Rules and Tools

What does it really mean to be set apart? In this episode, we explore the hope of salvation, the power of renewal, and the call for believers to rise up and destroy darkness. From the prophecy in the Garden of Eden to the blood of atonement, this message reminds us that true faith requires action, holiness, and friendship with Jesus. Chapters: (0:00) Episode Preview (0:37) Healing for Our Land (1:...

Can God redeem even the darkest moments of your story? Mark Hollis, a Black Hawk Down veteran, shares how God turned his trauma into testimony and led him to bring the gospel to Malaysia. In this powerful episode, Mark and Jay sit down to talk about his firsthand experience in battle, the 30-year mystery of his missing trucks, and how obedience to God’s call brought healing and purpose. They also...

This week, we’re joined by Kimbra Ponquerne, who shares her powerful story of brokenness, healing, and freedom in Christ. From the early days of marriage to leading women’s encounters today, Kimbra walks us through the lessons God has taught her about unity, forgiveness, and the importance of setting intentional time with Him. We cover the struggles of misplaced trust, the pain of unforgiveness, a...

In this episode, we dive into the dangers of lukewarm Christianity and the urgent call to bold faith. From Charlie Kirk’s example of courage, to Job’s endurance through suffering, to the importance of repentance, we explore why believers can’t afford to compromise truth in today’s culture. We’ll talk about prayer being pushed out of schools, why the world can’t kill the eternal hope of a Christian...

What does it really cost to follow Jesus in today’s world? In this powerful episode, we reflect on the life and legacy of Charlie Kirk, exploring his boldness, self-control, and unwavering commitment to the truth—even in the face of danger. We’ll talk about what it means to mourn like Jesus, to stand strong when culture pushes back, and to step forward in courage when the easy path would be silenc...

In this episode, hosts Steve Prince and Jay Fettig unpack the story of the 10 lepers in Luke 17 and what it means for us today. From gratitude and obedience to practical steps for overcoming sin, this conversation is packed with encouragement and challenge. Steve shares his “elevator pitch” to a new believer, the importance of choosing direction over perfection, and why sometimes you need to clear...

What happens when winning stops being the most important thing? In this episode, coach Josh Ingram shares his powerful journey of transformation—from chasing victory on the field to leading with integrity, faith, and purpose. We talk about the call to coaching, the temptation to make football an idol, and the lessons learned through adversity. Josh opens up about praying with his players, witnessi...

In today’s episode, we explore what it means to live authentically—in business, in faith, and in life. From wearing a mask in the corporate world to fighting comparison and imposter syndrome, this conversation challenges leaders to embrace their true identity and walk with purpose. You’ll hear practical advice for new business leaders, the power of forgiving yourself, and how to “fail forward” wit...

Paula Jauch’s story begins with a childhood shaped by violence, bullying, and loss—and moves through years of survival, struggle, and searching for a way out. In this conversation, she shares the turning points that helped her heal, break free from generational patterns, and step into unexpected roles as a writer and prison ministry leader. It’s a raw and honest look at trauma, faith, and what it...

What does a deep, daily relationship with God really look like? In this heartfelt episode, Shane Humphrey returns to share how simple, intentional time with the Lord transforms everything—from your morning routine to the way you face life’s hardest challenges. We talk about the power of a prayer closet, the steps to start a real conversation with God, and how to recognize when He’s inviting you to...

Are your thoughts really your own? In this powerful episode, Bill Lewinski and Jay Fettig dive into one of the most important and overlooked questions in the Christian life: Where do our thoughts come from—and how can we know which ones to trust? We explore how to recognize the source of your thoughts, identify false beliefs, and discern between the voice of God and the lies of the enemy. You'...

What does the Bible really mean when it talks about “the world”? In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into the difference between “the earth” and “the world” from a biblical standpoint. From understanding what Scripture says about loving the world to what it means to gain the whole world but lose your soul, this episode will challenge how you think about your daily life, priorities, and purp...

What is true repentance, and why is it so critical in our battle against darkness? In this powerful episode, Jay sits down with Dean Vander Mey to talk about repentance as a key part of our relationship with God. They explore difficult but important topics, including satanic ritual abuse, dissociation, and spiritual warfare, and how repentance plays a central role in healing and spiritual breakthr...

