Everyone in Genesis So Old? 15.08.2024 20:50
A strange feature of the genealogies in Genesis 5 and 11 is how old everyone is. People living into their 900s? What gives? We look at some provocative possibilities. Hat Tip to Carol Hill for some excellent research.
Why Does God Want Us to Knock So Much? 30.07.2024 22:50
For this episode we're joined by our Youth Director, Patrick Vear. We talk about last week's episode about What to Do When the Bible is Unbelievable AND one of the darlings from Patrick's sermon a couple of weeks ago. If God knows everything and can do anything, Why does he ask us to keep knocking on his door when we need something?
What to Do When the Bible is Unbelievable 25.07.2024 21:21
Could all those animals really fit in the ark? For some modern people, the Bible has some stories that are simply too outlandish to believe. Well, if that's the case, (1) is there still a possibility of genuine faith; and (2) can reading the Bible still be transformational for skeptics? I say YES.
What the Bible Doesn't Say 25.07.2024 21:57
Sometimes the Bible leaves out stuff that we think is important. Why? And what should that teach us about reading it?
Introduction to Save My Darlings 17.07.2024 2:21
What is this podcast all about?
What Did God Know and When Did He Know It? 17.07.2024 29:38
Genesis 6 puts some classical doctrines like omniscience (God knows everything), impassability (God never changes), and Goodness (God only does good) into question. What doe we do with this?
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