Sari Swears

Let's talk about a courtroom taboo: crying. IS IT -REALLY- OK TO CRY IN COURT? Spoiler alert: Mama Sari is giving you the green light. Because here's the thing: showing emotion isn't a sign of weakness — it's a sign of authenticity , passion , and unwavering dedication to your client. So, next time you feel that lump in your throat, embrace that shit. Tune in now. Xo, Sari   Quote: "If emotions ar...

Holy fucking shit! IT'S MY 250TH EPISODE! 🥳 It is because of YOU that we have made it this far. So, from the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU. Tune in to find out the 4 beliefs hindering your potential as a trial attorney. Xo, Sari   Quote: "That's what I mean, is that there's a belief that it has to be hard. You read and reread all of the documents, due to your fear of missing something and missing...

Forget burning the midnight oil to catch up on "unfinished" research, case preps, and admin tasks—Parkinson's Law says your work expands to fill the time you give it.  Hold on… LET ME FINISH. 80% of your results come from 20% of your effort, and despite the popular opinion of many, it is OKAY to embrace B minus work (Yep, I said it and I'm not taking it back). Because perfection is overrated and y...

I always hear this from attorneys in and out of H2H – "I learned more from my failures than my successes."  Well, throw that bullshit out the window because this week's episode is all about debunking the myth that failure is the ultimate teacher. Tune in to find out how to break the cycle of fixating on mistakes (because let's face it, that only leads to one thing: giving up 😤) and instead, champ...

Have you ever researched jury selection methods? Well I did. And it is slim fucking pickings. Turns out, predicting verdicts based on juror characteristics is about as reliable as a coin toss. What method really " WORKS "? Long story short.. YOU !  This episode is for you if you want to learn the 7 crucial questions to ask yourself when choosing a method.  If your method hits all these marks, you'...

It's time to forget everything you know on the  "ideal juror profile" and ditch the outdated playbook. Capeesh?! Ok, now that's out the window… This episode is for you if you want to learn powerful ways of creating the ultimate "ideal juror profile". (Spoiler alert: it's not your typical demographic; a woman between the ages of 40-60, college graduate, blah, blah, blah. #Boring.) Tune in on the ep...

From misplaced focus, to survival-mode brains, we're dissecting the TOP FIVE reasons behind those lightning-fast ver-🍆-ts. If you want to communicate effectively with your jurors—and I know you do—then you have to get out of your head and into theirs. Join me as I delve into the H2H method : the purpose of my closing template, the psychology of decision-making, the art of compelling content, and...

If you struggle with constantly feeling like you're not "good enough" , this episode is for YOU , my friend. Today, we are talking about how ABSURD it really is for us humans to relentlessly keep striving to be "enough". So, if you're ready to embrace your imperfections, laugh in the face of doubt, and rewrite the rules on what it means to be "enough", tune in now.    Xo, Sari   Quote: "It's like...

Curiosity may have killed the cat, but it's about to resurrect your trial game. Curiosity isn't just about asking questions; it's about forging connections that transcend courtroom formalities.  Curiosity isn't about having an end goal in mind. It's about embracing the unknown. I know you're DYING to revolutionize your approach to voir dire, so go ahead and tune in. Xo, Sari   Mentions: Ian Leslie...

Are you ready to shake things up?  Good, because that's exactly what we're about to do.  In our latest episode, we're diving deep into the nitty-gritty as to why you HAVE to make the jury uncomfortable in voir dire or in your opening statement (and YES, it will make YOU feel uncomfortable, too, but that's the point.)  I'll teach you how to captivate, motivate, and inspire action from the jury thro...

This episode is dedicated to my young lawyers. Trial lawyering is literally one of the biggest mindfucks that could ever happen to a human being.  That means that you NEED to have your own back, and give yourself grace and compassion. Tune in to find out my top three advice for YOU as a young lawyer that if you use to shape your career, one, unlike Joe, you'll get to skip the never-ending search f...

If you've ever wondered (because why wouldn't you?!) the real reason behind my love affair with swearing… Then you're in for a treat. I don't want to spoil the episode for you, so go ahead and tune in. That's an order from your Finnish mama.😉   Xo, Sari   Quote: "Most of humanity is fucking asleep. We compare ourselves to other people, to other trial lawyers in this industry, and then we conform...

In this episode, we're diving deep into plaintiff trial strategies that'll encourage you to rethink how you present your case. I'll teach you what frontloading the danger means, and the importance of the order in which you present information to jurors that can make or break your case.   Xo, Sari   ➡️Listen on Spotify ➡️Listen on Apple ➡️Listen on YouTube   Quote: "Stop telling the jurors what hap...

