Run Your Money Show

I love some good tea, don’t you? In this week’s episode, I’m giving you the inside scoop on what relationships are REALLY supposed to be like beyond the 3rd or 4th date. I’m talking all the stuff you wondered about, all the stuff you suspected, and all the questions you’ve asked about the world of being “in love.” Want a little teaser? Relationships are NOT about compromise. WHAT? I know, right? I...

My caller today has discovered from other personal development resources that she doesn’t love herself. She’s concerned because she knows she needs to love herself before someone else can, but isn’t sure where to start. Like most of my coaching calls, we go to the unexpected, and specifically, asking the question: DO you have to love yourself first? How does she know she doesn’t love herself? If l...

I love a good pun, and when I came across Lynn Marie’s work, Quit Happens , I knew I had to introduce you to her. All things quit is scary AF. The stories we have around it, the unknown, the financial pieces, and more. But according to Lynn Marie, the more you can quit, the closer and closer you can get to your purpose and what makes you happy in life. https://veronicagrant.com/quit-happens/ Hoste...

Talking about your problems or having awareness as to why you attract partners you don’t want to attract often isn’t enough. In fact, awareness is only phase two of the 5 phases of personal growth… so if that’s all you do in therapy or talking things out with your friends, it’s easy to see why you haven’t seen the changes you want! In my call with Gina, we dive into concrete action steps she can t...

In today’s solo episode, I address a comment I received on my Facebook page. The comment was about how she was tired of people telling her women needed to change, and that shouldn’t men be doing this work too? I totally get the sentiment, because the truth is – the patriarchy is real! There IS a system in our society that tells women they have to look, act, or be a certain way to be palatable to a...

In today’s show, my caller is unsure of how to ask for what she wants and needs in her relationship without being bitchy or naggy. She’s also got these other questions swirling through her head, “Is he right for me?” “How can I ask for what I want without trying to change him?” and “What’s happening long term in this relationship?” All of these questions can feel overwhelming and cloud the issue a...

You’re going to be so inspired after listening to my interview with Kristen. If you believe now or have ever believed that you’re too broken or just not fit for a healthy relationship, this episode just might leave you in tears. From an abusive childhood, to codependent relationships, to a personal pilgrimage to southeast Asia, Kristen shares it all with us. Five years ago, she hit rock bottom, an...

You had a date! And it went well! Yay! Cue in the stress around the texting game and getting to the next date. This is what my caller Michelle is struggling with. As usual in my coaching calls, this isn’t just about the game and ‘how to text.’ https://veronicagrant.com/second-date/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is a question that came from one of my clients on Instagram, and honestly, I can’t believe I don’t have an episode on this yet! Speaking of Instagram, I’ll have take requests for podcast episode topics, so make sure you follow me there so you can tell me your requests too! You can do that here . https://veronicagrant.com/episode152 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today my caller on the show is dealing with a lot of fear around the new man she’s dating. She’s terrified of rejection, and because she doesn’t quite understand how she got herself into previous abusive relationships, she’s afraid she’s going to mess this one up. https://veronicagrant.com/episode151 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I always love my conversations with Veronica, honestly, they could go on forever! But we had to cut ourselves off to make this a reasonable length podcast. Here’s what you’ll learn: How to pull your birth chart and why your sun sign is only a small part of what the stars have in store What your rising and moon signs are (and why you want to pay attention them too!) What’s in store for the stars fo...

This episode is a bit different from what we usually talk about on the show, but it’s probably not surprising to hear that struggling to eat healthy can absolutely affect your relationship to men. Because there’s something underneath all those struggles, and what’s underneath is probably the same thing. If you struggle to “stay on track,” not emotionally eat, or eat what you know you “should,” thi...

