Sari de la Motte

Sari Swears

Sari de la Motte is the host of "Sari Swears" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Tune in every Friday for a new episode of the best fucking podcast on the Internet. I swear. (Like… a LOT. Parental discretion is advised.)

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Sari de la Motte

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Education

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sariswears.com

Latest episode

Jul 10, 2026

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Episodes

Ep.142 - The One Thing You Need to Absolutely Transform Your Life 24.12.2021

It's Christmas Eve y'all and I got you the BEST GIFT EVER. It's THE key to radically transforming your life. If you want things to be different next year, you've got to tune in and give this episode a listen. Merry Christmas to those of you who celebrate!   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula...

Ep.141 - The Key to Making More Money & Getting Bigger Verdicts 17.12.2021

Why haven't you gotten that 8-figure verdict yet? If you were being honest with yourself, you might say, "I don't work hard enough," or, "I'm not prepared enough," or even, "I'm not good enough." But you'd be wrong. Dead wrong. There's only ONE reason you haven't gotten that verdict yet and it is easier than you ever imagined. Give this podcast a listen to learn what it is.   * * * * * FREE H2H TR...

Ep. 140 - How Your Money "Stuff" is Affecting Your Results in the Courtroom 10.12.2021

We all have money stuff. All of us. Plaintiff attorneys deal in money.  Which means if you don't heal your relationship with money, you won't ask for big numbers and you won't get big numbers. (Even if you ask.) In this week's episode I share three money truths you'll want to think about as you begin to heal your relationship with money. Give it a listen.   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LE...

Ep. 139 - Why a 40 Hour Work Week is Not Only Possible But Mandatory If You Want to Be Successful 03.12.2021

If you're working more than 40 hours a week, you're doing it wrong. Yeah, I know your brain has something to say about that, but that's exactly why you need to listen to today's podcast episode. Working 40 hours a week is possible. It's also mandatory if you want to truly be successful. Give it a listen.   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren'...

Ep. 138 - Three Mindset Shifts You Have to Make Around Time (New Time Management Course is Now Live!) 26.11.2021

We all want to get better at time management. Here's the problem: we don't manage time, we manage ourselves. There are three mindset shifts you must make around time in order to live the life of your dreams. Check out this podcast to learn more.   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winni...

Ep. 137 - The Problem with Trying to Find a "Fair & Impartial" Jury 19.11.2021

We all want a fair and impartial jury. Or do we? I unpack that question in this podcast episode. You do not want to miss it.   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for winning?  I love you but the truth is: the shit you're doing with the jury isn't working. You need to let the jury solve your...

Ep.136 - What a Verdict Means (and Doesn't) 12.11.2021

Recently I asked the free From Hostage to Hero FB group: "What is the scariest part of trial for you, and why?" One attorney answered, "When the judge starts reading the verdict. It's the finality of all the hard work, late nights, stress, etc. and you know within seconds there will be a winner and a loser." A verdict is significant, but it DOES NOT decide who the "winner" is. Listen to this episo...

Ep. 135 - Why "How Does That Make You Feel" is a Terrible Question 05.11.2021

Y'all know I hate the "hobbies" question. But there's another question I hate and that is: "How does that make you feel?" There are several reasons for that, which I'll discuss in this episode, but I'll also teach you how to reverse engineer the self-coaching model to get at what jurors need to be feeling in order to take action for you. I explain it all in this episode.   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAIN...

Ep. 134 - Four Questions to Help Jurors Give You the Principles in Your Case 29.10.2021

You do NOT want to miss this episode. Here's why: in this episode I walk you through the four questions you can use to get the jurors to give YOU the principles in your case instead of the other way around. It's groundbreaking and yet utterly simple.    * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new formula for...

Why You Need to "Empty Your Cup" 22.10.2021

Coach Joon is back! We're chatting today about how you need to let go of what you've learned up until this point to in order to learn the H2H method. If you try to fit all your previous learning into the H2H method you're going to get seriously frustrated. We explain why in this episode. Give it a listen.   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren...

H2H Opens Today! Here's 3 Reasons You SHOULDN'T Join 15.10.2021

We open the H2H Crew today for the last time in 2021. We hope you consider joining. It's AWESOME. But there are THREE reasons you shouldn't join. I tell you what they are in this episode. Give it a listen.

Ep.131 - Why Winning Trial Wont Solve Your Problem 08.10.2021

Winning trial won't make you happy. Yep, you read that right. It might make you temporarily happy, but it won't solve your problem. What's your problem you ask? And how to solve it? This podcast episode answers that question and many more.  Give it a listen.   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Aren't you tired of searching for the shiny new form...