Can a Christian be demonized? This question has many opinions and one that deserves an honest, biblical conversation. In this episode, Jay sits down with Dean Vander Mey for a real and eye-opening discussion about demonization and repentance, both topics that don't get talked about enough in the Church. They are both crucial parts of spiritual warfare, but are often overlooked. They dig into w...

Are you tired of feeling trapped and seeking spiritual freedom? In this video, we dive into the 7 Steps to Freedom at Set Free Ministries, a biblical approach to breaking free from the chains that hold you back. From identifying counterfeit freedom and idolatry, to overcoming self-protective vows and deception, we'll explore the path to true liberation. You'll learn how to replace bitterne...

In this message, we delve into the life of King David, a man after God's own heart. What made him so special in God's eyes? Was it his bravery in battle or his skill with a sling? No, it was his humility to say "I was wrong" and his willingness to repent when he failed. David's attributes, such as his passion for worship and his desire for a deeper relationship with God, set...

Join Jay and Joshua on the Rules & Tools Podcast as they dive into the Exodus journey and how it relates to our modern lives. Joshua shares his personal struggles with eating disorders and how the simplicity of the gospel set him free. They discuss how our phones can be our Babylon, and how we often prioritize appearances over true meaning. Jay and Joshua explore the importance of wrestling wi...

Bonnie's Testimony: https://youtu.be/gTjk3up8noI Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedom Join Bonnie Scheltema on Episode 57 as she shares her powerful testimony of transformation. Jay Fettig dives into Bonnie's Experience at Set Free, where she recounts the effects of her Freedom Appointment and how it transformed her marriage. Today, Bonnie is a volunteer at Set Free guiding wo...

In this episode, Jay Fettig is joined by special guest Daniel Bergsma as they delve into the concept of the fear of God. Defining what it means to fear the Lord, they explore the difference between holy fear and unhealthy fear, and how our reverence for God is just the starting point. Bergsma shares his insights on how our casual attitude towards God can lead to spiritual death, and why we should...

Is Deliverance Ministry talked about anywhere in the Bible? What is the Difference Between Deliverance & Freedom? These are just a few of the questions that Jay Fettig and Dean VanderMey tackled in this thought-provoking conversation. We will dive into the importance of having a biblical worldview and how it relates to spiritual strongholds, dealing with manifestations, and determining whether...

In this episode, Jay Fettig sits down with returning guest Joshua Collins to discuss the simplicity of the Gospel. They delve into the Hebrew definition of love and its connection to the second greatest commandment, highlighting the distinction between worldly love, which can be manipulative, and God's unconditional love. The conversation explores how we respond to God's love, and how we c...

Join Wayburn Dean and host Jay as they delve into the transformative power of song, from Grammy-winning heights to the unexpected depths of prison ministry. With 35 years of singing experience, Wayburn shares his first prison encounter, where he witnessed something he'd never seen before - authentic and spiritual worship that transcended the prison walls. But what is the real purpose of music? Is...

Join Jay Fettig and guest Steve Vander Molen on this episode of The Rules & Tools Podcast as they seek to understand God's plan and share a remarkable story of faith and loss. Steve takes us back to 2024, when his family embarked on a 1,000-mile snowmobile trip in Northern Canada. The dramatic turn of events at mile 26 changed everything. Jay and Steve dive into the heart-wrenching experie...

In this video, we're discussing the importance of discernment in our walk with Christ. How can we spot an impostor, and what are the signs of someone who diminishes the power of Jesus? We'll explore how Thomas's doubt was addressed by Jesus, and how this relates to the concept that "greater is the one who has not seen yet believes." We'll also examine the common misconception that archeology "prov...

"It's a miracle that you two are still together!" Join April and Shane Humphrey, a married couple who have been on an incredible journey of self-discovery and growth. They recently appeared as individual guests on the Rules & Tools podcast, but now return together with host Jay, sharing their inspiring story of overcoming challenges in their marriage. From struggling with porn ad...