Rudy A

Rude Advice Podcast

Society EN ↓ 109 episodes

With over 320K followers on TikTok, Rudy A is a Breakup and Relationship Coach and host of the Rude Advice Podcast. He’s helped thousands move on from heartbreak with raw, real-world advice. Married at 21 and divorced after 16 years, Rudy shares hard lessons and honest insights to help you heal, rebuild, and move forward. No fluff—just straight talk to get your love life back on track.

Author

Rudy A

Category

Society

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Latest episode

Jul 6, 2026

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Episodes

Men! Don't Get Married In Your 20s 14.01.2024

Ep64- Gentlemen, getting married in your 20s is a horrible idea. Your 20s are your opportunity for self-discovery, gaining self-respect, and finding your passions. Allow me to explain in further detail. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #divorce #donotgetmarried #marriageadvice #marriage #rudeadvicepodcast

Single Woman at 38 Rejected By Matchmaker 27.12.2023

Ep 62 - A single 38-year-old woman gets rejected by a matchmaker, yet blames everyone else. Also, a young woman uses marriage to escape her home. We’ll also talk about how my advice has been reported for hate speech on Facebook.  Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #divorce #modernwomen #datingadvice #tiktok #viralvideos #dating #rudya #rudeadvice #marriage

Men Need to Step Up | A Rude Rant 18.12.2023

Ep 61- After 3 years of coaching young men, I’m getting to a point where I don’t see a silver lining. I am honestly disappointed. Here’s my rant.  Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #divorce #dating #adviceformen #advice #lifeadvice #datingskills

Why 80% of Women File For Divorce 11.12.2023

Ep 60- Do women lack the strength and capability to manage the challenges of everyday life while also fulfilling the role of a wife? Is the increasing rate of marriages primarily due to the actions of modern women, or is the issue rooted in men’s behavior? COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the...

He’s Not Leaving His Wife For You 29.11.2023

Ep 58 - Today, I’ll be recounting a story sent to me by one of my followers. Additionally, I’ll delve into the tale of one of the first women I dated post-divorce—a passionate affair that concluded quite disastrously. Interestingly enough, she happened to be engaged at the time. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #cheating #datingamarriedman #cheaters #cheat #affair #shes...

My Husbands Ball's Stink! 27.11.2023

EP 57 - Do you find your spouse attractive? Do you desire your spouse sexually? Well, most women don’t according to a recent survey. Let’s talk about it.  Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #marriedlife #marriage #cheating #divorce #attractive #desire #staysexy #lessons #rudeadvice #rudya

Tatiana | Ghosts and TikTok Ended My Engagement 20.11.2023

Ep 56- TikTok megastar and friend Tatiana from Tatianas Creepy Storytimes is back for her 3rd visit to the Rude Advice podcast. Today we are discussing how her engagement ended because of her TikTok fame, and also how I am adjusting to living with a woman again after living on my own for 8 years.  Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Tatiscreepystories- https://beacons.ai/t...

31 Year Old Women Regrets Choosing Career Over Family 23.10.2023

Ep 55- Today, I react to viral videos highlighting the societal pressures placed on young men and women, concerning the expectation to start a family in their twenties and the traditional role of men as the primary providers for their families. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #marriage #lifeadvice #datingadvice #dating #rudeadvice #rudya #tiktok #kids

Are Men Allowed to Cry In Front of Women? 16.10.2023

EP 54 - Are men allowed to cry in front of their girlfriend, wife, or at all? Most young male influencers say never, especially in front of your women. ”When you cry, your woman turns dry.” Let’s talk about this nonsense. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #aremenallowedtocry #rudeadvice #rudyatiktok #rudya

”Just Leave!” - The Untold Abuse Men Experience in a Marriage 02.10.2023

EP 50- The husband who is a wonderful father that is verbally abused by his wife, is more common than you would think. Last week, my Tiktok video on this topic went viral and as of this recording, over 1 thousand men said they were in the same situation.  #domesticabuseonmen #verballyabusivewives #divorce #marriagelife #menmatter #divorced #tiktok #rudyaoffical #rudeadvice  Social Media Links Rudy...

How OnlyFans Is Destroying Men 29.09.2023

Ep49 - Since its creation in 2016, OnlyFans has rapidly grown year by year. In 2022 OF made over 2.5 billion dollars. Many men have ridiculed women for having an OF account, yet as of 2023 OF has over 190 million active users... 87% are men. Who is to blame for OF? The creators or the demand? Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #onlyfans #dating #relationships #onlyfansmod...

Ways Women Make Men Feel Unappreciated 18.09.2023

EP 48- My male audience demanded this episode. Men’s feelings are often disregarded or not given the attention it deserves. Why is that? In this episode, I talk about 7 ways women show their man unappreciation. I also speak about BOOBS, Rollo Tomassi, why women love the bad guy, and much much more! Coaching Sessions are now Available! Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and l...