Why Youre Resisting the Designed Alliance 01.10.2021

The designed alliance is one thing that really holds the From Hostage to Hero method apart from other trial methods or techniques.  People LOVE it, but also…struggle with it.  I think I know what's behind that struggle, and what it is might surprise you. If you struggle with the designed alliance or want to learn more about it, give this podcast episode a listen.   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * *...

Ep.129 - Fear is TOTALLY Normal. It's Also TOTALLY Optional 24.09.2021

Back in July, this quote by Rick Friedman got posted in the From Hostage to Hero FB group: "Fear is unprofessional." And even though I gave context for the quote in my podcast, and used Rick's analogy of why he said it, people.had.thoughts. LOTS of thoughts. I've been DYING to comment on this ever since, because here's the thing: Fear is TOTALLY normal. It's also TOTALLY optional.  And if that sta...

Ep.128 - When Growth Gets Out of Control 17.09.2021

Well. I promised to share my big learnings from my medical leave and this podcast is the first of many. Here's the gist: For YEARS, maybe even my entire life, I've carried around this thing called "angst." I've tried to get rid of it through therapy, through coaching, through self-help books and a myriad of other things, but it never left. Until now. If you too carry around your own angst, you won...

Ep. 127 - I'M BACK BABY! (health update and what's coming next…) 10.09.2021

I'm BACK! After a 12-week medical leave, I'm back at work and back at the microphone. I've got a lot of people to thank, and some updates to give you. But I also want to tell you about my last 12 weeks, the big revelation I had, and what this means for the podcast episodes to come. It's so good to be back.   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Are...

Ep. 126 - How to Empower Jurors to Fight for You in the Verdict Room 03.09.2021

What do jurors need at the end of trial? Empowerment. Jurors have gotten a lot of information over trial, but now they need the tools to fight for you in the verdict room. In this podcast episode I'll show you how to empower jurors by returning to a very important part of your opening statement, bringing jurors full circle at the end of trial.  Give it a listen.   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * *...

Ep.125 - How to Create a Kick Ass Teaching Section 27.08.2021

Jurors cannot properly judge conduct without context. This is why my opening statement template includes an "Educate the Jury" section, or what I call the "Teaching Section" for short. In this podcast episode I'll walk you through how to create a kick ass teaching section and show you an example from a UIM case. Enjoy!   * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 E...

Ep.124 - How to Find the Principle in Your Case 20.08.2021

What's the difference between a principle and a rule? How do I create an ideal juror profile without getting into the details of my case? In this podcast episode I'll answer these questions and help you find the principle in your case. You'll also learn why principles are what win cases, not details. Give it a listen.

Ep.123 - Should You Split Voir Dire and Opening with Co-Counsel? 13.08.2021

I get this question a lot. You might know what my answer is, but do you know WHY I answer the way I do? In this podcast episode I walk you through my thought process and what to do if you insist on sharing duties with your co-counsel. Give it a listen.

Ep.122 What's Your Come From? 06.08.2021

Do you catch yourself saying, "I have to" or "I should" a lot? Yeah, a lot of people do. What if I told you that you don't have to do anything, and in fact, thinking you do is leading to your unhappiness? There is a more empowering thought you can have. Learn what it is in this podcast episode.

Ep.121 Courtroom Leadership (Part 2) 30.07.2021

Join me for Part 2 of this two-part series on Courtroom Leadership. In Part 1, we discussed the two essential ingredients of leadership and how to attract followers. In this week's episode we discuss how to communicate leadership so that your followers can trust and believe in you. Give this podcast a listen to learn more.

Ep. 120 Courtroom Leadership (Part 1) 23.07.2021

What is courtroom leadership? And how do you communicate it? In this first episode we'll discuss the two essential ingredients of leadership and how to attract followers. In next week's episode we'll discuss how to communicate leadership so that your followers can trust and believe in you. Give this podcast a listen to learn more.

Ep.119 - When Fear of Failure is What is Motivating You 16.07.2021

What's worse? Losing trial or fear of losing trial? You might not believe me, but it's the latter. Using fear as a motivator will lead to a long, unhappy career. Give this podcast a listen to learn more.

Ep.118 How to Deal with Jealousy 09.07.2021

Jealousy. We all feel it from time to time. But instead of telling yourself to "get over it" there are three things you can do when you feel jealous of someone else's success that will help you get closer to your own goals.  Give this podcast a listen to learn what they are.

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