This time of year is hard for a lot of people (despite what the Christmas movies and commercials convey), but I know how hard and triggering it can be. In this episode, you’ll learn what to do when you get triggered, how to deal with jealousy, and what to do instead of texting your ex. https://veronicagrant.com/episode148 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you feel like you’re doing all “the work,” but nothing’s changing, I want you to know you’re not alone. You’re not a loser, you’re not broken, and you’re not destined to end up with duds. I can’t say exactly why things aren’t going the way you want them to without talking to you personally, but my guess is you’ll get some good ideas after listening to my episode with Nicole. Like you, she feels...

As single women, it’s so easy to consciously or unconsciously to believe your life is about finding The One. So you spend your time, energy, and money doing just that. The problem with that is, it’s not who you are, and if you put all your resources towards it, you’ll probably begin to identify with it. But you’re not a woman who lives to date! My guest today in her work helps women to connect wit...

My caller today is struggling with a situation in her relationship where her partner still has contact with an ex. This brings up all kinds of old fear in her, and is leaving her waiting for the other shoe to drop. Of course, this question isn’t really about what to do in this situation, rather it’s about trusting yourself. So in our call, I help Juliette flex her self-trust muscle; and you’ll lea...

This week’s episode is just me, and the core of the work I do with clients. It’s called inner child work, and if you want to find love, doing this work is non-negotiable. In fact, I’m very clear with all my potential clients that they need to be on board with doing this. Because talking about profiles, texting, what you’re wearing or how you’re meeting people isn’t going to help you find love. Fin...

Vulnerability is required when it comes to creating the relationship you want. I rarely say you *have* to do anything because I want you to create your life and relationship on your own terms. But if you want the kind of love and relationships I talk about here, you must be vulnerable. My caller today is terrified of being vulnerable, and ultimately of being seen. It creates fear and anxiety that’...

In this episode, I interview my dear friend Norma on how she went from crazy stressed out TV producer to meditation teacher. If you’ve been following me for any length of time, you know I’m a huge believer in meditation. Meditation can literally transform how you react in relationships and dating, and in turn who you attract. Even if you feel like you’ve tried meditation or that it’s not for you,...

I’m so glad my caller today brought this question to the podcast: Am I experiencing karma? If so, how do I get out of it? The most common definition of karma is “what comes around is what goes around.” But that’s not what karma is, at all. Karma is actually the thing you’re soul is born with that it needs to learn or overcome in order to reach your soul’s dharma, ie, destiny. My caller today is co...

This week’s episode is just me, and I’m sharing a BIG lesson I learned in Bali. I won’t give it away here, but I’ll just say: learning this thing about myself  in Bali was really hard for me, and quite frankly, I was embarrassed this was still a “thing” for me. Aren’t I more evolved or conscious? I guess that’s what this work is all about. I’m sharing this profound lesson with you because I think...

If you’ve never been in a healthy relationship, it can be really easy to buy into the story that you don’t know how to have a healthy relationship. You don’t know what to do, how to be, or what to say. For my caller, this created so much fear that a part of her just wanted to stay single so she didn’t have to deal with the constant fear and self doubt that she’s screw everything up. As I coach Joa...

If you’ve been following me on Instagram, you know how disturbed I am by Brett Kavanaugh’s nomination, and the aftermath of multiple sexual misconduct allegations against him. Look, I’ll be honest, I was never going to like him because we fundamentally do not agree on a woman’s right to choose. Everyone’s entitled to their own opinion, so I can’t be *too* upset about that. Yes, I don’t agree, and...

My caller Nadia is calling in because she’s been in an on again off again relationship for the past 7 years that she wants to get out of for good. If you’ve been in a relationship like that before, I’m sure you can relate. You think you’re done for good, you know he’s not right for you… But then... loneliness hits, something happens at work, and you need some good old fashion comfort and something...

This is one of the most common questions I get, and I have to say, I have a love/hate relationship with the question. Love because when someone asks me this, love because it gives me an excellent view as to where they are emotionally and mentally. And hate (but not really hate) because it’s a question that has the askers playing small. So since it’s the #1 question I get, I thought I’d finally cre...