What's YOUR dream? For ME, my dream is to change the way law is practiced. And I'm doing it. But I'm not doing it ALONE. The H2H Crew, my rock through surviving cancer (You know who you are, and I love you! 🥹), has proven that I don't have to do things alone. And together, we are changing the game for lawyers across America – from how voir dire is practiced to how lawyers are living their day-to-...

Welcome to today's podcast episode — a VIP backstage pass to the covert world of nonverbal influence in the courtroom. I know you're searching for answers, eager to master the art of nonverbal communication, and your Finnish mama is here to deliver. But not in the way you expect. 😜 I'm giving you the lowdown on eye contact, voice, and body language, under ONE condition —  promise me you'll use th...

Let's get real about manifesting, shall we? In this episode, I'm breaking down seven steps to manifesting… Well, anything you want, really.  Maybe it's an 8-figure verdict, or your dream house, or dream car, or hell, your dream life! You name it. Get ready for mind-blowing stories – from how I manifested my biggest blessing to clients scoring dream jobs and ideal partners. Xo, Sari   Mentions: E-S...

In this episode, I'm serving up a reality check on a habit many of you are fucking guilty of.  And that is… Drumroll please… 🥁 Trying the other side's case without even realizing it. (#lightbulbmoment💡) Grab your coffee, tune into this episode, and let's turn the tables in your favor.   Xo, Sari   Mentions: Ep. 227 - The Sneaky Way Defense Points Show Up In Your Funnels Ep. 30 - How to Use the D...

I know, I know—it's not Friday, and this isn't our regularly scheduled programming for a podcast episode… But the H2H Playground™ just went through a MAJOR upgrade, and waiting til Friday felt like fucking torture. So to celebrate this revamp, we're having a FLASH SALE! 🎉 For the next 3 DAYS, you can join the H2H Playground™ at a whopping 40% OFF. The best part? If you register within the next 3...

HAPPY FUCKING NEW YEAR! 🎉 Welcome to SEASON 6! In this episode, we're breaking the fuck AWAY from the idea of work-life balance. Tune in as I share the secrets to conquer overwhelm, kick-ass strategies to smash your goals without the burn out, and make 2024 your best year ever.  Xo, Sari   Quote:  "Here is how I suggest you go about having the work-life balance that I know you all crave. So, for...

As we bid adieu to 2023, I want to THANK YOU for being a part of this ride. Your support means EVERYTHING to me. 🙌  Now, gear up because 2024 is about to get even crazier, louder, and more mind-bending than ever.  Xo, Sari   Mentions: Shoutout - Steven M. FHTH Podcast Ep. 129: Fear is TOTALLY Normal. It's Also TOTALLY Optional   Quote:  "See, the brain doesn't understand what you are trying to do...

RAISE YOUR HAND IF YOU WANT A FAIR AND IMPARTIAL JURY. 🙋🏻‍♀️ Okay, now put it the fuck down because, guess what? YOU DON'T. In this episode, I talk about the ONLY logical strategy to handle bias, and trust me, no one in the industry talks about it (because I'm the best, duh). 🤫 Xo, Sari   Mentions: FHTH Podcast Episode #137 - The Problem with Trying to Find a "Fair & Impartial" Jury   Quote:  "...

Are you unknowingly handing the defense the victory in court? It's a common pitfall I've observed, but fear not—there's a way out! And you can thank me later. 😉 Explore the strategies of the H2H method to shift the focus onto YOUR case, and encourage the jury to fight FOR you. Ready to get your mind blown and redefine your approach? 🤯 Because my track record says I have a habit of doing that. #S...

In this encore episode, I'll teach you how to piss the jury off. But not in the way you might expect. 😉 By the way, if your opening is over 30 minutes long, then you're abso-fucking-lutely pissing them off. In a really bad (and wrong) way.   That's not what I'm talking about here. I'm talking about pissing them off to a point where you motivate them to act. -Sari   Shout out: Jim L.   Quote:  "Th...

Let's get one thing straight—jurors should be handing YOU the principles, not the other way around.  You've got to ask the right questions, though.  In this episode, I give you the 4 questions to ask jurors, and I'll show you how social science supports this new approach. Spoiler: it's not what you've been taught in law school. I'm telling you, I know what I'm talking about.  It's about knowing yo...

I'll be blunt—spewing words like "subsequent," "prior," "motor vehicles," or phrases like "Who here has experience with…," "By a show of hands..." makes my head fucking hurt. You sound like a FREAK , and it's got to stop! WHO are you talking to? If you are wanting to connect with jurors, you've got to cut the bullshit lawyer-speak and remember how to talk like a normal person—like you're having co...