4 Reasons Why Men Have Given Up on Women 15.09.2023

EP 48- ”I’ve given up. Women aren’t worth the trouble. I like my peace.” These are some of the responses I’ve received from my followers when I asked why have they given up on dating. Unlike generations before, men have lost all hope in finding a girlfriend or wife. Is this a product of social media or are women unworthy to pursue? Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #mgto...

SIMP! 7 Ways Social Media Has Ruined Dating For Men 11.09.2023

EP 46- The term SIMP has been used often on social media, but what does it mean? Since I started sharing advice, I have been called SIMP a few times. So I decided to start doing research on these men to see if I could find a pattern in their behavior. Needless to say, the results didn’t surprise me. Social Media Links https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #simp #datingadvice #dating #incels #advicefor...

Starting Over After Divorce: What You Need to Know 07.09.2023

Recorded LIVE ! Answering Viewer Questions on the following topics: 1. Co-Parenting Post Divorce and Dating 2. How do you know when it’s time to move on 3. Partner having friends of the opposite sex 4. Starting over after divorce 5. Realistic expectations on Intimacy and what either partner expects as a whole #divorce #startingover #divorced #dating #intimacy #rudeadvice

31 Lessons Your Father Should’ve Taught You 28.08.2023

EP 45- Did you have a good father in your life? How about a mentor or coach? I am blessed to have had all three and they've taught me a lot. At 46 years old, I've made many mistakes and have failed. I've learned that failure is life's greatest teacher, especially when you hold yourself accountable. I've had many wins and successes. A major part of those successes was what my father and mentors tau...

Annebella and Charlotte | Personality, Humor and Rizz Go A Long Way 21.08.2023

Ep 44 - Annebella and Charlotte host the Peasant Party Podcast in Austin, TX. We discuss dating in Austin and how much it’s changed over the past 3 years. How is more sexually aggressive, men or women? Also the power of charm, humor and charisma aka RIZZ. Why do women hate when you ask for their Snapchat? How to approach a woman and start a conversation and much more. Social Media Links Rudy A -ht...

Why 🫵 Are Not Ready for Marriage 🤵🏻‍♂️👰‍♂️💍 11.08.2023

Ep 43- Trigger Warning ⚠️ All the stories you’ll hear are real. Are you ready for marriage? In today’s episode, I’ll share true stories and scenarios about married life, that I know you aren’t considering. But they happen. I’ll also go over the most recent divorce statistics for 2023.  Forbes- https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/ Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linkt...

Coach Benny | How to Win Back Your Ex 31.07.2023

EP42- Your girlfriend just dumped you...what do you do? What do you say? Should you get back with your EX or move on? Benny the No Contact coach has been coaching for over 4 years and has a following of 125K on Tiktok. He has helped thousands get through a breakup and today he’s going to help you.  COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn...

Top 3 Dating Mistakes You’re Making Right Now 17.07.2023

Ep41-  Where are the worse places to go for a first date? What are the top 3 dating mistakes you don’t know you’re making RIGHT NOW? Can you approach modern women at a bar? My good friend Starr Demarco, host of the Cheap Suits Podcast joins me today to help you gents with your dating life.  For more advice, subscribe and follow my social media accounts below. New videos every week. Social Media Li...

Can Men and Women Be Friends? 11.07.2023

Recorded LIVE Ep 40 - Today, we'll ask the age-old question...Can men and women be friends? Can you still be friends with your ex? How do you fall into the Friendzone? Can you ever get out? Charlotte Warren, Taryn Sinatra, and my good friend Charles join the conversation.  Social Media Links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Officia Dating by Charlotte- https://linktr.ee/welcometothepeasantparty?u...

Sarah Dawn Moore | What Women Want From Men 03.07.2023

Ep39- Sarah Dawn Moore is a dating expert and YouTube superstar approaching 400k subscribers. We're talking about the truth about sex in today's dating world – what women want, how men can improve their dating life, and more.  Coaching Sessions are now Available! Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you dese...

Do Modern Women Appreciate a Good Man? 20.06.2023

EP 38- Levi Washington is a content creator on Tiktok with over half a million followers. His content speaks to finding inner peace, dating, and speaking against toxic behavior.

Dad Starting Over | Is your Marriage Over? 15.06.2023

EP 37 - Am I ready for a divorce? Will I lose everything? When should I start dating? How did I get here? Ralph with Dad Starting Over joins me once again to answer the most important questions you can ever answer. Are you ready to move forward? COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life yo...

Movies, SEX, Single Life vs Married Life and More SEX 05.06.2023

Ep36 - Cody Leach and Charles are part of my inner circle. They are my good friends and I wanted to provide everyone with something different with this episode. I wanted to show everyone my friends and me just hanging out. No script, no bullet points. Just three guys hanging out. We discuss movies, gangbangs, homophobia, the Little Mermaid, and blowjobs. Also being single vs married, my engagement...

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